this is my first one. we both like most of the same stuff and we get along and we both kno that we like each other but i havn't asked her out yet,but now heres the annoying thing her best friend (whos really hot) said that she likes me but if i go out with the really hot girl the other girl will kill me and she also is in control of the other girls at school and what she says goes.
we have known that we liked each other for 3 months i think.
2007-06-22 19:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by javatheblob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i ment that she would get mad at her best friend. and they knew each other sence they were 6.
2007-06-22 20:00:16 · update #1
i also don't want to hurt one or the others feelings(which probly isn't gona happen)
2007-06-22 20:10:21 · update #2
i ask the hot one out the entire school is either hunt me down or ignore me depending on her mood. i ask the one that i have a chance of lasting more that a month, i miss out on the hottest girl at school
2007-06-22 20:13:20 · update #3
Hey, if you like the cuter one, ask her..don't go out with the control freak.....You'll be sorry~! Show your individuality and I bet the control freak will want you even more!
2007-06-22 19:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Call me-C-4-Curious- 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you wont look like an idiot make it casual ask if she wants to do something quite casual dont make it sound too much like a date but make sure it is just the 2 of you. When your on the date and you think its going well you could tell her you lke her and does she want to go out with you. That way theres no one else around. And you might find that you dont like being with her yourself. But with having common interests you'll find it easier to arrange the date.
The only problem is do you want to go out with someone so controlling. And by the sounds of things it the best friend you fancy. Which is a difficult game. When i was 17 not too long ago a guy my best friend fancied asked me out and i went (not realising that was who my friend liked) And then she went from my best friend to someone who tried to cause trouble and even tried to get him to cheat on me after a year. So make sure you think before making a decision
2007-06-22 20:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Emma M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!!! what she sayz goes??? haha!!! that soundz like meeh. well let's see...you have the choice between a dictator or your match(at the moment). in a girl's point of view...erm dictator...i wouldn't be scared of the dictator even if she controls the school...you should be true to yourself...3 months??? hmmmm....this is hard...dictator WILL destroy you if you choose the other girl. or you could be happy but have the whole school out to get you...that didnt help...just make the choice that makes you happy...
sorry if i didn't help
2007-06-22 20:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is, who do you like?
Personally I would steer clear of anyone who is in control of anyone. It sounds like you like the girl who is in control and she likes you. But you also like the idea of taking out the girl who is really hot.
Do you like the girl who is in control enough to work through her control problems? If so, ask her out. If your preference is really for the girl who is really hot, ask her out and damn the torpedoes. (That's a David Farragut quote.)
It would really bother me to date a control freak, but you know who you like.
Good luck.
2007-06-22 19:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't do it without looking like an idiot. But don't worry, since we all look like idiots, she won't notice. As long as you're a nice idiot you have chance.
Good luck.
2007-06-22 19:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT IS PHYSICALY IMPOSIBLE . not to look like an idiot if its your first time ever asking sumone out. no offense but i dont think either one is worth it though
2007-06-30 10:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by rawski's ma boi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋