Family & Relationships - 22 June 2007

I'm 18 years old male
and recently I have this strong sexual urges.
I go to porn websites almost everyday.
Is pornography bad?

and most importantly, Is it going to affect loving relationship later on? how?

2007-06-22 20:05:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Or when he's with you period?

2007-06-22 20:02:59 · 15 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

I live with my girlfriend and her sister and her best friend. My Girlfriend went out of town for work last week. I made an authentic mexican dinner for the sister and the friend and we were all drinking margiritas. We started talking about fantasys that we had and I like most guys have the fantasy of having two girls at the same time. They giggled and we kept talking about fantasys etc. A little while later and a few margiritas later they went back into one of the bedrooms. They called me back there and they were both naked on the bed. Well you know what happened next ( it was everything I thought it would be). The next day the sister was really feeling guilty about the whole thing. Since then I have had to constantly talk her out of coming clean to my girlfriend. I am afraid she is going to tell her and then all hell will break loose. Do I just ride it out and hope it all works out? Or do I get out while the gettings good?

2007-06-22 19:56:19 · 17 answers · asked by blueboy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 19:55:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day I was at the beach with my girl friend she took the bikini straps off her shoulders (to get an even tan). Well we were kind of close to the ocean. We were laying out there with our eyes closed and this guy starts yelling watch water! really loud.. he scared my gf which jumped up.. and started pushing all our stuff away... unfortunately she forgot about her bathing suit.... and actually so did i.

after we moved everything we noticed that the water was still far away from us. The guy was just staring and smiling with his friend directly at my girlfriend chest which was completely exposed.

i just asked her to fix it... and just left at that. but soon later i wished i had yelled at them or something. What do you think I should have done? My girlfriend was mad because she knew they did it on purpose. There were a lot people around and we heard a lot of laughter especially after some guy said "wow they really bounce". But that is because her breasts are large.

2007-06-22 19:53:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've read other answers to questions such as mine about clashing mother/daughter relationships; how they have grown soo close now that the daughter is older.I have to say though, it seems so far-fetched. We fight every day and i just feel angry with her all the time even when were not arguing. We say horrible things to each other and I cant remember the last time we were civilized. She's a single mother and I am an only child so that has to be a major cause of it. Also, I'm at the point where i have one more year of highschool left and then i leave for college. So, i guess my questions are these: How long does it take to have a decent relationship? Are there cases where they cant be fixed? And other than cleaning the dishes, (realistically) what could i do to improve it, even if i feel like its one-sided? Thank you for any answers you can share.

2007-06-22 19:52:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this is my first one. we both like most of the same stuff and we get along and we both kno that we like each other but i havn't asked her out yet,but now heres the annoying thing her best friend (whos really hot) said that she likes me but if i go out with the really hot girl the other girl will kill me and she also is in control of the other girls at school and what she says goes.


we have known that we liked each other for 3 months i think.

2007-06-22 19:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by javatheblob 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 19:45:53 · 10 answers · asked by Ruchi M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-22 19:43:51 · 35 answers · asked by frerevivian 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do i get my fionce to be more romantic and not think of me as old news?

2007-06-22 19:40:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard that it's very normal husband and wife go dutch if they eat in a restaurant. Is that real?

2007-06-22 19:39:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was with a girl for 5 years, we were never married but we had a business together which became an issue because it was all in her name although I was told to call it "ours". I did all of the physical work, while she took care of the paperwork end of things. We had a fallout of sorts, some over business stuff, some personal. What I want to know is this, while the business was in her name, we never came up with a solution to ease anyones fears over either me being able to walk away and leave her hosed or for her to just shut me out and take it all away. What would have been the best way to prevent this? Me to just take her word for it, her to take my word that I wouldn't just up and leave her, or for us to have a contract drawn up so that neither could hose the other. What would have been the best way for us to do business together that would have left us both feeling comfortable with the situation. Thanks for any input....

2007-06-22 19:36:29 · 23 answers · asked by Brian M 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If so what happened? I didn't hear about it till the next morning. I didn't know I was even caught! Very embarrassing!

2007-06-22 19:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by ßỰŦŤΣЯ§! Guess who's back...for now! 6 in Singles & Dating

how can i find a person who can love me turly,i am not a normal person,who can find me?

2007-06-22 19:35:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day I was at the beach with my girl friend she took the bikini straps off her shoulders (to get an even tan). Well we were kind of close to the ocean. We were laying out there with our eyes closed and this guy starts yelling watch water! really loud.. he scared my gf which jumped up.. and started pushing all our stuff away... unfortunately she forgot about her bathing suit.... and actually so did i.

after we moved everything we noticed that the water was still far away from us. The guy was just staring and smiling with his friend directly at my girlfriend chest which was completely exposed.

i just asked her to fix it... and just left at that. but soon later i wished i had yelled at them or something. What do you think I should have done? My girlfriend was mad because she knew they did it on purpose. There were a lot people around and we heard a lot of laughter

2007-06-22 19:29:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The day I asked him for one month of not seeing eachother to clear our heads, he shows up with an engagement ring. I asked him not to buy me one for I could get it at cost and I didn't even want a diamond ring. Since I've been in the jewelry business for 22 years and I just had to look at it with a lens...it's what I do! It was a fake, scratches in the gold, fithy like it had been worn for a long time, also lazar cut so it wasn't his mothers ring and this man claims to be a millionair plus. He said " you're not a wholesale woman", and lead me to believe he had bought the ring from a jewelry store in another town. So if he has money and wants to marry me...why did he do this? Why the deception? I would have been happy with a simple twenty dollar ring and why can't he respect my wishes? And on top of all of this he's a psychologist.

2007-06-22 19:29:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It happen last weekend. We went to the beach and apparently his bathing suit was loose. Well... it kept falling down so he had to hold it up the whole time. I had wanted him to buy a bathing suit but he said he had one....... Im so mad i didn't make him buy a new pair. At one point as he was getting out of the water while me and my friends were relaxing on the shore very close by - the water was very low because he was close to the shore...so i guess he thought he was safe from any waves so he wasn't holding on to his bathing suit. Suddently a huge wave came up behind him and knocked him down. He got up and then another one hit him... and then another one... a few more!! every time he got up everyone got to see his package. at first i only felt bad for him cause a lot of girls were laughing.. my friends as well. but then they said something and suddently i was embarrass to be his gf. They both said his package was the smallest they have ever seen. Now they are always teasing me :(

2007-06-22 19:26:26 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want a different experience with my boyfriend in bed..we recently just talked about things and I told him a threesome is what i want. One of my close friends said that she would be interested too...SHOULD I DO IT..or will it ruin us..does anyone else know from this experience?? Please help!

2007-06-22 19:26:06 · 4 answers · asked by Marki 2 in Singles & Dating

Yes.. when you're single its all about racking up the sex partners it seems. Then when you're married, you're supposed to magically not want anybody else. What a load.

So tell me something; why is premarital sex RIGHT but extramarital relations WRONG?

In other words..when you're single...you don't have morals and sleep with as many people as you want. Then when you get married, you all of a sudden gain a sense of right and wrong?

This makes no sense to me.

2007-06-22 19:24:13 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-06-22 19:19:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ive been married 3 yrs. We do fight because I suspect him of lying. Lately Ive been secretly chking his txt msgs.
Very friendly msgs frm a 'man'. Tone made me suspicious so I calld the nmbr and found out it's a woman. No hanky-panky, just too-friendly and unnecessary msgs frm her. His replies r pretty straighforward. Why is her nmbr stored under a man's name?
The past month, the msgs have bn getting more frequent. She asks 2 meet him at least 2ice a wk at nite and he always agrees. She meets him when he's out 4 football with his friends, or 2 go clubbing on Friday nites. He nvr mentions her. If I didnt chk his phone I wldnt even know abt it.
He got a late-night msg and laughed when he read it. when I asked he said it was his football buddy. The nxt morn when I checked there was no msg - he'd deleted it. Ltr that morn he msged her to say sorry he cldnt answr her the nite before.

2007-06-22 19:17:16 · 17 answers · asked by really_baby_crazy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a virgin and I've heard that sex hurts the first time, is this true?

2007-06-22 19:16:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, so I have this guy friend who I like and I texted him and told him so. His exact answer? "Ok whatever"
What is that supposed to mean? We're good friends so I'm pretty sure we wasn't just trying to blow me off as like insignificant or w/e and I get that he probably doesn't like me back ,but WHAT DOES IT MEAN? Please help.
Oh, and I'm pretty sure he knew I wasn't joking because I replied "Did I just totally ruin our friendship?" and he said "Nope." He's a really nice guy and we're good friends and knowing him, I don't think it was just a 'whatever, I don't care' type of thing..or was it? What do you guys think?

2007-06-22 19:15:33 · 8 answers · asked by cambrexia 4 in Singles & Dating

he does not want to wear a condom, and cannot use his insurance because it's a catholic affiliation like St. Francis. They also refuse to give him a referral , it is against their policy. He cannot switch plans at this time because it is not allowed. It cost about 2,000. He also does not seem very enthused about getting this procedure and hesitated before. I cannot take birth control pills, I'm 45, it's too risky. Will our relationship survive. Am I supposed to live a life without sex or affection. In every other way he is a good, responsible, reliable man. He is also been very loyal to me so far. We have been together for 6 years.

2007-06-22 19:13:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

HHHEEEELLLPPP

2007-06-22 19:09:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he does not want to wear a condom, and cannot use his insurance because it's a catholic affiliation like St. Francis. They also refuse to give him arefferal , it is against their policy. He cannot switch plans at this time because it is not allowed. It cost about 2,000. He also does not seem very enthused about and hesitated before. I cannot take birth control pills, I'm 45, it's too risky. Will our relationship survive. Am I supposed to live a life without sex or affection. In every other way he is a good, responsible, reliable man. He is also been very loyal to me so far. We have been together for 6 years.

2007-06-22 19:08:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would love answers from all age groups so please state your age and # of children. I have a myspace page and so does my daughter, I went to go read her page today and she covered the screen and said, "why do YOU have to read it?!?" She has always been like this and I assumed it was because she has something to hide that she is embarrassed about. BUT she knows that I already know about her, and after I read it, THERE WAS NOTHING to hide, and all she said was that she was embarrassed about cursing and that's why!!! I already know about that and way way more so what is the problem? Why does she post something for EVERYONE TO READ but then doesn't want ME to read it? SHE has always been like this....it's like she doesn't want to share her life with me. :( I already know how teens are and I wouldn't be shocked about anything and she knows that! She also KNOWS that she wouldn't get "in trouble" for anything. Question for adults: Talk to me about how much privacy you think a teen should have.

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She added me as a friend to her myspace page, I was on MY myspace page and went to her page from mine. I was not keeping tabs on her or snooping. She is 17 and I'm transitioning into the "friend" instead of "parent" stage....but she wants me to be EVEN LESS than a friend. I'm very hurt by this but she has been this way for a long time. Another question: Why is it that as a parent you are expected to totally support your older teen and they only use you for what you can give them and then don't want to spend time with you or involve you in their life? Should you make them spend time with you? <---I listened to the advice of an expert and he said yes you should, but I have serious doubts.
Last week, by accident I caught her cheating on her boyfriend. Then when I told her that it was wrong, she asks me, "Why do you care?!?" In other words, "BUTT OUT!" Should we as parents butt out? and does the child really mean this, because if I did butt out, then I'd be accused of not caring.

2007-06-22 19:08:26 · 19 answers · asked by Always Honest 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ex has moved in with new partner on temp basis with 4 yr daughter. New partner working though not on great income. Who is responsible legally (not morally) for child maintenance? Ex is on benefit.

2007-06-22 19:06:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do you show this confidence so people can see that you have confident and not know that you feel embarrist by asking certain questions

thats if you get what i mean

2007-06-22 19:06:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 19:05:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships