Awhile ago i dated a girl who i'd always been on rocky terms with but really liked. I'll call her X. We argued, fought and generally did not get along. For obvious reasons, we decided to stop dating. Now, 10 months later i've completely fallen for a new girl who used to be friends with X. Now it seems like i see X whenever i turn around, she'll go out of her way to talk to me and belittles my girlfriend. Now my girlfriend hates X but because i keep running into her i already know i'm going to get stuck between a rock and a hard place cause my friends find it hilarious and try to get X and i to run into each other. They then tell my girlfriend. I've left many a bruise on my friends but i know this is going to come to a head soon. Anyways... sorry for the length but advice?
2007-06-22 20:28:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, she's jealous and likes you still probably.
call her some mean names and stuff, and then she'll stop liking you (hopefully- some people are just crazy)
And your punk friends should stay out of this.. tell them you'll pay them back when they got girl troubles.
2007-06-22 20:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by tobeornottobe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll call you Y. Y are you in contact with X still, when you have now in your life? Fellow man, would you stay in contact with a robber who stole money from you? Why would you stay in any type of contact with a woman who played games with your heart and dumped you? Get rid of the ex. Delete her number, flush the e-mail address, ignore her, etc. Work on doing things right with the new girl in your life. Tell your friends to butt off from your private life or hit the road. What matters is you and your new girl, not what everyone else thinks.
Good luck!
2007-06-22 20:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by TheRealHitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, how do you feel about X at this moment? If you've been doing better without her, then you need to understand that she seems to be an imminent threat as a relational saboteur, and tell her to be more diligent in avoiding those "coincidental" encounters.....and telling her to quit the negative comments about your current girl should get it through her cranium that you really do care (and defend) your current girl.....if you're wanting to get back with X, do a thorough examination of yourself and the entire situation you're in and, if it's what you really want, then quickly call it quits with your current girl, before you get in too deep.....wisdom, brother.....
2007-06-22 20:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by toocoolsnoopy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Get new 'friends'. These people are not your friends, their just ***holes that you know.
2) Ignore X. She's obviously got mental problems.
3) Keep dating the current gf, unless X makes this too hard to accomplish. If X does, then move on. Almost no gf is worth a butt-load of hassles.
2007-06-22 20:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by energeticthinker 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1 - Dont woryy about the ex or your friends they are just **** stirrers, 2 - Just concentrate on the relationship you have now with your new girlfriend and 3 - if your friends are like that, get new friends, they certainly dont sound supportive of your and or your relationship. Of course she would belittle your relationship with your new girlfriend, maybe shes realised what she missed out on - so sad - too bad - is what i would say to her!!!
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2016-10-18 10:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by matchett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR FRIENDS TO GROW UP. Because this is serious business they are going to F up your relationship with your girl, and if they can't understand that and mature themselves quickly, then you are going to have to make a choice between your sweety or your rotten friends. AND if I was you I would go with the girl.
2007-06-22 20:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by cuteness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play yourself short. If friend X are your new girlfriend friend, then you are truly talked about and informed on your latest bloopers and blunders. Be true to thy self and not do anything to impress your friend or make Ms.X feel jealous. Truly, in the end you will be the one getting laughed on.
2007-06-22 20:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by jedi12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well u need to talk to ur friends that u r really serious with ur gf n dont want things to go wrong.. if they r true n good frenz, they will understand for sure.. n talk to ur gf also.. explain to her.. n then u also need to tell X directly on her face to stop all this n let u lead ur own life..
2007-06-22 20:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. X id kinda mean and so are your friends. but you will just have to hang out somewhere else. i guess. or kill X no just kidding. talk it out with X and your girlfriend. tell them you dont want to be with X. now do you see how silly it was to name her X? lol
2007-06-22 20:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋