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Family & Relationships - 18 June 2007

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I have an ex that just doesn' want to let go. He was a total control freak, controlling every possible aspect of my life. What happened at the end of our relationship is that I slept with another guy. Yeah, I know, I know. I am not the cheating kind and I never did that before. This controlling guy just drove me to the wall after 4 years of hell. I am still struggling with my mistake and have hard time forgiving myself. But I never loved my ex, which I realized at the end.

I told him I do not want to be friends due to his controlling behaviour which makes him appaling to me, but he is having a really hard time getting over me that he thinks he can force me to talk to him by blackmailing me. He says he will tell my boss what happened ( I am a PhD student and the guy I slept with was a project student from another country in our lab).

2007-06-18 04:17:24 · 6 answers · asked by stargazer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The mother is planning on wearing a black and white printed bolero jacket with black pants and camisole. It looks quite stunning but are the colors appropriate?

2007-06-18 04:16:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i read a lot...all day long...and i fell that more that i read less that i can comunicate with people around me..i think this is because i fell superior to them(i feel smarter because i read..altough i know that i'm not the only one who reads..but in my family i am)..should i stop reading?what to do to stop having these feelings?

2007-06-18 04:14:17 · 2 answers · asked by ItsyBitsy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys and girls: What are your favorite undergarments that your partner can wear?

2007-06-18 04:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Singles & Dating

What shall i do if i found out that my female best friend is having an illicit affair with my married brother? it really shocked me when i discovered that she is dating with my brother. My brother and his wife are leaving separately because of separate jobs but they are not divorce. When i found out the affair i was raging mad. I can't be a good friend to her anymore for the sake of the wife.I not talking to the girl anymore. She comes in the company where my brother and i together in family business and she wants to be part of the business of which i not happy at all. I cannot be working together harmoniously with her. I need help because i not happy with this kind of situation because i feel for the wife and i feel for our business and i don't understand my brother's decision its his personal life but my family is involve. I don't know what to think anymore.

2007-06-18 04:06:17 · 16 answers · asked by Angelique 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this cute guy at my work but Im 14 and hes 16 and I know its not a really huge age gap but usually guys will go for like sexy 17 year old girl with huge boobs and I feel like I have absolutely noo chance so what can I do to impress him?

2007-06-18 04:04:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy have been neighbors and its been about 3 years.I kinda really like him.But i dont know if i want to.I dont want to mess up the friendship we have now.We're only 13 so im not sure what to do.

2007-06-18 03:50:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know if this makes any sense....maybe it does. My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 1/2 years. This month was our first time having sex, and he looooved it. Me for one freaked out it being my first tine, and his. Not hes telling me that he wants to wait untill marriage to have sex again and he made a promise to God. I dont know is this weird?? I dont know... i'm not fat but hes been telling me to work out with him and eat better and i dont know if hes just unattracted to me or he really made a promise. He swears its not that hes just trying to be a better person. That just seems kinda weird for a horny 18 year old guy:-/

2007-06-18 03:48:27 · 10 answers · asked by hot_pink_sunsets 1 in Singles & Dating

I didnt marry her before because im waiting for the result of my annulment. Now that i am annuled and free. My mom and my gf already is trying to rush me into marriage. Honestly I already have fallen out of love because of qualities I dont really like. My previous wife cheated on me and got pregnant by her co worker while working abroad. What do i have to do? Marry my gf now although i dont want to? Because thats what my mom and my gf want and because we already have a kid. Or should i run away? If i dont marry my gf my mom would definitely disown me and also i may not have a chance to see my daughter again. So confused... Pls help...

2007-06-18 03:47:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it's tacky to just have a stereo and burn my own CDs for my wedding reception??

2007-06-18 03:43:23 · 17 answers · asked by ray_of_sunshine1806 1 in Weddings

I know that there are school girl/boy crushes but to classify yourself as boyfriend and girlfriend in grade 3 is a bit much....

2007-06-18 03:42:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I come up to you and hand you a roll of toilet paper. Then I say, this is for you, cause you're the sh!t...

2007-06-18 03:37:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is interested in learning the best course of action. THANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP!

2007-06-18 03:34:56 · 14 answers · asked by BWM 2 in Weddings

My husband went on a bender again this weekend...consuming about 6 gallons of wine (and no that isn't a typo)....we had a terrible fight last night where he said some really awful things to me (which he does every time we argue drunk or not) and this morning he was a total jerk...then I called him at 6 am to make sure he was ok and we had a long talk and he apologizes but you can tell he is still upset and then he sends me a text and says "is our marriage doomed"...I am depressed and confused...what do i do?

2007-06-18 03:32:48 · 27 answers · asked by Notagain 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-18 03:32:28 · 26 answers · asked by jonny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 03:31:09 · 6 answers · asked by chikitoclerks 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife is already seeing another guy and our divorce will not be final for another 30 days. My wife and I are still very good friends and our divorce will be uncontested. We have a 13 year old daughter that she will have full custody of but I can visit her anytime I want.

What really sucks about this entire situation is I can't confront my wife about seeing that other guy. If I do I fear I'll only upset her and she will make the divorce get ugly. We've already agreed to a child support dollar amount that I'm obligated to. I'd hate for her to change her mind and make me pay the full amount because I pissed her off.

What should I do? Please understand I can CARELESS about her seeing the other guy. We're getting a divorce remember? What I what to know is if I can use this to my advantage in the event my wife wants to screw me over at the last minute. I'm in Texas and we're still legally married. There's is no separation law here.

2007-06-18 03:30:32 · 15 answers · asked by kimchee_boi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I found out the other night, the parents gave them alcohol to drink. She is 15, what would you do?

2007-06-18 03:28:42 · 14 answers · asked by keda 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy I'm talking to, one day, when I was in the area of the Puerto Rican parade, I called him to tell him how packed it was. He said, "let me find out you are at the parade with another guy". Another time I was with family members & he called me. I told him I was with my family & laughing at something somebody said & he said, "you better be laughing with your family & not some guy". Last nite we had a lil argument, I hung up on him. He called back but I didnt answer because I was mad. He left a msg & said, "You better be glad I'm not near you right now. You have me so vexed - you know what, go ahead & go out with that other guy. Go onto the movies with that other guy". But I wasn't with another guy. I was by myself, at home. I know he talks "mess" sometimes & we joke around but I'm starting to think he really is like that & is the type to jump to conclusions, assume another guy is in the picture, get jealous & become physically abusive.

Do any of you get that impression?

2007-06-18 03:27:18 · 38 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy named m....... and he always use to flirt with me but now he flirts with my friend more than he does with me.....and i realllllllllly like him. is it love?....idk. and now i'm beggining to like a guy who also reallllly likes me the same way i like m............. what do i do?

2007-06-18 03:24:12 · 7 answers · asked by prettygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

Think that you are a very ambitious person and what matters most in ur life is ur career. So u fall in love with this guy but since he is not THAT successful u don't marry him. Instead u go and marry a VERY rich businessman so that he can aid in ur success. He however marries u because he loves u.
Then one day ur husband suffers badly and is broken and looks to u for support and says he doesn;t care about money as long as u r there with him. U like him a lt and u have grown quite attached to him but u want to leave him because he is worthless now. I left him. So why is everyone so mad at me?

My reason _ He is supposed to love me so why does he want me to share his misery with him and suffer ?

2007-06-18 03:23:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He's picked up the phone and called in flowers but never gifts or a cake. I'm feeling slighted since he's making an effort to personally go pick up a cake. Would you feel slighted and why?

2007-06-18 03:20:16 · 27 answers · asked by rosies42 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-18 03:18:53 · 19 answers · asked by meee 1 in Singles & Dating

i need a hug.... exams are stressing me out and im feeling a lil lonely atm.... can i get a hug? :-)

2007-06-18 03:13:36 · 8 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Singles & Dating

I've heard this expression a few times in my life and I've always wondered about it:

"A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does."

I haven't been married so I don't know, but I'm curious about about other people's perspectives and experiences on it...

-Thanks!

2007-06-18 03:13:35 · 18 answers · asked by impermanence 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If she was 19, v attractive and had a 6 month old son.

2007-06-18 03:12:57 · 16 answers · asked by Ryan 5 in Singles & Dating

we talked about everthing, and I mean everything. But for the past few months things have went from talking about everything to, I can not talk about it or she just avoids converstion. This all started when she broke up with her boyfriend and moved out of state. When she moved I found out that I was getting blamed for everything she did and how she did it. Mainly because a few months before she moved away I had left my husband, so It was made ( by everyone else) like I influenced her. It was also said that I knew about her plans and told her boyfriend about them. I NEVER did such a thing, I spoke with her and she did not believe me!! I later found out who did tell her ex-boyfriend her plans, but I never told her who it was. Should I tell her or should I just leave things the way they are and move on?

2007-06-18 03:02:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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