Family & Relationships - 18 June 2007

husband and i are actively involved in aa. recently I had a relapse that lasted three days and when my husband found out he flipped out....locked me out of our law office, left the house and is still staying at a motel....is this normal or a little over kill?>

2007-06-18 23:57:17 · 15 answers · asked by a_cervantez05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys and girls- do you personally think big breasts attractive or unattractive?
I dont really like having big breasts. I'm thinking of getting a reduction. They are uncomfortable and when i wear tight tops i feel like I'm trying to flaunt it or something which i am definately not.

2007-06-18 23:35:59 · 11 answers · asked by clairebear 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 23:28:49 · 19 answers · asked by Brandi S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my gf (girl friend) our going through a really rough patch. My gf don't know wot she want's. this has bin going on for a while now and every now and then she will tell me that she don't love me and that she don't really know wot she want's. then the next she's pulling me close and holding me then she's pushing me away again. i got to the stage where i couldn't take anymore so i called it a day. Now i've ad time to think and i want to stay wiv her she means the world to me! but she say's that it hurts her but she also felt free. she's now saying that she needs time to be alone to think and i understand this and i'm giving her the space, but it's tearing me apart and i really dont know wot to do. and i don't know how much more i can take. please no **** i'm fucked as it is

2007-06-18 23:26:55 · 14 answers · asked by predator 2 in Singles & Dating

what makes you men proud of, yr beautiful & sexy gilrfriend/wife or yr succesful/educated woman.... Please choose one

2007-06-18 23:24:35 · 10 answers · asked by Darr L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-18 23:13:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i find questions they have either asked or answered? who knows, it could be you!!!

2007-06-18 23:04:49 · 2 answers · asked by Candii JoJo is a groovy chick. 5 in Friends

i think thats unacceptable.. and solicting..

2007-06-18 23:01:43 · 17 answers · asked by tania 2 in Friends

2007-06-18 22:59:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 22:58:18 · 23 answers · asked by RAJ 1 in Singles & Dating

what i think is that, most husbands when after work go somewhere else like bars and meet other people rather than go home to their wives coz they want to be loved and comforted after a day work, in bars they are entertained, while in the house when they go home they feel nothing.

i think this is the reason why married people tend to find something else?

2007-06-18 22:58:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Decided to abstain from sex till i get married. But sometimes the urge comes & it hits me hard. & as for masturbating i hate it but it seems like it's an option.

2007-06-18 22:53:33 · 13 answers · asked by nkemnonchalant 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this girl, she likes me alot and i like her alot. but like she went out with my cousin in middle school. Which was like 2 years ago. She doesnt like him but you know hes my cousin i love him.

Me and this girl can get together whenever i want. She wants to go out with me. But since she went out with my cousin i dont know. But in my head its like they went out in middle school should it really matter? I think in my mind he still likes her, because he caught us making out, and he got really, mad this happend like couple weekends ago. Does he still have feelings for her? They went out so long ago...He tells her he doesnt care and stuff. And with me he acts comepletely the same like as if nothing ever happend. Were good buds. But now hes trying to hook us up like in a desperate act. But she told me he keeps trying to get back with her. But shes like in love with me is what she tells me, I like her alot but not love. Should i move it further with this girl or not? Whats his prob?

2007-06-18 22:53:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 22:52:06 · 3 answers · asked by Fresher2000 1 in Singles & Dating

You and your friend decide to go over to her house for a bit. You tell your husband that you will be back in like 20 minutes. Well, you go to your friend's house, and you know how females get, you both start yapping away and before you realize it, an hour has gone by. When you realize that, you immediately call your husband to let him know that you are on your way home. However, when you tell him that, he replies, "No! Give me 10 minutes.". Of course, you question him because you are thinking what the ****, right? Well, he says, "I will come and get you guys in 10 minutes." You are somewhat puzzled about that because the house that you are at is only a block for yours. All you have to do is cross a playground to get home… you can see your front yard from your friend's patio in her backyard. So, you pass the phone to your friend and she talks to your husband. She gets the same story.

Do you there is something weird about this situation or is it just me?

2007-06-18 22:50:36 · 8 answers · asked by legalstudent25 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i guess i'd say im popular. i am friends with almost everyone. but how do i slow down everyone expects something of me. how do i spread myself so everyone i can help anyone? help?!

2007-06-18 22:46:27 · 14 answers · asked by lets-dance-the-night-away 1 in Friends

I hear that using a premarital agreement one can decide how much he/she should pay in the case of divorce.(like 50,000etc)

is it true?....

2007-06-18 22:42:53 · 4 answers · asked by Deep_S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ASSUME - your mother took you away from your father and his family after bonding w/them since birth till 4 or 6 yrs old, would you be able to remember those years?
What age did you started to ask questions.
Did you asked questions and heard both sides of the story?
If your mother did you wrong, did you forgive her?
Did you forgive you father for not fighting harder for you?
If this has happen to you please tell me your story.

2007-06-18 22:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a court case coming up soon (on 23rd June) - I have been advised by my lawyer that 'vakalat will be posted' - I need to know what this means? Is it a way to gain some time i.e. delay the hearing..? Or what?

2007-06-18 22:39:24 · 3 answers · asked by MGM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my girlfriend have been argueing constantly over the last couple of weeks over little petty things and she always keeps things from me when i try to ask her things but then when she asks me things she expects an answer we never get time alone anymore and it is starting to realy begin to get to me and today we have been texting about it n now she dont want me to stay at hers i do near enough everything for her but now she planning to take a day off work for some reason which is so secretive but she dont want me there does anybody have a clue what i should do

2007-06-18 22:30:37 · 9 answers · asked by chrislambert3 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do we do it?
Is it a must?

2007-06-18 22:26:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Am getting married next year and need to know if the groom, pageboy and best man should be wearing matching suits or if they need to be the same colour, am having trouble finding one for my 8yr old son to match the grooms suit. Please help!!!

2007-06-18 22:24:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I had the worst day of my life yesturday, I losted my bag in ASDA realised and park in a disabled bay to see if it was still there (it wasnt) and then got a £90 fine for parking in the wrong place. I dont know how I am gonna pay it. Someone please cheer me up!! Plz x

2007-06-18 22:18:01 · 18 answers · asked by Angelkiss85 5 in Singles & Dating

Last night we booked our wedding, 19/07/2008. We are having a civil wedding in a lovely hotel, followed by wedding breakfast, then an evening reception. Cam anyone recommend any good wedding plan websites so I can work out how much time I need for every planning stage.

Many thanks

2007-06-18 22:04:16 · 7 answers · asked by cavviecath 3 in Weddings

2007-06-18 22:00:13 · 8 answers · asked by RAJAN P 1 in Friends

a friend of mine is about to marry somebody with different religion and culture. she wants to hold a joined memorable wedding for friends that combined both culture.

have anyone been into any wedding like this?

detailed explanation will be very much appreciated.

budget is not a very big problem, however, she doesn't want to spend that much. she wants it too be a sweet ceremony

a separate wedding for both family will be held too.

2007-06-18 21:57:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i lost my mom 2 years ago.it seems that ive been too affected on what other people are saying behind my back.ive become too sensitive and i would always end up enraged deep inside of how insensitive they get to talk about things that they dont understand...esp coming from relatives not just from other people and even if i explain it to people and relatives alike, they would just shrug their shoulders as if they didnt hurt me or my family by being gossip mongerers or simply prying on someone else's personal family matters. i have been reclusive and would not want to affiliate myself with family gatherings anymore.i feel being a hypocrite, smiling and being angry at the same time.id rather be true to my feelings. unfortunately,it has also affected my career.i need to overcome this feeling.mind you, who doesnt love their own mom, esp the respect from other people...cant they give it a break?! #$&#$&$%^

2007-06-18 21:52:25 · 5 answers · asked by jei e 1 in Friends

When a guy says that there is no chemistry between him and you, what exactly does it mean? Even if you get along fabulously well, does that mean there is no chemistry?

2007-06-18 21:46:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alter the dress in case I decide to get married again? It's an off the shoulder with a catherdral length train and very detailed. I never had it preserved and really don't know what to do with it. It's taking up space in my closet and have no room for other clothes or shoes. I really love the dress, and I wanted to have the dress colored with a light pink or light blue and have tiny flowers attached to it. The sleeves I never liked because of the buttons and I had planned on removing them and altering the sleeves a bit without the buttons. I like the open cut sleeve type thing. I wanted to make the train shorter and I like the fluffiness of the dress. The train has grass stains on it and I haven't had it dry cleaned since I wore it on my wedding day. What should I do? What would you do? Please help me! Should I sell it, give it away, donate it or what?

2007-06-18 21:36:09 · 11 answers · asked by RAVEN 3 in Weddings

my best friend lied on me she told every body that i'm a prostitut because she is jalous of me because i have more money than her and when i said to her that i heard what she said on my back she didn't even come to apologise

2007-06-18 21:28:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends