Family & Relationships - 22 June 2007

i need some help i love this girl with all my heart but she has a 1 year old boy now we went out before but then broke up cause we needed a brake but now i want her back cause i love her but now she has a kid and the father left her so wat do u i do how long do i wait untell i can ask her if she wants to go out again plus did i say that i was 17 and c we still talk to each other and i help her with her boy but i dont know if its the right time to ask her if she wants to go back out so this is y i'm posting this so if anybody can help please do

2007-06-22 23:59:49 · 10 answers · asked by Chrais N 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 23:59:41 · 26 answers · asked by abbs 3 in Singles & Dating

iv been feeling quite low for quite a while now its like feeling unwanted no one will talk to me and I'm feeling unattractive and alone.

is there anything i can to to help myself?
i just want people to talk to really.

2007-06-22 23:58:26 · 12 answers · asked by Nevermind 3 in Singles & Dating

really like this girl and for a few weeks have been sending texts saying things like i miss you to each other and stuff and last night i went to a party at her house and we kissed and held hands most of the night but she said she didn't want to be in a relationship with me as she doesn't want to hurt me and loose me if it ends. (she said this before we kissed and stuff) anyways today i can tell something has changed she's being colder with me and i text her saying i miss you and she didnt reply and things i can just tell something aint right and i really like here but what should i do? we're going out tonight with a bunch of people and i dont know what to do when i see her, i have a feeling she aint gonna be holding my hand and stuff like last night, please help me what shud i do tonight? or just in general?

2007-06-22 23:57:53 · 9 answers · asked by Nicola 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend i met online and we've been together for 3 years already. But I have never met him yet. Although our relationship is going really well and we do love each other so much. Until now we still don't know how to meet because I don't have a visa and my parents wont let me go there. His parents won't let him go here either.He lives in Australia and I live in the Philippines. I don't have a visa and my parents wont let me go there. His parents won't let him go here either. Our only hope is to meet after graduating college but we still have years before that happens. HELP!

2007-06-22 23:56:47 · 14 answers · asked by farhorizon 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 23:56:34 · 27 answers · asked by abbs 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 23:50:35 · 10 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 23:50:34 · 6 answers · asked by bluegoldwing@verizon.net 1 in Singles & Dating

i am inlove with someone but he loves someone eles i want to break is relationship he started to love her in school he doesnt know that i love him how do i beak his relationship

2007-06-22 23:49:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Love and relationship.

2007-06-22 23:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by Bebang 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 34 yrs old and me and my partner have split up after 4yrs we have a son together. And now i am forced to live on the street my ex partner is trying her best to find me some where to live as i can not live with her but has not had much joy. I have asked my friends and cannot ask family as they died over the yrs. I am a professonal decorator but not working at the moment. need someone who will except someone on dss.If there is any 1 with a kind heart who has a room in manchester for me to stay. Please can you leave me a message! I have tried homeless but they said that they cant help me, and salvation army said can only put me up for 1 night. I used to look at people who were on the street and think that they should go homeless if no where to go but now i know its not as easy to get in the homeless as they can still refuse you.

2007-06-22 23:43:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I will try to make this short and to the point.....I am in the final process of my divorce and as many who have gone through this hell on Earth, it has made me take complete stock of my life and the people in it. During this process I have realized that I am in love with the my best female friend of 11 years. Its not much of a realization as I have known this for a long time but because of the way our lives have unfolded I never acted on it. I have always played it off and I really think that she would be shocked if I were to tell her. She lives 3 hours from me and has an incredible life where she lives and I am unable to move due to my family and job. We are often in contact with each other (not as frequent as I would like) So the question is should I take a chance on letting her know how I feel? I f so how do I do it?

2007-06-22 23:42:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it a common trend nowadays that poeple get married in more matured age? Why do you think it is so? When did you/ do you plan to get married?

2007-06-22 23:41:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfreind has a history of cheating.

He just got back from 2-week work trip. He worked yesterday and gets off between 3-5pm. I got off work at 6:00 and he still wasn't home. I called his cell phone and it was off. He didn't say he planned on going anywhere.

I drove by his ex-wife and his house (still in his name) and both of their cars were there. He finally showed up around 8:45pm. I showed up after him and was immediately upset with him. I told him I drove by and the grass looked mowed (he insists on doing it), and he had no reason to be over there since their daughter is on vacation with friends. He claims it wasn't mowed, said he had to get rid of bugs, spray the yard and repair some damage to the house. He also said he has to take care of the house and has to go back this morning to mow.

He said I have no right to be mad and my actions were like "fatal attraction". He then asked if I wanted to go out for ice cream.

2007-06-22 23:38:28 · 10 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to write something in a card .. i thought of this

Even in our sleep, pain which cannot forget
falls drop by drop upon the heart,
until, in our own despair,
against our will,comes wisdom
through the awful grace of God ...

Which was Bobby kennedys words to a rally when he had to inform them of the death of Martin Luther King .. wat do you think?

2007-06-22 23:37:57 · 7 answers · asked by navster01 2 in Friends

we're both 17.

in april i spent 1 month in germany. i met this guy there. he is so nice. we spent like everyday together and i suppose we starting going out, even if it wasn't for long. i really really like him. so it's been like 2 months and we still keep in touch. we'd call eachother everyday and talk forever and i still love it.

even though i still really really like him soooo much, is there any point in continuing this? even if we did come to see eachother it'd be like once a year. should i just stop and move on? because sometimes it really hurts and in the end, is it worth it?

his english is perfect, his dad is american. so, there's no problem there.

2007-06-22 23:30:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 23:25:53 · 9 answers · asked by michael e 1 in Singles & Dating

I've liked a guy for ages at dancing lessons..lately he has been giving me heaps of attention(hugging me, hi-fiving me, asking me to dance heaps)...my best friend likes him too and dicided to tell him she likes him..So she did..He said that he didn't like her and that he likes a girl at his school...I didn't hear this and dicided that I would get one of my friends to tell him that I like him...Then he started ignoring me and not talking to me...then, I found out what he had said to my friend that likes him too..I was mortified and didn't know what to do, so i ignored him too..Now he's on a four week holiday...do you think he was lying to mey friend that likes him about him liking a girl at his school and likes me, or likes the girl at his school? i'm so confused and love him so much! please help! =(

2007-06-22 23:14:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For example he follows me all over the house ,if i go to the rest room , he walks in and sits down and look's at me, he sleeps with the key's to the car , he's been home with me everyday for the passed to years .hasn't worked in over two years , when i tell him i need to get away from him , he beets around the bush about killing his self

2007-06-22 23:08:41 · 11 answers · asked by sponkey200 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-22 22:12:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, is it normal? me and my ex didn't end up in good terms.

is my reaction just normal? because I really feel depressed.

I want to call my ex after over a year of not communicating with him just to see if he's doing fine, and let him know how much I care about him... should I do it?

we didn't end up nicely... I said so many hurtful and damaging things to him... I feel terrible...

2007-06-22 22:11:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never ever have the guts to go up and talk to her, Like today I was at dimple records and I saw this girl that I found fairly attractive. I know me and her would of had a few things in common since she liked music and video games since she was browsing through those section. I kept looking at her, hoping she would notice my existence. When I looked at her, she looked at me a few times, but didn't seem very flattered about it or anything, also didn't smile about it. She also didn't tell her friend.

Sometimes when I stare at girls, I get a much better reaction of them, they would smile and laugh and also tell her friends that the handsome dude(which would be me) is looking at them

But I never ever have the guts to actually go up and talk to them, I get so nervous and when im nervous I stutter like crazy and don't pronounce my words right, making me hard to understand,

So anyway, back with the girl I saw at dimple today, I really wanted to go up and talk to her but had no idea how to approah her. I don't know if the signs she was giving me were good or bad. When I looked at her, sometimes she would glance back, not much of an expression, probably more like "huh? why is this guy looking at me?" or maybe she suspected that I fancy her but didn't care that much..

But now, its too late, she is gone out of my life forever. But I need to know how I can approah someone inside of dimple records or at the mall or anywhere in general.

2007-06-22 22:03:44 · 11 answers · asked by DarkAaron 1 in Singles & Dating

it was a quickie haha so not an ideal first time but he said he enjoyed it very much a couple of times but when i asked for details today he said he didnt want to talk about right then. he instead wanted to talk to me about how he wanted to get buff and quit smoking (please see my other posts if ur confused). how come he doesnt want to talk about it? this is the first man ive slept with that doesnt want to. did he not enjoy it?

2007-06-22 21:51:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im from Russia
My friend went to USA for work and studing. He is a Christian

He wrote me that there are a lot of perversion and crazy things in USA.

Loads of masturbationists, and onanism became socially acceptable !!! 95% masturbate (but no one like to work hard)!!!
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SO I WANNA ASK YOU, WHY IS IT BETTER FOR YOU TO MASTURBATE THEN TO WORK???
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Children in 12-14 have sex !! But crasy thing - if a guy is 22 (was virgin before), and a girl is 16 (had 1 sex in 13, had tons of partners, so she is more than mature in that stuff), he will BE PREASONED FOR STATUTORY RAPE !!!

Homos advertise their sick sins !!!
My friend studies IN CHRISTIAN UNIVERSITY, AND HOMOS CAME TO THE TERRITORY OF UNIVERSITY AND TRY TO PERSUADE STUDENTS TO ATTEMPT HOMOSEXUAL SEX!!!
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WHY CRISTIANS DO NOT MAKE EFFORTS TO PROHIBIT (BY LAW) THE ADVERTISING OF HOMOSEXUALISM???

WHY THEY DO NOT MAKE LOBBY IN PARLIAMENT LIKE DAMNED HOMOS DO ?

2007-06-22 21:50:00 · 11 answers · asked by larsen R 1 in Singles & Dating

our daughter has lived with the grandmother for her whole life of 7 months.

Can she challenge us having our own daughter, if we go steal her?

I have antisocial personality, have 2 domestic batteries against my wife, and have cut my wife with a knife.

My wife is extremeley unstable mentally, much more than me.

My wife and I plan to just make another baby, if she succeeds in getting custody of our first born--and then would it be possible for her to seize the second kid too??? What about the 3rd? Is there a limit? Will it just keep going around in circles.

2007-06-22 21:44:12 · 17 answers · asked by Voltaire's book Candide 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ex is now in prision for murder, had used drugs, alcohol, broke into houses to feed habit. Cheated on me, had a baby with other woman, right after I had a hysterectomy, and the list goes on and on. So I have not even dated in the four years sense the divorce, I now think I am ready to date, but I don't even want to deal with anyone who drinks (at all) and drug use is a deal breaker, the other stuff I know that I need to have some kind of way to compromise. HELP! I really do not want to be alone the rest of my life

2007-06-22 21:43:41 · 10 answers · asked by booper 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 21:31:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My step mom is 8 years older than me. She is 32 and I'm 24.
My dad is over 60 and honestly I don't know why my step mom
got interest in my dad. I believe its because of money.
My dad doesn't know that her wife is cheating on him with
me. I don't believe we are committing incest because she
is not my real mom. We get drunk together, we get high
together and my dad no idea what's going on. So,
is it ok? It's not really bad is it?

I don't want to hurt my dad but I love my step mom like a
woman. I don't want my dad to find out what's going on.
I love my dad but I need hide this secret.

2007-06-22 21:26:54 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If a girl is interested in sex and sex alone with you, and you were the only person she's ever slept with, would you write her off as a whore/slut/skank or whatever or would you understand that girls want it too?

2007-06-22 21:26:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A girl I used to like have broken me and I stop talking to her for about 8 months. Things been great without talking to her until one day she ask me this question and it was " Was everything you said in the past, was it true?" I answered back with a question "What do you mean? What part of everything do you mean?" She said "you know" I said "No, I don't know." She said "Never mind." Then after she said she left.
Days have past and I ask her "What do you mean by that question you ask?" She didn't respond to me and I got upset and left her. After that I haven't talked to her since.
Now I'm wondering if I should ask her again even though it have been months since she ask that question.

2007-06-22 21:25:30 · 12 answers · asked by Berties 3 in Singles & Dating