The other day I was at the beach with my girl friend she took the bikini straps off her shoulders (to get an even tan). Well we were kind of close to the ocean. We were laying out there with our eyes closed and this guy starts yelling watch water! really loud.. he scared my gf which jumped up.. and started pushing all our stuff away... unfortunately she forgot about her bathing suit.... and actually so did i.
after we moved everything we noticed that the water was still far away from us. The guy was just staring and smiling with his friend directly at my girlfriend chest which was completely exposed.
i just asked her to fix it... and just left at that. but soon later i wished i had yelled at them or something. What do you think I should have done? My girlfriend was mad because she knew they did it on purpose. There were a lot people around and we heard a lot of laughter
2007-06-22 19:29:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Like you said.. it was an accident. Big deal. Don't dwell on the incident! You should stop being so embarrassed about human body parts.
2007-06-22 19:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, as much as I like girl's bodies its good to hear a story like this from a girls perspective. I would never do something like this although but just listening to your story makes me alittle pissed at those guys. There is really nothing you can do. You might be able to file harrassment charges against them. What they did was terrible. HOWEVER, you are partially to blame. You need to watch what you wear and how vulnerable you let yourself be at the beach. In any case, if I was there I might have done something to those guys ( if I had the presense of mind I do now after reading your question). Its probably good you didn't do anything, you really couldn't have.
2007-06-22 19:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what do you think you could have done? Yell at them? Why? They got what they wanted. Yelling would just have made them laugh more.
Sorry to say it, but the only person really to blame here is your girl friend. If she's going to obsess about an even tan to that extent, she needs to remember to manage her swimsuit. Besides, neither of you thought to look at the water before you moved?
2007-06-22 19:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been a little smarter. If you were going to take the risk of not wearing your top all the way, then don't get mad when you accidentally flash someone. It may have been a dirt bag move, but it was pretty slick. Big deal, you gave the people a cheap thrill.
2007-06-30 07:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Struts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were basically disrespecting and laughing at your girlfriend. She was put on show and you didn't do anything about it. You don't have to get into some big punch up but you should of at least given the guys the finger or something.
2007-06-22 19:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punch them and kick their butts and put them in a sack and use theme as a punching bag and slap their ***** faces with a rotten
fish and force theme to swallow a jelly fish then slam their heads
at the sand and say- you mo#@fuck8ng son of bitches ***** ***
dumb *** idiot butt licking fuc!k as$ sucking donkey balls retards who dont have a life!!!! and shoot their asses with a small spear gun similar to a BBQ stick and tie theme in the middle of the beach until they will have a bad *** sun burn
and then punch their sun burned bodies and then tie theme near a post in a parking lot and put a sign in their head "***** retard ***** for sale" DONE
2007-06-22 19:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I am more open minded cause I would have laughed said oohhh thats a good one as for you I would have thought you should join in on the laughter. she must be worth the trouble
2007-06-30 18:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by leah j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing even though it pissed you off they were idiots but you acted adult.some people will always act like idiots and you cannot fight people sometimes you have to try to put up with it. even if your girls mad at you for not doing something things could have gotten out of hand. better to turn the other cheek.
2007-06-28 17:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by ravingnative 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you did anything wrong. Who cares if they laughed. They were the ones that looked like perverted idiots. I think it's best if you don't think about what you could've/should've/would've done/said. It's in the past. As long as you and your girlfriend are OK...that's all that matters.
2007-06-30 11:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by Taracita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have talked to them but whats in the past is done with just try and prevent it from happening, there will always be jerks like that out there
2007-06-30 19:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋