Family & Relationships - 18 June 2007

I am in love with a guy very much. He is in the army in ASIA we are both here. He is not an American and not US the army..different system. He is shy so he just leaves his phone to get my SMS and leaves me messages on his IM ID. I knows he cares about me I always tell him everything and I love him only! Even if I go out dancing etc...I will tell him because I love him very much I even send him care packages every week!
I told him I love him and want to be with him but I am not sure how he feels..

2007-06-18 21:26:29 · 4 answers · asked by iloveanairforcesoldier 1 in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with a boy but found out after the fact that he has a girlfriend. He and her are not happy though. They always fight and she is very controlling and jealous. He always flirts with me and I know he has a thing for me. What should I do?

2007-06-18 21:24:34 · 17 answers · asked by michelle84 2 in Singles & Dating

Does it matter, even if the guy is good looking

2007-06-18 21:19:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last saturday I was out on the town with some girlfriends and got flirting and talking with a guy. But then my friend said she wanted to leave, even though she knew I fancied this guy so we left the pub! Needless to say I was annoyed, Im very shy and unconfident around men anyway, which makes it harder.

2007-06-18 21:12:56 · 18 answers · asked by Nicola C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 21:07:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went on a date this weekend and I think I am going crazy. All I can think about is him. I feel like a 46 yr old teenager. I met him on one of the internet dating page and I have been totally honest with him about what I expect and he wants the same. I think the Lord broke the mold when he made him. He is 6'3" romantic good looking. He is so sweet, he opens the doors for me and get this he doesn't drink, smoke or take stupid drugs. We talked for 3 hours at the reserant and it only seemed to be 10 min. I have never been in love at first sight but is this what it is like? I want to call him but I don't want to seem desparate. We got along so well he asked me on a second date next week end. I guess you could call me sleepless in OK.

2007-06-18 21:06:21 · 14 answers · asked by Reta, Bears mommy 4 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who I have had the biggest thing for, we have known each other 5 yrs
I was with someone at the time and had a child by my(ex hub) but since my friend was around everyone thought it was his My daughter was born in 2003 now my friend and I have got in touch again and today he told me he wants to be a daddy now I need opinons here is he saying he want's to be a dad to my daughter or he wants me to give him the chance of being a real dad
(my ex walked out 2 yrs ago) I am still very much in love with my friend what should I do

2007-06-18 20:53:09 · 9 answers · asked by alew 3 in Friends

my husband is having an affair with one of our ofismates, the girl was assign in different projects but every afternoon they've seeing each other, and me doing nothing in our house waiting for him. he's always telling me thats why he's always going home late because he'll solve his problems....one day i found out that he has an affair.... and i decided to see the woman... and the three of us when for talking ang i told my husband to chose between the two of us, and he chose me... my husband is laways telling me that they we broke up already when the time ive found out. he's always keeps telling me that he's back.. many of our friends also telling me that he just couldnt get out of the relationship he had to the other woman. now o told him that im giving back my trust on him. but still i have doubts but as i can see he's doing everything to make up with me... the point is if he's really back on me for good?

2007-06-18 20:44:44 · 14 answers · asked by bliss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm eighteen and I was a virgin before I married. My husband wants sex every night and some nights all I want to do is cuddle and talk. Am I being selfish?

2007-06-18 20:43:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so you're dating a cute chick, and you meet her really hot sister, but they're equally cool (with very similar personalities) - - would it bother you a lot that you weren't with the hotter one?

2007-06-18 20:42:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 20:41:38 · 5 answers · asked by nilesh kul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-18 20:40:09 · 5 answers · asked by so alone 3 in Weddings

to me there are three stages: cute, pretty and plain ol beautiful. cute is when someones beauty comes out naturally. pretty is when cuteness is helped by make up, clothing and other accessories. finally being categorized as beautiful is when someone is excessively pretty in an unexpected way. for example doing or wearing something out of the norm i.e something unique and actually pulling it off with what you have or got. any other opinions??

2007-06-18 20:39:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and to cuddle? or do you get what you get and in my case be deprived forever?

2007-06-18 20:37:40 · 9 answers · asked by :) 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for quite sometime, 2+ years. We are both in our mid-20's. We've discussed marriage, but not heavily.

Recently, I saw a beautiful engagement ring. I thought it would be cute to send a picture of it to my boyfriend, in an e-mail. He likes me to spend him pictures of jewerly I like, b/c he's clueless on what to get for birthdays and such. So, it's not like I'm being rude about the cost or anything.

What do you think? Too bold. I mean, in our discussion of marriage, we discussed being together. So, that's not the issue here. It's just futhering the conversation to a potential agreement on when we would like to get married, etc.

2007-06-18 20:36:20 · 8 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Considering how many people who meet others through websites like this and MySpace, can you have a normal friendship with someone you've never met?

Are you willing to open up to a complete stranger and pour your heart out?

Or are people's persona's on the internet completely differnt to who they are in person that if you let them become your friend, Their not being themselves.

So, whats your veiw :-)

2007-06-18 20:35:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wanna be frends?
i'm not desperate or anythin...

but if u wanna be then mail me at

rock_candy_misty@yahoo.com

thankx ^_~

2007-06-18 20:32:05 · 5 answers · asked by mystery 1 in Singles & Dating

I only get to see her about three times a week or so. I always think about her, and most of the time when I think about her and she isn't around I always think she is cheating on me... How can I just... trust her? She didn't do anything to make me not trust her, I just don't I guess.

2007-06-18 20:30:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how does it get started ?

2007-06-18 20:25:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/philosophical_enquirer
GENERAL PHILOSOPHICAL DEBATE

http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/Philosophical_Singleton
PHILOSOPHICAL DEBATE FOR THE SINGLETON

http://www.1party4all.co.uk
TRUST IN YOUR PRINCIPLES, NOT PARTIES OR POLITICIANS!

2007-06-18 20:21:58 · 31 answers · asked by Andromeda 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-18 20:21:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For both boys and girls....
,

2007-06-18 20:21:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i make new friends and how do get to know my classes? any idea how to act

2007-06-18 20:15:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

not like i wanna do something like that im just curious btw did u know hawaiians did this maybe thats why some of them have hemophila

2007-06-18 20:12:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have tried talking to her about her drinking but she just gets abusive when I do. I thought for a while I had convinced her and she had stopped but yesterday I found a stash of vodka she has been secretly drinking. She doesn't think that she has a problem so what can I do to convince her?

2007-06-18 20:09:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A few hours ago my boyfriend and i had our routine arguement about his loose comments to females on myspace. They aren't anything crazy, just a "NICE" or "WOW" comment to ladies he is familiar with before we even met. However, he has had a track record of doing more than one word comments practically confessing old crushes to high school classmates which he was caught reveil by my investigative skills. Now i have over stepped my boundaries and asked him not to tell these girls comments at all because he tells me the same comments on occassion which leaves me feeling less special to him. He became furious and didnt feel the need to explain himself, hence him telling me to not call back his house, he is finished with me and my nonsense and with a cracking voice he said, "now i could talk to whoever i want" and proceeds to get off the phone. I know I have trust issues but they were brought on because of him so how long should i wait to call him or do you think that everything is finished

2007-06-18 20:01:39 · 13 answers · asked by inluv926 2 in Singles & Dating

ok im eleni im17 k well i went out with this guy kas who is 24 we where together for 2 years and then i fell pregnant when i fell pregnant he decided to tell me then that he is already engaged 2 a girl overseas and he couldnt take it back so when i was 5months pregnant he went overseas and now he is married ..my son is 16months old so after this long he contacts me now .he has a baby girl that is 5 days old with his wife he tells me he loves me that im the best girl in the world that he wants to be with me his family know about me and have finally seen me and his son and want me to be his 2nd wife . the reason why we couldnt marry b4 he said was that he was iraqi and i am greek and his parents wont accept .now they do but his wife doesnt know anything about me or that he has a son with me i feel real bad for her as she doesnt know the life here in australia and is innocent and i feel like if i accept to marry kas that it will break her heart to find out all this time she has been lied2

2007-06-18 20:01:23 · 9 answers · asked by j 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My bestfriend is moving..so I bought her a gift and wrote her a letter,very very hard to do...so anyway I gave her that today and she was like thanks and I didnt expect that from you and that was it...,she said that she was THINKING about doing a letter..,I REALLY DONT mind that she didnt I love her ..
what do you think why didnt she cry..I was about too but ...

this is really hard and..well I put alot af thought and care in that letter because she is what I call a real friend...my friend.....

2007-06-18 19:58:45 · 15 answers · asked by little_kitty 3 in Friends

the one who complains about the other keeps on complaining and its driving me crazy. we used to be great friends and now we're in small seperate groups. what should i do?!

2007-06-18 19:57:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi I hope I get some answers that will help me out! I have been married for 5 years and have two wonderful girls. My husband has been verbally abusive as well as emotionally and one time he was physical with me. He keeps me at home and won't let me talk to friends. I didn't realize that this was considered abuse until one of my friends said that I have really changed for the worse and what is going on with me?! My daughters are getting old enough now where they see him constantly calling me names...etc. He can be the most wonderful dad and husband, but he has these "rage attacks" where he just flips out! I love him so much and I have left him once 6 months ago for treating me like this, but had him come back to work things out. Things got better...but now they are getting worse thenthe time before. He scares me and is unpredictable! I have a wonderful friend who wants me and my kids to stay with her and have told family members about this and they think this is bad.....

2007-06-18 19:54:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce