Family & Relationships - 22 June 2007

2007-06-22 21:24:23 · 18 answers · asked by Ali 3 in Singles & Dating

Im living apart from my family since i was judt 18 years coz of parental torture.........i was really sick living with parents now its been more than a years im still living my life as much i can enjoy ......can i live all my life the way Im ritenow without parents

2007-06-22 21:22:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So my best friend has this cousin. We have been friends, but I saw him recently after a long time. Long story short, we really connected. He started telling all of his friends he liked and I was the best thing in his life tc. etc. (but keep in mind we are not going out). So my friend asks him if he was gonna ask me out and he was like totally, yeah. So I was told by many people to text him, which I did. He didn't text back. and a week later he said Don't talk to me. However, he is still saying all this stuff about me I mentioned before, and is still planning on asking me out......
Oh yes I forgot.....
he went out with another friend of mine and cheated )but after she cheated on him)
My friend who's cousin he is is worried he'll hurt me.
So what do you think?

2007-06-22 21:19:55 · 8 answers · asked by /\/@/\/@ 1 in Singles & Dating

I had an arguement with my lover about us having sex. She is very demanding and likes to try new things, We tried food on her body and she got a nurse uniform and I was happy with all that. But sometimes she just wants too much and I think she does it to push me. She keeps talking during it and likes to tell me what i am doing like she is my boss.

2007-06-22 21:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanna know that when will my wait be ended for my dream girl?

2007-06-22 21:14:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So i'm in love with a girl that is in the worst relationship ever, her fat coke head boyfriend he hits her, controls her life, he pulled a gun on her, and yes he has even tried to rape her. Her family knows but they turned their backs to the situation. He pays her bills and her dad stays with them so if she leaves they both will be homeless. So right now she is in bed with him and i'm here thinking about her, i wish she was in my bed but i go to college and stay with my parents and she could stay with me but not her father and she wont leave her father. So tomorrow i will talk to her all day while shes at work and then around 4:30 she will tell me that she loves me and she will talk to me tomorrow because she has to go through her phone and delete my text messages and phone number because he goes through her phone when she gets home and if there is a number he doesnt know even if it was just a wrong number he will hit her. and i will spend the whole night thinking of her.

2007-06-22 21:08:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, here's my situation I'm a 20 year old male living in Washington D.C. with my parents, right now I'm at a dalima where I want to move out on my own really soon. Of course my parents say that I'm too young and should stay home and go to school, but the more they want me to do things in there eyes the more I really want to leave. Now at this point I know that I'm a very responsable person, even if they don't think so I have about over two thousand dollars saved up and I been thinking about moving to El Paso, Texas where I went to college but moved back to DC for other reasons, so my question is with the job I have, two thousand dollars saved, no kids, no girlfriend, no debt, or anything like that holding me back, should I make my move?

2007-06-22 21:06:37 · 3 answers · asked by Mr. Nice Guy 1 in Family

I have just lost my girlfriend whom i love like no other. I was going to ask her to marry me in two weeks. But she ended it. My mom wants me to die and has wanted me to die ever since i started thinking for myself because i cost her money. And even though i have two jobs and work my *** off she still wants me dead. I have an abusive/alchoholic stepfather that likes to get drunk and come home and beat me till i can barley breathe. I have no postivley suppportive friends and i am completly alone in life. I have nothing to live for plain and simple.

2007-06-22 21:01:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this girl for a couple months. Me and this her have been off and on for a while but no matter what happens we can't get over eachother. I'm always thinking about her and have never cared for someone this much before.

Is it really love or am I to young?

2007-06-22 20:59:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met on myspace. The situation is that I'm 18, and pretty much in love with this girl. She lives in California, and I live in Las Vegas. Main issue right there i suppose. We are very good friends, and we talk on the phone everyday. She knows how i feel about her. But she doesn't feel the same way, at least not completely. She says that she can see herself with me, but just not now. Her past relationships haven't been all that great and as for me, I have not really had the pleasure to have a relationship yet. She told me 3 months ago that we would only be just good friends. Afterwards, she got into a relationship, and we didn't talk 4 a while. It ended badly, we started talking again, and now she says she is starting to develop feelings for me. I feel like im close to being with her but i don't know. I really do care for her. But i have distance, her not knowing when she wants to be with me and reality working against me.Is it possible this can actually work out for me, or us

2007-06-22 20:58:36 · 2 answers · asked by brandon_mcduff 2 in Singles & Dating

some people i know really care about having only a few partners who they've shared their bodies with. however, some other people i know have been safe and have had many partners. they just see it as recreational. what do you think?

2007-06-22 20:57:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Quick history. My girlfriend and her kid have been living with me for a few months. Her sister moved in a couple months ago. We have been having an affair ever since. I love my girlfriend and I want to stay with her but I have also developed feelings for her sister. I have had alot of affairs in past relationships and I was open and honest about that with my girlfriend after we were dating for awile. I told her I wasn't sure it was a good idea for her sister to live with us and that I was afraid I would fall into to old bad habits. She said she trusted me and all was good. Well here we are two months later and my life is more complicated that ever. What do I do? Part of me wants to come clean and ask them both to be my lovers but I don't think my girlfriend will be cool with that. I think her sister would be down with that arangement. Should I go for it and hope for the best?

2007-06-22 20:50:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah sure i'm the prettiest, the most athletic, the hottest, i drive the nicest car .. (my dad bought me a BMW for my sweet 16), and i have the nicest bod .. but other than that .. im just a regular person. why are my friends so jealous?

2007-06-22 20:49:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well shes not really big or even fat shes very curvy and sexy - but unfortunately its me thats too thin! and we are both the same height we are totally unproportional physically in my opnion.

Can totally unproportional people still be compatible under the sheets? Whats your experience on this?

2007-06-22 20:47:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 20:46:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 20:45:37 · 15 answers · asked by BettyBoop 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in love with my pet chimp and my mom says its an unhealthy relationship!?! what should i do!!!

2007-06-22 20:36:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's two guys at work.
One of them accused me of sleeping with the other one.

I asked the accuser why he said it. He claimed it was a "figure of speech".

I asked the second guy. He said "That's just how he is."


Why would a guy friend twice accuse me of sleeping with anyone...much less the same guy over and over?


I'm really close to the one who accused me. He comes over to my house sometimes.
I barely even speak to the second guy. We're friends but that's it!

Does the first on LIKE me or something?

I did tease my friend if he wouldn't pay attention to me...the other guy would. That's when he flares into these rages and tells the other guy HE CAN HAVE ME.

When did I become property and his to give away???

2007-06-22 20:35:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an odd situation. I'm gonna be dating a friend of my sister's, who i also worked with and have known for 2 years. My sister is 24, her friend, Andrea, is 18 and I am 19. My sister is really annoying and she is constantly trying to find out whats going on between me and Andrea. Andrea is worried that if things don't work out, it will be odd between me, her, and my sister. she is worried she'd lose both of us as friends. Any advice at how to keep my sister's influence in this at a minimum and make things work out?

2007-06-22 20:35:33 · 2 answers · asked by kyryliw 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 20:34:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we r friends since child hood,but since last two years behaviour of my friend has changed he behaves as though he love me. but at that i didnt have any feelings towards him.but recently he joined a job near towrds my job.so we became more friendly than ever before .we shared al our personals i started liking for his careness towards me.we used to go out & have a good time.at that time i want him to tell his feelings towrds me so i said him that im going to accept one of my friends whop proposed me.after little time he told me "i only wannt to propose u.If u want to acept him after knowimg this u can" i dint replayed we moved as though nothing hapend between us.but one of my father friends saw us & informed to my father .my father asked me out i accept & said i want 2 marry him.& this al said 2 my BF and asked him to meet my father but he dint,sayg my father wil nt acept.he stopped talkind aftr that.aft 1 mnt he came 2me sayin 141 pleas undrstnd.bt my friends sy he ditched me.is it so

2007-06-22 20:30:53 · 1 answers · asked by rishi 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm really extremly sad with this huge horrible knot in my stomach.He said we just need a couple days apart but im really scared he's not going to come back and im really scared.I really love him very much but my friend says i should just give him his space since we've been arguing all the time over petty stuff,Half of me feels ok but the other half wants to fight to call him and get him back...ithought it was my pride but i begged him to stay to work it out but said just give me this and i'll be back.But deep down inside in the fond of my gut i have a weird feeling that this is it.Should I have hope and wait to see what happens or should I just start getting it in my head that he's not going to come back?

2007-06-22 20:30:33 · 20 answers · asked by jojomorgan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Awhile ago i dated a girl who i'd always been on rocky terms with but really liked. I'll call her X. We argued, fought and generally did not get along. For obvious reasons, we decided to stop dating. Now, 10 months later i've completely fallen for a new girl who used to be friends with X. Now it seems like i see X whenever i turn around, she'll go out of her way to talk to me and belittles my girlfriend. Now my girlfriend hates X but because i keep running into her i already know i'm going to get stuck between a rock and a hard place cause my friends find it hilarious and try to get X and i to run into each other. They then tell my girlfriend. I've left many a bruise on my friends but i know this is going to come to a head soon. Anyways... sorry for the length but advice?

2007-06-22 20:28:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I bring her back?Despite my best efforts to educate her about not dating a black guy, she betrays me. Maybe I should just threaten to disown her. It's not something I want to restort to though. What do you think?

2007-06-22 20:25:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-22 20:23:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I know says that his di*k is 4 inches and he thinks its large. I dont know, but is he lying to me? Is this large?

2007-06-22 20:19:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like I'm in high school again. My two best friends hate each other and really, the only reason is because they don't have anything in common and they're both wanting to claim "best friend status" in my eyes. The thing is, they both have it. Well, both of them always have snide remarks to make about the other whenever we hang out...and whenever I tell either of them "I don't let her say anything about you, don't say anything about her" and they get mad at ME...and each of them try to convince me that the other doesn't "really care about you" blah, blah...and both of them are like "I would never make you choose" but by their actions, they are making me choose because as a friend, I will defend each, but then the other gets mad at me for defending them...and omg, it's such a headache. Now, I'd like to say "oh, I just can't be friends with either" BUT... I've been friends with one for 12 years and the other for 10 years...help!

2007-06-22 20:19:23 · 5 answers · asked by candeecanes 1 in Friends

would this be a lose-lose situation...she is nice, sweet, and available.....and a 10. Would this make my brother's life hell.
How should I approach this.?

No...I really need to know about experiences....I mean it....I hadn't seen her in 2 years...I saw her once last week....and she popped up this week...maybe I'm just a dufus.

2007-06-22 20:09:27 · 5 answers · asked by Experimental876 4 in Singles & Dating

I was driving home from work yesterday and saw a little girl; in a bus stop; crying her heart out clutching her teddy. She could not have been much over 6 years old, by herself. I initially drove by but it distressed me so much I had to go back. I spoke to the girl got her mum's mobile number and called her to find out where she was. She said she was only seconds away. The little girl thanked me. Was i right or was i wrong..i feel it was the lesser of the two wrongs...please advise.

2007-06-22 20:08:42 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked my guest book attendant ( a 16 yr old student of mine who I thought was responsible) about 6 weeks before the wedding to hand out programs at the wedding and do the guest book at the reception. I bought her a corsage, listed her in the program, and bought her a gift. At the reception, her parents came in late and told my husband she had to babysit instead. I am very frustrated with her (many people did not sign book) and don't know what to say. Any suggestions?

2007-06-22 20:07:52 · 14 answers · asked by musicchic 1 in Weddings