the one who complains about the other keeps on complaining and its driving me crazy. we used to be great friends and now we're in small seperate groups. what should i do?!
2007-06-18 19:57:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Pull yourself right out!I know how you feel. whenever my friends get in a fight im always in the middle and always told to make a choice!
2007-06-26 10:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what i had friend just like this is high school and what i did was just stopped hanging around people who always wanted to get mad and fight over stupid ****.....and now i got friends that arent like this at all and most of them all grew out of it, when u grow up more, u dont really fight no more..........i think it just a phase someone girl go throw........stick with the friends who seems to be real friends and dont let nothing bother you........realy friends are there and dont get mad so much.........just go with the flow, have fun and enjoy times with friends who want to have fun rather then spend all there time fighting trust me!!!!!!!!
2007-06-26 15:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be loyal to yourself....in other words ....if you don't like the complaining and it's driving you crazy don't listen to it...find something besides what is going on to preoccupy your time....maybe make some new friends....
maybe given enough time your friends will come around and work things out.
2007-06-19 03:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by lm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so common for girls, that's why when i was young I wanted to be a boy and with boys all the time. When one of your friends complains to you about another, just say "Look, I like both of you, and this is not my problem, please do not ask me to choose, and please do not talk about our friend behind her back, I wouldn't do it to you and I won't do it to her either. And, by the way, make more friends, soon.
2007-06-26 19:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me our group is like dat...1 of ma riends complains about the other...when she's around her she acts like she's her best friend...then we have 1 dat who complains about anythin...then we have 1 who says they are B**** but acts all friendly to her...it is a none stop thing and i'm in da middle so the best thing to do is agree wif every1 (just nod ur head) or tell emm to p*** off and stop complain either way u have to choose between ur ground and choose who ur real friends r!!!
2007-06-19 03:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your friends togather and tell them to make up or just sing that song i dont know what its called but say this around them "clowns to the left of me and jokers to the right and now im stuck in the middle" add "this is really buging me so MAKE UP be friends again"
2007-06-27 01:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by baha_rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will not stay the same.I heard of similar stories.You just have to live w/ the changes.And God bless you with a new set of friends.
2007-06-26 21:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens like this among friends.
have talk with ur friends about this
may be u can solve this problem when u people have a talk and come to understand each other
2007-06-19 04:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by preyanka r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that u r gettin tired of them complaining about eachother and if not get new friends
2007-06-26 19:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by ;layla m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them both to grow up who needs such cattiness.
hang out with whomever you want.
dont let the negative talk influence you. if they start up, just ignore it and change the subject. why waste time on such foolishness.
2007-06-27 00:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by mgarris2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋