2007-06-18 03:32:28 · 26 answers · asked by jonny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Party and keep yourself busy!!! That will distract your attention! What you need to get used to is living on your own which is actually a plus which you will later realise!
2007-06-18 03:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's and old saying "...absence makes the heart grow fonder...", but I believe that "...absence makes the heart go wander...".
Did you used to be in a relationship with this person? Or is it one of your ladyfriends? Is is someone in another relationship?
One of the golden rules of forgetting is solving, and if not possible, avoiding. You should try to avoid this person for a certain amount of time, depending on how deeply developed your feelings are?
Even though you may long for this person, you should be strong and not contact them. No cellphones! No visiting! No nothing! " Rid yourself of remembrance..."
After a while your feelings might change, if not...try meeting someone new to love. Get out there and join the dating scene...visit clubs, parties with friends, anything to keep your mind off that person and to meet someone new. An active social life will help significantly to forget.
Have you ever thought if this person 'might' love you, or are you certain that there is no chance in hell the two of you 'might' end up together?
Get out there and have some fun...it would help sulking over it. Forget that person, meet someone new and more on with your life.
2007-06-18 10:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Zarius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to love yourself more and you already know that she doesn't love you. It's clear enough to step back. You need to occupy yourself with other important thing in life that make you being a better person. Spend quality time with your friends, find a new hobby that you are interested in. I know it's hard to forget about her and try to put yourself back in the single market again and some day you will find someone who really love you the way you are.
2007-06-18 10:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid them at all costs. Keep busy. Get some exercise. Hang out with your friends. Occupy yourself. Do some volunteer work. Join a club. Have some fun. Give yourself some time. When you are ready, try to find someone else that WILL love you.
2007-06-18 10:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
...by learning to know how to love somebody else really....what else? You're conflicted with some deeply rooted fantasy feelings about this individual otherwise. Understand sometimes a fantasy doesn't go both ways. Get over one fantasy...and get under or over another...depending on your own point of view. Everybody wants stuff they sometimes can't have....so be real with yourself and get over this silly self imposed mental nonsense quickly. You'll just end up lying awake at night and creating discomfort in yourself if you do. Heal thyself partner...it's the only way to find new satisfaction for yourself otherwise. Are we cool?
2007-06-18 10:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too was in the same situation.....I loved a guy so much but he never cared for me......I couldn't stop myself loving him then i started to go crazy,just thinking of him
My friends gave me someadvice, it worked for me i hope even you could be helped
Think practically there are whole life to live, while moving on you'll meet different and lot's of people who will respect you and your love
You are just wasting time loving to the person who doesn't even love you,JUST think why?
MOST IMPORTANT THING
NEVER LOVE THE PERSON WHO YOU LOVE BUT LOVE THE PERSON WHO LOVES YOU then just see you'll be most happiest person in thE weorld
GOOD LUCK
2007-06-18 10:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by nikita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you can't turn your emotions on and off like a light. Fortunately, though, time DOES heal all wounds. Is there any way that you can avoid seeing this person or hearing his/her voice? If there is, I strongly suggest that you try to avoid seeing or hearing this person like the plague. It won't make you forget the person, but I think that it would help the wounds heal a bit more quickly.
2007-06-18 10:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by tangerine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Real .
I mean, if someone is not taking what I'm giving him I just have to stop giving him.
Feelings are so precious, everyone on this planet is seeking feelings and love , if she is not appreciating these precious feelings, you just have to tell yourself this "she is not appreciating, so why should i give anymore??"
I'm sure that you are so romantic and many girls will love to touch these honest deep feelings.
so just let go .
every time you you remember that she was not appreciating your feelings, you will be stronger.
I've been there :)
good luck.
2007-06-18 10:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be mentally strong and move on.
Take stock of all the positive things in your life and focus on them.
Keep busy - take up a new sport /hobby.
Spend time with people who make you feel happy - Friends and family.
Find someone else to love.....
2007-06-18 10:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by monkienutz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you cant you just have to live with it. i split with my ex nearly 3 and a half years ago and i still love him as much as i did then. yes it hurts but not as much as it did at the start you just have to try and keep your mind on other things. I still get down about it and have a cry but usually thats at a night time when im feeling lonely and have had a stressful day. in time youll learn that you just have to live with it.
2007-06-18 10:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by funny_smartlovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋