I only get to see her about three times a week or so. I always think about her, and most of the time when I think about her and she isn't around I always think she is cheating on me... How can I just... trust her? She didn't do anything to make me not trust her, I just don't I guess.
2007-06-18 20:30:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe the reason why you keep thinking of her cheating because you have not found things to occupy your time with. When you have free time, you think too much. This comes from experience haha. So maybe you should go out more with the guys when you don't see her or maybe go to the gym or something. If you have something to do, you won't been so caught up in thinking about what she is doing behind your back.
2007-06-18 20:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are away from her and your first instinct is to cheat on her then it could be one of the reasons you are suspicious of her. I think the best way to avoid that is to keep the communication lines open even when you are not together. The day you can't get together send her flowers or candy and chat online or text message each other--something that will make it feel as if you are having a conversation. That way she knows you are always thinking of her, because I think that's what it is. Otherwise your insecurities might lead you to do something stupid based on unfounded accusations/ 'thoughts' as you call them. Just RELAX, and do smth special for her every time those 'thoughts' come into your head. Will kill the suspicion right away. Spontaineity is the mother of Romance.
2007-06-19 03:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by shoxie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first suggestion is too relax. Think about weather or not you do trust her. If you don't then find out why you don't trust her. You must be secure in your relationship with her. If she is going to cheat on you, there is really nothing you can do to stop it. But to avoid it, make sure she has no reason to look at anyone else. You have to get these feelings under control. This jealousy will destroy your relationship if you don't get it under control.
2007-06-19 03:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by rklee0122 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the foundation of love, just like friendship, were u friends before this? if so u should know her and wether shes trust worthy.if not then u can normaly tell by how she acts around u or other boys. if she has done nothing to make u not trust her then stop worring.because if she was cheating on u then word would get around fast.exspecialy if she has lots of friendsso ud hear about it. stop worring and enjoy her company
2007-06-19 03:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by lindsey e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean! I went through the same thing. You just have to stop thinking of the worst case cenario. Not eveyone cheats. But if your really curious look at her past, has she ever cheated before, if so odds are she is. You have to trust yourself to trust her.
2007-06-19 03:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy will ruin a relationship. You need to trust her until she proves that she can not be trusted. Always give the benefit of the doubt. If you don't know her well enough to trust her, you should not be going out with her.
2007-06-19 03:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i kno how u feel man..for me there were signs an then she was an then i gave her a 2nd chance months later an i felt suntin an i broke up wit her,,,if u have evadence its better to end it
but if u dont an the next time u see her u hold her tight an tell her u luv her an see wat she says an the feeling
2007-06-19 03:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by grk_skater_lb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋