So i'm in love with a girl that is in the worst relationship ever, her fat coke head boyfriend he hits her, controls her life, he pulled a gun on her, and yes he has even tried to rape her. Her family knows but they turned their backs to the situation. He pays her bills and her dad stays with them so if she leaves they both will be homeless. So right now she is in bed with him and i'm here thinking about her, i wish she was in my bed but i go to college and stay with my parents and she could stay with me but not her father and she wont leave her father. So tomorrow i will talk to her all day while shes at work and then around 4:30 she will tell me that she loves me and she will talk to me tomorrow because she has to go through her phone and delete my text messages and phone number because he goes through her phone when she gets home and if there is a number he doesnt know even if it was just a wrong number he will hit her. and i will spend the whole night thinking of her.
2007-06-22 21:08:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Until she can break away from this guy, you're out of luck. Pretty sad that her father is there for all this and doesn't intervene or support her. Best you can do is let her know you are there for her whenever she needs it. Maybe she'll finally see the light and start to live her life for herself instead of others.
Good luck to both of you.
2007-06-22 21:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she chooses to be in that relationship - if she wanted out there are domestic violence shelters that can help her - and her father with a new place to stay.
Why didn't she call the police on him ever?
By talking to her, you are putting her life in danger...your number shows up on the phone bill, what if he at some point checks that? You should give her the advice to get to a DV shelter and only after that will you speak to her again...for her own sake.
2007-06-23 04:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THere is nothing you can do
it is always going to be like that
until she decides she is ready to move on
and get out of his life
i know it sucks
i had went thru the exact same predicament when i was younger myself
whatever you do
DONT
PLEASE DONT
when she consults to you about how it is bad
jst put up tips like
hes such a jerk you should date me
or i will treat you so much better
you may think you are helping
but you really arent
she is looking for someone to vent to
not to find a solution for
and besides
even if you are better for her
it would be obvious at this situation
she isnt ready for someone like you
to treat her good just yet
i know it sucks
but
thats jst life
i guess
fck it
fck em all
2007-06-23 04:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you love her? then man up and do something about it!!!! speak to ur parents or somebody and help this girl get out of a bad situation!! don't sit there moaning about it on the computer where it gets lost in cyberspace!!
2007-06-23 04:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋