Family & Relationships - 18 June 2007

I am married to a wonderful woman. She is a terrific mother and wonder homemaker. Kind of a Martha Stewart type, but better looking. I love her dearly.

The problem is that she has absolutely no interest in sex whatsoever. Now, I'm not a sex addict, but I do need sex more than 3 times a year...and thats on a good year!

My question then is this...what do I do?? I need sex...do I pay a professional?...line up a regular booty call or just continue to "cuff the dummy?"

2007-06-18 02:57:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello , I am a 33 yr old single women . about 3 weeks ago i met a young man and we have seen each other every day since we met. We at first were both saying this is a booty call , which i was all for. but now he is confusing the hell out of me. just a boty call but every day after work he is there. and amazingly we are not having sex every time we see each other.
we instanlty had a connection from the first time we met. bottom line the more time i spend with him the more my feelings are getting stronger, and i never really believed in love at first sight but now im thinking maybe. what do you think?

2007-06-18 02:57:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My marriage is going downhill. It all began when my husband took sides with his sister who lived with us when we got married and the sister and I could barely get along. This took a big toll on our marriage. He does not think he did anything wrong and even went ahead to have an affair. His reason: because I was fighting with his sister and he needed solace. As if the sister was homeless without him!! I have forgiven him, but the betrayal is so much I feel like going away to a place where he will never find me again! How can I get out of the bitterness trap. We are not talking and generally we are doing badly. We've been married for less than 3 years!!

2007-06-18 02:54:44 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been studying for 2 years and have a friend on the same course who has been very supportive. I totally forgot her telling me that her Mum was in hospital - I still have no recollection of it - but said I was really sorry and that cos I have been so busy recently, my brain has been like mush. She replied that no-one else had forgotten.

This made me feel real bad so I emailed her another apology and she replied that it was ok she didn't expect me to remember, she had supported me but when she needed support, she had found others to help.

I am not sure what to do now cos although I was a bad friend for forgetting her mother, I stood up for her when she fell out with someone else and have always kept in touch with her and helped her out when I could.

I am the sort of person who will help anyone out and have looked after peoples kids and pets when they needed it.... so what now?

2007-06-18 02:47:15 · 15 answers · asked by Tigger B 4 in Friends

I'm not a scumbag but I have fallen in love with another woman who is my wife's friend. I didn't mean for this to happen and I feel like a moron. My wife has a minor mental disorder that has interfered with our relationship, but I still love her. However I find myself in love with her friend who I believe is attracted to me. I realize that my wife has not loved me equally, but we have two kids and I am a man who keeps his promises. I'm torn because I love this other woman. She not actively trying to break us up, she doesn't even know what I think. I feel caught between a marriage with a certain level of love and a relationship with a woman who has no such limits on her love for me. I didn't choose to fall in love. It just happened. Help!

2007-06-18 02:41:33 · 33 answers · asked by zulu36 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for 3 years. My husband is 11 years older than I. We've have issuses just like all married couples. Between us we have 7 kids (his 5 are grown and gone and I have 2...one in college and one that's 12) These are my issues: -I can't seem to get our families to blend. He has all girls and they have very dull/dry attitudes and I don't know how to connect with them. -He does not do anything for my 18-yr old son in college. -He refuses to put my name on the deed to his house which he owned before we got married and this makes me feel totally disconnected within the marriage -He drinks too much -I'm a highly sexual individual and he is not so there is very little passion and intamacy between us -Lately, I'm finding myself NOT enjoying him -We hardly talk or sleep in the same bed -Sometimes I find myself saying I hate him and my life -I can hardly stand being around his girls when they are over because they shut everyone out. Is it time 2 let this go?

2007-06-18 02:40:50 · 9 answers · asked by akapinks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what you yall think?

2007-06-18 02:39:57 · 27 answers · asked by overnite_celebrity07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 02:36:49 · 10 answers · asked by kelsijane04 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 22 and a warehouse admin which means 8 hours of doing nothing....I know I could just get a new job but Im a student and this job is a pretty sweet deal...I was just looking for a fellow female admin thats bored mon-fri and would like someone to email with...might make a great friendship.

2007-06-18 02:32:45 · 7 answers · asked by eagle_angel_07 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone actually "experienced" a Albertsons wedding cake? Good? Bad? Are they fresh baked and do they really stand up to their claims?

2007-06-18 02:32:38 · 10 answers · asked by Bobbi J 2 in Weddings

Me and this guy are kinda together. We are not going out, but we're an "item". Right now we are just getting to know eachother better. It is summer now so i dont see him everyday like i would in school. He called like two days ago just to say hi and we talked and stuff. I really want to talk to him, but i dont want to come off as too clingy. So what is a good amount of time to wait until i call him? My freind says just to let him call you, but i dont want him to think i am not iterested anymore by never calling him. So, how long should i wait before calling him?

2007-06-18 02:28:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my girlfriend that I would not mind it if she was to spend time with another man and to sleep with him and if she wanted to she could have him come over and stay with her for a view days. I told her I would not mind it and actual is kinda hot thinking about her with another man. I do not want to watch or join in but just knowing that another man is with her is erotic. She has not said anything to me about it and am starting to get nourvous about what she is thinking. Was I wrong to tell her? Is there something wrong about wanting another man to be with her? By the way my girlfriend and I share a studio apartment and I told her if she wanted to be with another man and if she was to bring him home with her for a view days, I told her I would sleep on the sofa. I also told her that as long as they dont drop down in front of me and go at it, I would not have a problum with another man making love with her and being passionet with her.
How strang is all this?

2007-06-18 02:26:05 · 15 answers · asked by tom g 1 in Singles & Dating

I was on the phone to my girlfriend after work, when a girl i work with walked past me and said "bye". Instantly my girlfriend started being off with me and has since been saying things like "go talk to her she will listen to you" etc. I dont live with her and we usually talk on messenger at night if we arent together. Before i hung up i said "Do you want me to go so you can go back to sleep?" and she said "yes". (it was midnight). Then when i got in i didnt contact her to ask if she wanted to talk online and she sent me a message being off with me for it! I think shes in the wrong but am i wrong?

2007-06-18 02:25:26 · 20 answers · asked by Matt B 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my b/f for a year and a half and i love him to bits. He used to be so romantic when we first got together, buying me cute lil prezzies and stuff. we've lived together for nearly a year and he's stopped making the effort. he tells me he loves me all the time but i need more than that. I need cuddles, affection and to be romanced. he says he feels like he doesn't need to bother now he's got me living with him but i still need the loving. How can i convince him to change?

2007-06-18 02:21:47 · 18 answers · asked by *T*I*N*K*E*R*B*E*L*L* 3 in Singles & Dating

OR what is the worst way you have ever broken up with someone? Ex. text message or voice mail.

2007-06-18 02:18:34 · 10 answers · asked by Joe 6 in Singles & Dating

i am single, was with my ex last weekend. had sex. now shes been texting back and forward. looks as though shes interested again. then 1 day ago, got the impression its gone cold again. i've been sniffing with a female friend. known her for a few months now and really like her, but she has a boyfriend. she knows i like her, and a friend overheard her saying she wanted out her relationship. she is a top class girl and i would love a chance with her, but i'm also thinking about my ex who's back on the scene. who should i concentrate on?

2007-06-18 02:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by call_frank0800 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 02:16:20 · 9 answers · asked by b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 02:15:42 · 8 answers · asked by msheartbroken 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I started dating this guy last year in November. We'd flirted a lot the year before but we weren't really up for a serious relationship.He moved a couple of weeks after we'd officially started going out (we're miles apart now) and it's been 7 months since I last saw him.We talk on the phone daily and send each other e-mails.
I just want to know how long we can pull this off?Is this going to be a forever thing or will distance drive a wedge between us?
I really do love him but I just need to know.

2007-06-18 02:15:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Jus had a massive argument with d boyf. He went thru my mobile phone messages n found a txt message from an ex of mine who txted me a couple of wks ago. He's a mate of mine n it was an innocent txt askin how i was. I had replied saying i was fine n he had txted another ab a football game that had been on tv. Completely innocent. His argument was that i had replied to it.
My question to u is; is he wrong for goin thru my phone or am i in the wrong for replying to a mate???
Grateful for replys he was fuming n im afraid i might lose him but i feel hurt he never trusted me n went thru my phone in the first place. Thanx x x x

2007-06-18 02:15:20 · 20 answers · asked by Dolly 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some of you want to know more background.... I am soon to be 47, been married 27 years, I have 3 kids, 2 adult and 1 a teenager. I also have a 30 yr. old stepson and 2 grandchildren. I don't think I am in love with my husband!!! we met when I was 19 back then he was everything I wanted, biker, parties, long hair, rough and tough friends. He's changed he's a warm, caring loving man.....But I am so BORED.... and it has nothing to do with the bedroom (its all good) but this other man makes me LAUGH and he talks to me and is interesting to listen to. I can't ask my husband to be these things... he can't its not in him. I know its wrong and I don't know what kind of answers I'm looking for, maybe if I see it than I will know, Don't be to quick to judge my friend or his religiuos beliefs, he has come a long way from where he has been. Its not all black and white there are a lot of gray area's. I hope I have answered your questions . thanks to all by cyber friends for you advice...

2007-06-18 02:07:10 · 12 answers · asked by No Drama for this Queen 5 in Marriage & Divorce

is it nessecary to have ushers attend the rehearsal?

2007-06-18 02:05:38 · 12 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3 in Weddings

i have been with him 9 yrs 2times a month is all i get the rest of the time i am doing it .the other day i walk in and he's watching porn what the hell no kids just us .usually i don't have a problem with porn but he trie to lye when i caught him with my own eyes i love him and he fufills me when i get it but why are men so blind to the way they degrade us .As a freakish woman i am truly truly hurt

2007-06-18 02:05:06 · 8 answers · asked by blueeyesupnorthnow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancée and I are getting married in September. I have a very large family, and we are trying to keep the guest count to 150 people. We like children, but can not see paying $25 per plate of food that the children are going to have three bites off of. Our thought is on the wedding reception invitation it will read "Adult Dinner and Reception, following the Ceremony at the Elm Creek Park Chalet". My mother thinks this is offensive to those who have children, we do not. We are trying to ask in the nicest way possible to leave children at home, because we can not afford to have that many people at the wedding. Not all children will be excluded, a few will be there, and we are just trying to keep the number down. The adults can choose do ignore the word adult on the RSVP as long as we get an accurate count. Any advice you could give us that is constructive and may help this situation is much appreciated.

2007-06-18 02:01:01 · 25 answers · asked by MinnesotaCowboy 1 in Weddings

i prefer myself ,,that my woman would stay at home ,take care of the house and the family,,,with modernization ,is such women becoming hard to find ,,,???i see myself as the supporter and her as the family organizer and home comfort ,,,so ladies r u still out there???

2007-06-18 02:00:30 · 7 answers · asked by reifguy 6 in Weddings

Last school year I had these close friends and then my least favorite person started sitting with us and started takeing over my friends. I got frustrated and left. over that summer all i would hear about is them hanging out with her. I got left behind and only hung out with them a few times. when the next school year rolled around i hoped that i could patch things up and win them back, but they were all in the same classes with her and i had NO CLASSES what so evere with them at all. i had to make new friends which im not on good enough terms with to hang out. when i went to one of my old friends bday parties last week I felt out of place and like i didnt know any of them anymore. Molly the one i hate was also there. I feel like i have no friends to hang out with this summer. The friends ive made this year are in a differnt clique and i feel as if the old friends are childish now kinda. idk what to do i dont want a boring summer

2007-06-18 01:57:43 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah R 1 in Friends

Need to pray this week but do not have any contact to call.
Please help.

2007-06-18 01:53:30 · 2 answers · asked by Magic 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My BF and I have been together for 10 months, we are both 42 and both never married. In the begining we TOTALLY were in to each other, It was GREAT. We even discussed marriage and a long future together, BUT over the past couple of months I can tell my feelings have changed. His have not, He totally adores me and treats me like a Queen....I doubt I will ever find a man who treats me this well again.....but can I stay in a relationship and get married to someone who I have No desire for physically?
How do I go about telling him this? I don't want to hurt him at all, and I know it will devastate him, which only makes this situation worse!
HELP!!

2007-06-18 01:46:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-18 01:46:18 · 5 answers · asked by Ms Ghost 6 in Family

2007-06-18 01:45:26 · 19 answers · asked by msheartbroken 1 in Marriage & Divorce