it was a quickie haha so not an ideal first time but he said he enjoyed it very much a couple of times but when i asked for details today he said he didnt want to talk about right then. he instead wanted to talk to me about how he wanted to get buff and quit smoking (please see my other posts if ur confused). how come he doesnt want to talk about it? this is the first man ive slept with that doesnt want to. did he not enjoy it?
2007-06-22 21:51:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, we've only been bf/gf for 7 days lol. we've dated each other longer than that of course lol
2007-06-22 21:54:19 · update #1
FIRST TIME TOGETHER! lol. neither of us were/are virgins
2007-06-22 21:59:09 · update #2
QUICKIE BECAUSE OF TIME. Just want to know what I couldve done better. all he said was he wished we had more time.
2007-06-22 22:07:33 · update #3
i'm sorry to say this, but in my opinion, he doesn't remember it and he just wanted to tell you what you wanted to hear. so when you asked him for the details, he's completely lost.
2007-06-22 21:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what's to talk about? Sounds like he's insecure a little, but otherwise, it sounds like normal guy behavior. Why do you feel the need to talk about the sex and explore the feelings...etc....ugh. He probably doesn't even know what you're getting at.
Seriously, that's probably what he's thinking. Guys and Girls are wired differently. If you ask a guy what he feels about something, most of the time he will have to think about it for a while before answering.
There's a joke that says guys have two moods...hungry or horny...if he's not tearing off your clothes, then he's probably looking for a sandwich.
Of course that's really simplistic and overly generic, but it gives you the point. If you want to get more into what a guy thinks, read the book 'bringing up boys'...it highlights the differences in raising a boy, rather than a girl, and also gives you an insight into a man's thought process. No kidding, a man's brain is very different than a woman's brain (generally speaking).
2007-06-22 22:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by VodkaTonic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asked for details about a quickie? What were you expecting? I'm sure he enjoyed it, but there's not much subject matter on a quickie. Besides, not all guys like to talk about past sex, they'd rather look to the next time.
Don't fret too much unless he doesn't want sex again.
2007-06-22 22:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is first to you, but maybe not to him.. I think he just got what he needs and thats it, he doens't care much for your feelings. If you don't like the way he is acting ask him about it and be serious about it. If he still doesn't answer then, I think you should prob. stop talking to him for awhile and see whats up... or Ask him if he loves you... ? Well you still have to ask him cuz he's in a relationship with you, so you have to make sure you know whats up... Good Luck
2007-06-22 21:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rain L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably did enjoy it us guys are like that we dont like to talk openly alot untill we really get to know women either way i think he just might be a bit insecure with talking about the whole sex wen me and ma last GF had sex me and her shared but not to any great extent what we felt we both agreed it was excelent and we did agin 2 days after jsut be loving to wards him and he will open up hope this helps
2007-06-22 21:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by GG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know maybe he was embarrased because it was just a quicky and it didnt satisfy you as it should have for your first time... sorry to hear it was a quicky for your first time..
2007-06-22 21:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he feels inadequate, relax and try to have an orgasm with him next time. if you do he just might never want to take his hands off you. The being buff thing..... he got his rocks off and now he feels more mannly.
2007-06-22 21:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys are that way only. Once the sleep with somebody they loose interest in that girl.
If you again ask him for sex he will be ready but will never talk about it ever.
2007-06-22 22:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by pritu2k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Iam thinking he maybe gay. He is useing you to test the water so to speak. I talk about sex all day every day to my friends, about how many times a girl will *** in 5 minites, how thick my 10" rod is and how girls love it when i *** all over them. You have my e-mail, conntact me babe.
2007-06-22 21:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably was embarassed with his own performance, see he is cautious of whether he is able to satisfy you, or may be he'll be having 'hard' time talking about it.
2007-06-22 21:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by Rebornie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋