want a different experience..with my bf!?

Question

I want a different experience with my boyfriend in bed..we recently just talked about things and I told him a threesome is what i want. One of my close friends said that she would be interested too...SHOULD I DO IT..or will it ruin us..does anyone else know from this experience?? Please help!

Answer 1

The threesome thing can put a tremendous amount of tension into your relationship. Especially if your friend is close and is going to be around a lot. Before you do this, make absolutely certain you'll be able to deal with it later. What happens if you come home from work, and your friend is there with your boyfriend? Will you assume they've been doing it without you? Or will you assume that she stopped in to visit and waited for you to come home? What about repeat performances? Will you make this a regular thing with your friend? Will your boyfriend start sizing up all your friends as potential "thirds"?

It can be a great experience, but make sure it's worth the risk to you.

Answer 2

Ruin it with your boyfriend, or ruin it with your friend?

With your boyfriend, be absolutely certain that it is what you and he want. There are 100s of relationships torn apart every day in this precise circumstance.

With your friend, I would strongly advise against it. Things can get very weird after that, and you will very likely lose a friend. There are plenty of women to go around, find one neither of you are particularly close to.

Answer 3

Don't do it. Someone will get jealous and mad. Try handcuffs, blindfolds. There are tons of things to do. As soon as you add a third party it gets ruined. TRUST ME. not a good idea. I do know this from experience. Add costumes, dirty movies, roll playing, anything that does not involve a 3rd party.

Answer 4

ya never know til u try