Family & Relationships - 18 June 2007

My husband and I have been having problems. He met a woman online and says there "just friends". He has gone out several nights in a row to meet her going to the bar etc. He comes home at like 3am when he has to be up for work at 5am. He won't talk to me and will talk to her. He gets really defensive and has been acusing me of cheating on him when I confronted him about it. He will only admit to kissing her on the cheek. I don't know whta to think? He doesn't spend anytime with his daughter and I and complains that he doesn't get to spend time with her. Am I over reacting or did her cheat?

2007-06-18 13:55:40 · 21 answers · asked by M. S. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

been split now for nearly 8 months and in that time ive had no contact or even seen her...we were together for 2 years the reason we split was because my family gave her a hard time and she thought i was changing witch i must admit i was....but ive found myself now and am in the british army and she said while we was together she would be so proud of me if i got in....so am thinking of reappearing at her house while on leave from the army!!!
but am lost into how to reappear at her house (flowers,army uniform,choco's,)
any ideas would be great guys cheers !!!

2007-06-18 13:54:08 · 11 answers · asked by killergibbo1111 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do they are so sexy and i want to have sex with one

2007-06-18 13:53:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i date this really cool latino guy and i lik him alot and we've liked each 4 2 or 3 years. we've been goin out 4 about a week and my parents lik him but they wont leave us together alone...like we were chillin in my pool the other day(talkin) and my dad was lookin out the window the whole time! we couldnt do lik anythin. we r both not used 2 it but we try. its really hard 4 me and i no its hard 4 him 2. i lik him alot and im scared that he'll brake up w/ me cuz of this. plz help me...thnkz so much!!

xoxox,
~*samantha*~

2007-06-18 13:53:08 · 15 answers · asked by ~*samantha*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

...on what other people think of them>>>>

2007-06-18 13:49:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 13:46:30 · 11 answers · asked by Page 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you let your signifigant other flirt online? How far would you let it go?

2007-06-18 13:46:07 · 14 answers · asked by rew78980 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive had so many bad relationships where the guys were idiots, i figured that in the relationship im in now im scared that something will go wrong like im jinxed.

2007-06-18 13:45:30 · 18 answers · asked by ifyouonlyknew 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my boyfriend is a good guy overall but does things that bother me so much i think about breaking off with him. he is very bad with the cell phone its been going on pretty much the entire time ive been with him and we have been together almost 2 years. anyway ill call and call he calls back when he wants to even if its the next day he does this with his friends also.

he knows it bothers me and in the end i feel he has control over me becuz i get so angry he doesnt answer. ill text him hell ignore me especially if we are in a fight. i know i should do the same thing to him but he is stubborn i feel like it wont bother him as much as it bothers me, so it leaves me to this question

what can i do to gain back the control? make him wonder, but not to much, do something to drive him crazy. any advice, would be great

2007-06-18 13:45:24 · 2 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is getting married in 3 weeks. I planned a dinner for her with a little group of friends to get together before her big day. (Please keep in mind, we are not too thrilled about her decision to marry her fiance-he's cheated on her numerous times.) She recently sent out announcements to some, but not all, of us. Needless to say, those who didn't receive an announcement, understandably, no longer want to attend dinner. I'm stuck...I feel like the middle man once again. Please help.

2007-06-18 13:45:24 · 8 answers · asked by tan_girl 2 in Weddings

invites you to her birthday bash.....is she hitting on you??

2007-06-18 13:43:32 · 14 answers · asked by dodge 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is 2 years old, can I enroll him in school when he is of kindergarten age?

2007-06-18 13:43:18 · 4 answers · asked by oythebumbler 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do they like it when his girlfriend and him are making out and she puts her hand on one of his legs really close to his pe***?

weird question i know but whatever i dont care

Additional Details

1 minute ago
after i have done this do u think he would try and grab my boob or what would he do

39 seconds ago
he's not shy at all sooooo

2007-06-18 13:42:38 · 4 answers · asked by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

AND is your partner uncomfortable with it? Nothing wrong with getting attention, but if you TRY to get it, then it's like you may need it. Guy or Girl question. OPINIONS?

2007-06-18 13:42:11 · 24 answers · asked by waawaazzzzat 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems there always complaining how dudes are the pigs yet it seems they like to be passed around like a baton. On one of my highschool trips these two getto dudes were making out with these 2 girls and they were switchin partners on top of it. In another case this freshman girl let this punk do anything with her. Yet the clean cut dudes like me are always rejected when it comes to asking girls out. Why do girls like to go out with the "bad guys" pure ignorance!

2007-06-18 13:41:51 · 10 answers · asked by Dan T 1 in Singles & Dating

I got married in 2003 to a woman I thought loved me and treated me well, I even adopted her children from a previous marriage. Soon after I signed adoption papers, the marriage began to unravel, I was more and more having to do everything from making what money I could to tending the children and doing nearly all of the housework when I had the energy left, while she began having affairs while I was at work, played video games, shopped or talked on the phone all day. Now that we are divorced, and she swears that she wanted a clean break as I do, she wants me to keep so-called parental rights to the children even after she's convinced them that I'm a bad person so she can collect almost $900 a month in child support in exchange for 'reasonable visitation'. btw, she's never held a steady job and always lived with 'financial' assistance from her family and 'friends'

2007-06-18 13:41:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I caught a Peeping Tom booing me.

2007-06-18 13:40:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i had to hang up with my boyfriend .. i called him back like 2 minutes later and i guess he accidently left the phone off the hook. .. i always call him back because he is afraid to call my house so like ... yeh his phones been off the hook so when i call it's busy is there ny way i can reach him?!

2007-06-18 13:40:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i am soo uncomfortable around my ex's best bud,cause after my ex and i broke up ,his best friend been coming on really bad and last week at my best friend's b-day party(he one of my best friend's cousin) he confess to me about his feeling and asked me out ! he gives me 2 week to think about it ,what should i do? what's the best way to say no,w/out hurting his feeling?

2007-06-18 13:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, I met this girl through my buddy. My buddy is dating this girl's cousin. My buddy was going to cedar point his past weekend and invited me to go since his girlfriend and her cousin would be going also. While I was there me and her cousin completely fell for each other. My question is, how am I to deal with a relationship over 450 miles away? By the way, I'm only 16, so I cant drive over. Plus I have a very protective mother who'd never let me go that far to someone's house she didnt know. Please help me out! She tells me she loves me and she misses me and I fell the same way times 10. Please help.

2007-06-18 13:39:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 13:38:56 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 13:38:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm almost 18 and once I turn that age I was planning on renting an apartment with my best girl friend(who's also 18). One of my other friends(who's a guy + 19) wants to live with us too. My parents don't like him much. Once I'm 18 can my parents control who lives in the apartment with me?

2007-06-18 13:37:23 · 5 answers · asked by ♥kisses_in_the_rain♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

if your boyfriend says he's busy but hangs out with his friends...and has no time for me...what should i do????

2007-06-18 13:37:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but I think he has a girlfriend but i dont know why i like him hes just nice and a good drawer, also he's pretty cute!

2007-06-18 13:36:48 · 7 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife is extremely lazy. Won't cook, unless she feels like it. I have to constantly tell her to do things or remind her that she needs to do this and that. She can never do things automatically. She does not know how to take care of a hardworking man. I work very hard, to pay all the bills, which is okay with me. But when a woman cannot pack U lunch for work or get her lazy *** up to make breakfast, that makes me want to work even more. She always, hangs out with her family [brothers, sisters and mom] and always puts them first, even before her own husband. I am so miserable with her performance as a wife in general. Finally, last but not least. She hates all the things, that I really enjoy out of life in general with my heart. I cannot even enjoy drinking a beer or two, I cannot go dancing, when I love to dance out once in a while. I always go [alone] to the movies, shopping, play pool, cookouts, etc. I can never enjoy my life in total happiness with this kind of woman.

2007-06-18 13:36:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy n i think he likes me.he asked if i wanted to hang out last week, so we went to the movies. a week later he called me to ask if i wanted to go out with him this week n that also that he wanted to to see me before he left for china since he is gonna be gone for a month. where should we go? does he like me? what should i do!!!!!?

2007-06-18 13:35:56 · 3 answers · asked by purplepunkprincess 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean, I don't want you to explain this. Don't tell me one's personality is great or something. Just admit it. I appreciate it. I think it's one of top three hypocrisy in the world. You just have to admit it. Please don't tell me things like A-class actress says in interviews. Please.

2007-06-18 13:35:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't get it I'm confused!

My boyfriend and I have been dating now for 2 year I love him and everything but we don't talk as much. Recently he's been text me and I can't even be bothered to text him back. Today I had to stop into work he works with me and I didn't even bother to go say Hi to him. He calls and I don't pick up sometimes. Sometimes I do though. Like I'm just not in the mood to talk to him.

Other part of story:
My boyfriend was supposed to be coming to my graduation tomorrow night but instead chose to go to play basketball with the boys. He told me Tuesday nights were his basketball nights and he couldn't miss it but would attend my graduation party.

I'm so confused!
why do i not care?
is it because I'm hurt?
someone help!

2007-06-18 13:32:41 · 6 answers · asked by AskRita!? 1 in Singles & Dating

A couple months ago, my husband took a job out-of-state... Sure, I wanted to talk about it, but apparently, he though that was unnecessary. He started this new job the same week I started at the local vocational school (1-year course).

This separation isn't working, so we've decided I need to move... I think. I took last week off to look at housing, (credit sux, can't get a home loan, so it was all appartments), and worked on arrangements for me to transfer to a school in the new town.

Now, my husband is suggesting "creative" housing options....
1) Staying with a friend- the same place he's been staying. No, I've been the "gracious hostess"... not going to do that to someone else.
2) Get a monthly-rate motel room. WTF??!? I'm not some kind of transient who has to stay in a motel because we can't get a freaking apartment.
3) Motor home. Again w/the transient issue. I refuse to settle for a half-a$$d home.

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2007-06-18 13:31:52 · 4 answers · asked by Yoda's Duck 6 in Other - Family & Relationships