One of my guy friends that I like A LOT has just got a myspace and I'm afraid that he's going to see another girl that he thinks is attractive and go with her and start talking to her... He's one of those guys that I wouldn't want to lose as a possibility of a relationship... What do you think I should do? I don't want to get hurt.. :(
And yes he's interested in me
2007-06-19 12:47:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's not interested in a relationship right now because he just got out of one
2007-06-19 12:49:47 · update #1
I don't want to come off as obsessive, so I don't know how to tell him that I like him?
2007-06-19 13:06:30 · update #2
First off you need to stop how you're thinking right now!
You are worried HE's going to find someone that is attrative and start talking to her...if you don't want to lose him, you need to stop thinking like that!~
In LOVE and LIFE there are no guarantees about not getting HURT* it's a chance you need to take~* Tis better to have loved than to not have loved at all*
I also would like to comment,..when ppl have that Myspace or Facebook, I find it's a bunch of hogwash, gossip..and when someone is mad or jealous..they can start crap on there and it can hurt alot of ppls feelings.
You're going to have to TRUST your friend that he wont be looking elsewhere....tis ok to LOOK but not to touch~
If he is looking for somene "attractive" and obviously you're feeling you're not so much ...at the moment...you need to build up your self esteem, it will shine through* He would be pretty shallow to be looking to find another g/friend that is more attractive. I think it's just your insecurities talking right now*
Be Yourself..and be confident within yourself. If he finds another on myspace or where ever, then he's not the guy for you*
GoodLUck*
2007-06-19 13:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he looses interest in you there's not much you can do about it. Especially if he is interested in dating other people.
He does not have to meet another girl on My Space, he can meet other girls at school, the store, etc..
You should talk to him and find out ho w he feels about you. If he wants to be serious then watch his actions and hope that he is sincere. If he's not serious about you, then create your own MySpace page and meet new guys.
Most importantly, you have to have confidence in yourself that you are a good person and that you will have people that admire and want to be with only you. If not then it is his loss.
2007-06-19 19:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres so many h0ez on myspace its not even funny! i totally know how you feel. Well are you guys even talking? If you are and if he's a good man he'll know that those girls are not take home to mom girls. If he does decide to talk to someone he doesnt know on the internet instead of you....somethings up. Just let it ride but dont mention that it bothers you cuz he'll just do it more. its human nature especially with boys.
2007-06-19 19:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be that girl ur worried about! u start talking to him first! if he's interested and ur interested then wheres the question? Go for it! He should be able to take the hint that u like him and he likes u so where the problem in that? I don't see one. so just talk to him and don't be anyone but u because if he's one of ur friends he'll notice and he'll have an excuse to say that u've changed so be you! and just let him know ur interested!
good luck! ;-D
2007-06-19 19:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by becca100100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you have time in the day to have a life when you are constantly worrying about someone attracting this guy's attention? there aren't enough hours in the day to spend obsessing over it.
tell him that you want to be more than friends. either he'll date you or he won't. but he's young and attractive so he's going to pursue other girls. you can either get out and try to enjoy your life or keep acting like an obsessed fan.
2007-06-19 19:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by t g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really is hard being a girl eh?
I'm guessing you're round my age (15 if you ask..) Like everybody else, everybody around our age are easily infatuated and naturally lusts for love (not sex but the feeling of being loved). A guy who sees girls like cards in a poker game(example: discard the unneeded and draw another one) to achieve his goal (w/c is to feel loved) shouldn't really push his luck before he's ready to support a family.
If my guess is right (about your age, I mean), try to find someone else. That guy's just a shark looking for his next meal...
2007-06-19 19:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by Coin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three words: GO FOR IT! i mean he is interested in you right so you should just go out with him and if you get hurt then you should just go out and find someone else because there are a lot of fish out there in the sea and some of those fish are pretty tasty so Good Luck!
2007-06-19 19:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did the thought of actually talking to him instead of complaining here ever cross ur mind????if u`re a little shy and think that u can`t talk to him....try flirting with him...letting him know u like him so that he will make the move....if u`re gonna stay and watch u won`t acomplish anything
2007-06-19 19:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by kory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop being lame if you want him go and get him dont expect him to sit around and wait for you i've got news your not that special if you would make him wait for you and expect him to not find someone else. I pray that hes not that sprung by you. You want him you need to go get him dont try and hope he doesnt find another girl no do something about it make sure he knows you care.
2007-06-19 19:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mr1NCR3D1BL3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are so attracted to each other then what are you waiting for? If your so scared then go after him.
2007-06-19 19:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋