I told my girlfriend that I would not mind it if she was to spend time with another man and to sleep with him and if she wanted to she could have him come over and stay with her for a view days. I told her I would not mind it and actual is kinda hot thinking about her with another man. I do not want to watch or join in but just knowing that another man is with her is erotic. She has not said anything to me about it and am starting to get nourvous about what she is thinking. Was I wrong to tell her? Is there something wrong about wanting another man to be with her? By the way my girlfriend and I share a studio apartment and I told her if she wanted to be with another man and if she was to bring him home with her for a view days, I told her I would sleep on the sofa. I also told her that as long as they dont drop down in front of me and go at it, I would not have a problum with another man making love with her and being passionet with her.
How strang is all this?
2007-06-18 02:26:05 · 15 answers · asked by tom g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all - it's FEW not 'view'
second of all - you mustnt love her that much if ur ok with someone else being with her
2007-06-18 02:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by jeska102 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two ways to look at this. You wanting your girlfriend to be with another man could honestly be a turn-on to you, or it could be an excuse you're looking for to get out of a bad relationship. If it's the latter, you really need to work out your problems with her or be a man and end it. If it's the former, it's not common, but I don't think it's bizarre. I'm certainly not wired that way, but I can understand why it would be exciting to you. Remember though, that this can be dangerous, the whole multiple partner thing. You have to be careful of HIV and other STDs.
2007-06-18 03:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is kinda weird that you would tell and say its okay to have your girlfriend practically have sex with another guy when you guys are already dating! The reason she probably hasn't said anything back yet is because she thinks that you don't want to date her anymore because you are saying that it is okay that she can have sexual relations with other guys! But, why do you want her to sleep with other guys that sounds so just like your not interested in her anymore, like you want to go seperate ways, thats probably what is running in her mind right now! lol!
best of wishes
2007-06-18 02:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ bAiLeY eLiZaBeTh ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah... that's hard. Well you shouldn't have told her in the first place, if you do tell her then she is just gonna stop liking you and going with another man everytime. It's bad that you want to see her with another man, it just shows that you don't love her for who she is. So go tell her you want to have her back, and that she really means a lot to you. Good luck...
2007-06-18 02:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Foryou42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are a jerkface..girls don't want to see another men if they are happy with you..and vs versa I hope. Tell her you were just messing around or something or you will lose her. Girls want to know that they are wanted by there man not that they can be doing what ever..they like it when there men get jealous..you are just a big jerk
2007-06-18 02:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its strange to me. I've never heard of anyone with theat same opinion. Has she said anything to you about this at all. She may be upset. I know if my boyfriend said that I would be heartbroken! I would like to know that I meant everything to my boyfriend and that he wouldn't be that willing to give me up to another man. you should try talking to her. (If you love her) Tell her that you love her and that if you upset her that you didn't mean to.But yes i find it strange. Sorry. Hope I helped.
2007-06-18 02:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Allee_Rose17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's weird to me but I don't agree with that part of the 1960 Hippies movement.
2007-06-18 02:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty strange. i could never imagine knowing that the guy i was dating was having sex with another girl. but people are different i guess.
2007-06-18 02:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so weird, why wouldn't you mind your girlfriend being passionate with somebody besides you?
2007-06-18 02:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jasper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a freak, if your girlfriend dumps you DON"T BE SURPRISED!!!Every girl wants a guy who will make her feel that he wouldn't let another guy come between them, this story has BREAKUP written all over
2007-06-18 02:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by seldean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is strange. I think this is something that would give any woman reservations about how much you care about her.
2007-06-18 02:30:08 · answer #11 · answered by jimmer333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋