If she was 19, v attractive and had a 6 month old son.
2007-06-18 03:12:57 · 16 answers · asked by Ryan 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would have to say no. even though she has a son, you would end up having to look after him. all your money would go into raising him. even though you say she is attractive you have your whole life ahead of you and as the saying goes or should i say the song. there are plenty more fish in the sea. so get back to your fishing.
2007-06-18 03:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Carl F 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If I were not married and about 10 years younger, than sure. But I likely would not get very serious unless I felt I was in the position to support that child and effectively be a dad. Considering that I AM married and a little on the old side, it is difficult to say whether or not I would have felt that way. Although there is nothing wrong with being 19 and having a child, finding a suitable guy that would be willing to give up some of his freedom in exchange for a loving family is a hard thing to do. It is not a matter of shallowness or anything, but simply responsibilty and maturity. Some guys are not ready for this, and getting serious with someone with a 6-month old child is the wrong thing to do if you are not ready to be a dad.
2007-06-18 10:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ryan, why do you ask this question. It seems you like her, she is young and attactractive and has a baby. Why do you ask, if you like her then what is stopping you, it seems everyone is judging her because she has a baby. If you like her and you don't mind taking on a baby then go for it, she has a package, she is still human and i am sure if she isn't going out with anyone, i am sure she wouldn't mind if you ask her out. Life is a about challenges, and sometimes you have to take them on, it makes you a better person with your experiences. But remember this if you do ask this las out, remember the father might still be on the scene. Good luck
2007-06-18 10:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ruksana P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should like her for who she is anyway. If you like her enough then the whole "son baggage" thing wouldn't be an issue becuase you would want to go out with her if she had 3 arms/only 1 tooth, 22 toes, 5 kids etc.......... i hope you get y point. Hope you make the right decision anyway........
2007-06-18 10:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by Toxilocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt if i was you, i have been out with a few men with kids-they only have them once a week and its a pile of crap!!! the X is always on the scene for a start-your obviously only young so look for someone else, she may be attractive but all that did was get her up the duff at 18!!!!
2007-06-18 10:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by BscHons 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she want's you for the right reasons on this one mate?? and if yes great the kid will soon feel like your's and you will have a ball together all 3 of you's!!
2007-06-18 10:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on her personality of course. It's not the best start in life, becoming pregnant at such a young age but everybody deserves chances in love.
2007-06-18 10:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
so your issue is the 6 month old son? shallow. these questions sort the men from the boys, which one are you?
2007-06-18 10:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by mummy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Only if your're looking to be a father figure... How are you? If your're looking for 'fun' then stay clear... Plus won't the real father be on the scene at the weekends? Be Careful!
2007-06-18 10:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by brit_plod 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Provided she wasn't already seeing someone, or married.
2007-06-18 10:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by Edward M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋