Hello , I am a 33 yr old single women . about 3 weeks ago i met a young man and we have seen each other every day since we met. We at first were both saying this is a booty call , which i was all for. but now he is confusing the hell out of me. just a boty call but every day after work he is there. and amazingly we are not having sex every time we see each other.
we instanlty had a connection from the first time we met. bottom line the more time i spend with him the more my feelings are getting stronger, and i never really believed in love at first sight but now im thinking maybe. what do you think?
2007-06-18 02:57:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like the start of a good love affair and romance, I suggest you see if either of you is interested in making it something more than sex. Most realtionships starts off as lust, and we just need to turn it into a romantic desire called love.
2007-06-18 03:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the natural way for a relationship to develop; most people get it backwards, trying to build a relationship and then add sex. That makes no sense,because the man will be on his best behavior, saying and doing what you want to hear and see until he gets sex. Then the sex comes, people start acting themselves, and the relationship falls apart.
The sexual attraction part is easy; building a relationship takes time.
2007-06-18 10:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful. It kinda sounds like he doesn't want to call it a relationship, but halfway in your door he does. This sounds risky. Have you ever had a "bootycall", and then came over to his house everyday after work? If not, imagine that you did that. What were your feelings? Fact is, you don't want to fall for a guy calling you a "bootycall". Wait for him if you ever want anything with him. Make him sweat a little. If you are going to have feelings for him, let him show you he knows how to talk about his feelings by waiting for HIM.
2007-06-18 10:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by tickertock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a booty call has already been delinated, it is just that.
We are territorial beasts over our conquests; however, it a better conquest comes along, you will likely be history.
Is the way of the Jungle.
2007-06-18 10:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by IHSCOUTLUVR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIFE IS NOT AN ORDER TO BE FOLLOWED.IT IS DIFFERENT IN EACH AND EVERY CASE.as a saying goes,we run things ,things dont run us.whether it was love at first sight or not,you ultimately chose to fall for him.
2007-06-18 10:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by onel2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! that guy is admirable and a real gentleman coz he doesn't any take advantage of your closeness.
I think if what's he's feeling now is true so be prepared when he reveal it to you about his feelings.
Good luck!
2007-06-18 10:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Dawnz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just roll with it. You like him so just go with the flow and let your feelings develop. Try not to read too much into things, just have fun, he may be your soulmate
2007-06-18 10:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puttin the cart before the horse NEVER works.
2007-06-18 10:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by geebabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yea ur diggin this guy....u do like him n if yall arent havin sex each time yall see each other well it may mean that he diggs u too...yall r meant to be
2007-06-18 10:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by *S!LL!3G00B3R*TTC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never be able to read men.
2007-06-18 10:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by xtina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋