Quick history. My girlfriend and her kid have been living with me for a few months. Her sister moved in a couple months ago. We have been having an affair ever since. I love my girlfriend and I want to stay with her but I have also developed feelings for her sister. I have had alot of affairs in past relationships and I was open and honest about that with my girlfriend after we were dating for awile. I told her I wasn't sure it was a good idea for her sister to live with us and that I was afraid I would fall into to old bad habits. She said she trusted me and all was good. Well here we are two months later and my life is more complicated that ever. What do I do? Part of me wants to come clean and ask them both to be my lovers but I don't think my girlfriend will be cool with that. I think her sister would be down with that arangement. Should I go for it and hope for the best?
2007-06-22 20:50:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having sex with your girlfriends sister is the E ticket of life. You only live once. Enjoy porking both of them. No matter what anyone says if you don't keep seeing both of them you will regret not doing it later on. I was going out with a girl and her mother. It was the best time of my life.
2007-06-22 21:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mister Bald 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to put a cap on your hormones!!! First off, your girlfriend came first, your responsibility is to HER and no other female! Don't make an excuse that you have bad behavior, it is obvious YOU DO!!! You are responsible for controlling your actions and if you began to have an attraction to your girlfriends sister(or any other female), you should have been honest w/ your girlfriend and told her so. You can't say you love your girlfriend and cheat on her at the same time, especially w/ her sister!!! If you truly do love her, you would have ignored the feelings of attraction for her sister or you would have suggested she move out. Take responsibility for your actions!!! Come clean to your girlfriend & live with the results...you caused them. Be a good man!
2007-06-23 01:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by run4fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some sister she's got.....
Look, you messed up. Even though you did try to warn her, your girlfiend is not going to be happy about this. Best you can do at this point is fess up and hope for the best. If you really want to try the sibling bigamy idea, don't be too surprised if they both are disgusted and kick you out. But who knows, there's all kinds in this world and they may agree to it.
2007-06-22 21:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why you NEVER let a man or woman move in with you when you're married or just a couple living together. This happens 99% of the time. Damn, this is a Jerry Springer episode waiting to happen! You need to be honest with your girlfriend. What you've been doing to her is terrible and I hope she dumps your *** and finds someone else who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated, asshole.
2007-06-22 20:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by ☆Kristi☆ Lucy Jane's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing for you to do is go with ur girlfreind. She trusts you and if you really love her (and it seems like she loves you) dump the sis and stay with ur original girlfriend. You dont want this turning into some Jerry Springer ****
2007-06-22 20:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerk! Stop making manly man BS chest beating sounds about sticking it where it does not belong. End your affair by telling sis you are taking this to the grave. Then practice saying "In her dreams" if you are ever confronted with the did you or didn't you.
Maybe it would also be a good idea to delete this question.
2007-06-22 21:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if you love your girlfriend then you should stay with her. Just tell the sister that you just want to keep things sexual and nothing else. If you can't keep things just on a sexual basis with her, then you need to choose. Don't wait for things to get worse.
2007-06-22 20:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you're girlfriend to call me.I found a coupon in the paper she might like.From the animal shelter,It says you can get you're dog nutted for half price. Really,Its a great deal.
2007-06-22 21:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Hot Kelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hot
2007-06-22 20:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, do it man, go for it all, ask, and hell, if it doesnt work out, move on
2007-06-22 20:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋