For example he follows me all over the house ,if i go to the rest room , he walks in and sits down and look's at me, he sleeps with the key's to the car , he's been home with me everyday for the passed to years .hasn't worked in over two years , when i tell him i need to get away from him , he beets around the bush about killing his self
2007-06-22 23:08:41 · 11 answers · asked by sponkey200 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The thing that i worry about is that he thinks i don't love him , i do but he is driveing me away, i have a feeling he would take my life before his own , if he can't have me no one will, and there is no other man ,
2007-06-22 23:28:04 · update #1
He don't think he has a problem,sometimes he asks me , who are you talking too and if i have camras up. and crazy **** like that
2007-06-22 23:32:47 · update #2
No matter what you do, he is not going to change. The only person in this whole world you can change is yourself.
2007-06-23 00:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fatal attraction. no **** honey. get yourself away from him you even ststed that your concerned he may take your life then his...... are you crazy this is not love.. get out now befor eyou do become another dead body in the morgue due to spousel murder THINK ABOUT IT> you know it is true otherwise why would you post this ........ run s fast as you can and dont look back. and yes it is as easy as it can be!. your life or the morgue simple as that!.
2007-06-23 06:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you need counseling;him, for whatever major issues he has, and you, because he has been controlling you this whole time. True love is not possessive or controlling. He doesn't love you if he's acting this way. Truth be told, he doesn't love himself. He needs long-term therapy. Good luck, and I'll pray for you.
2007-06-23 06:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tbone64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a woman and her husband does the same thing, he is abusive and jealous as hell, but in talking to her, she sounds like she enjoys all the attention. both of them are sick, maybe they are made for each other, but i'd never live like that. either professional help her hit the highway.
good luck girl, this won't be easy, but this man is emotionally ill.
2007-06-23 09:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by the_director_ess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not a healthy marriage do you love this man , truely in love with this man, get him some counseling and mayeb couples counseling because this is more than just being insecure this could be bipolar etc just something serious......good luck and stick by him, if he doesnt seem to be getting better do a trial separation so he can focus on him.......
2007-06-23 06:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you need to take your husband to get some proffesional help. He can't go over this by himself and it's obious that you can't make him stop it either. Get some help fast,it sounds as though your husband is depressed among other things. Good luck to you!
2007-06-23 06:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Codependence?
Won't Work?
Depressed?
Obsessive tendencies?
Threatens suicide as a control mechanism?
You're going to have to decide if getting him help and salvaging the relationship is worth it to you. If you are not prepared to help him. End the relationship.
On top of wanting to help him, he has to want help. if he doesn't want help, you can't make him do anything he doesn't want to do.
If you don't love him and you want out, get yourself a reputable lawyer and take the necessary steps to do what you need to do to take care of yourself.
2007-06-23 06:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by lyricshade2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell that sorry SOB to go ahead and kill himself. I'd offer him a rope, gas, matches, etc. and tell him go ahead, take his pick and don't say I never gave him anything. Then I'd boot him out and that'll be the end of that.
2007-06-23 08:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run far, run fast! If you feel it is necessary get to a women's shelter to get away from him. He is controlling and possessive! Do you really want to stay under those conditions???
2007-06-23 06:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by hypno_toad1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and file the papers secretly and get a friend to take you . this man obviously need mental help . and if he says one more time about killing himself tell him to go ahead and do it .
Most ppl that say that are not going to kill themselves. good luck .
2007-06-23 06:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋