I fell in love with a boy but found out after the fact that he has a girlfriend. He and her are not happy though. They always fight and she is very controlling and jealous. He always flirts with me and I know he has a thing for me. What should I do?
2007-06-18 21:24:34 · 17 answers · asked by michelle84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't stand in the way of them, that will ruin things for them.
I know that it might sound good to you, but you never know if it would hurt him.. if timeflys by... and hes still flirting with you...
and hes still flirting with you, then just let him know that you care about him.. but don't be too upfront about anything. i had an experience with this.. except it was my boyfriend and his exgirlfriend was always telling him that she missed him, and it got him confused, and he started missing her too, even though he didn't want to. it ruined things for a little bit, and made things weird.. but now..everythings perfect again, and nothing stands in the way of our love. :) .. just stay on the side lines.. and let him know that you'll be there.. but don't say those exact words.
good luck
2007-06-18 21:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by ;asjhdf. =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a 'boy'..he has a girlfriend, regardless of how you think they act together. Of course she's jealous if she sees you flirting with him. You can't possibly 'love' him..you haven't been with him. You're lusting...back off and wait until they are totally broken up. Don't be the cause. He'll use you like he's used her. Sorry, but that's the facts.
2007-06-18 21:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fOUND OUT that he has a girlfriend..so he didnt just tell you. The fact that he has a girlfriend and that he's still seeing her ...doesnt mean that he's not cheating on you. He is just messing with you and just wants you around for the good times. Even though his gf and him are fighting...it doesnt mean that they broke up. The guy is a jerk and i think u should ignore him and find a guy who's not attacthed.
2007-06-18 21:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by WHATEVER!!` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to make a decision about that relationship (break up/stay together) before he should ever decide to do anything about you. I mean, what if you were that girl, would you want your bf to be flirting with someone else? Wouldn't you be a little jealous?
2007-06-18 21:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel, but also let him know that you don't want to hurt him or be a homewrecker. Just tell him that as a friend you wanted him to know the truth. But remember, if you win a guy who leaves someone for you, he could leave you for someone.
2007-06-18 21:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jason Stock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wreck what they have for you.
If things dont work out between them, wait till one leaves then make your move, cheating with someone causes heartbreak and fights, it's best to see what happens.
2007-06-18 21:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't play on the "they're not happy card",let them sort out their differences.They could work things out. If they don't, stick around and who knows ;-)
2007-06-18 21:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by chixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about your love....
Don't live in dream land......
take care of those who are near and dear to you...those who take care of you...your parents, your friends...your envoirnment...
There are several things which is to be done in life..
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2007-06-18 21:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly with him and pretend he doesn't have a girlfriend. Don't like not talk to him and stuff just cuz he has a girlfriend
2007-06-18 21:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by fashionista1027 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell him to pull his head in and either be with her and stop flirting with you or be with you and get the hell away from her. be brave its the only way
2007-06-18 21:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋