How can I make the impossible work with a female?

Question

We met on myspace. The situation is that I'm 18, and pretty much in love with this girl. She lives in California, and I live in Las Vegas. Main issue right there i suppose. We are very good friends, and we talk on the phone everyday. She knows how i feel about her. But she doesn't feel the same way, at least not completely. She says that she can see herself with me, but just not now. Her past relationships haven't been all that great and as for me, I have not really had the pleasure to have a relationship yet. She told me 3 months ago that we would only be just good friends. Afterwards, she got into a relationship, and we didn't talk 4 a while. It ended badly, we started talking again, and now she says she is starting to develop feelings for me. I feel like im close to being with her but i don't know. I really do care for her. But i have distance, her not knowing when she wants to be with me and reality working against me.Is it possible this can actually work out for me, or us

Answer 1

Yes, it can work out.

But, first she needs to deal with her past relationships, and you both need to work out the distance issue. It sounds to me like she's on the rebound right now. Wasn't ready for you, had bad relationship, now she wants you. Make sure this isn't just hurt feelings and pain latching onto you because you're there for her.

I wish you luck, but don't rush into anything.

Answer 2

Will you be willing to have a relationship so far apart or trust her despite of the many six packs she sees within her living quarters? How will you commute to and fro even when you ache to be with her and can't be there to hold her in daring times? Maybe you should take it slow being she has recent relationships prior to your none. Discuss some of these views with her and she how she responds.