Family & Relationships - 22 June 2007

2007-06-22 15:14:23 · 35 answers · asked by lucy 2 in Singles & Dating

so ive been with this guy 4a yr but without the gf and bf title... we do everything a couple in a relationship does!! but he doesnt want to commit or a real relationship!1 he says he loves me, but that it better off the way we are cause he is the jealous type and he doesnt want 2 control me!1 so he doesnt want 2 loose me comletely?? i ve tried leaving him because i want somehing serious because i think it on fair, it makes me feel insecure! and another thing that bothers me, he wont even introduce me 2 his family! i mean sometimes i think he is confusing what we have as a friendship!!! and if that so i want 2 move on!!! but i really dont know what 2 do?? what if all he needs is time and he really loves me??

2007-06-22 15:14:17 · 4 answers · asked by meluvmot 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 15:10:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and i mean no

2007-06-22 15:07:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this guy for about 10 years since we started college together. He is mostly straight, I am mostly gay. One time like 5 years ago we were drunk and masturbated together while watching porn. We touched each other a little, never talked about it again. Neither of us were dating anyone at the time. Now, it happened yesterday. We had both been drinking a lot, being stupid, wrestling around, but we did play a little with each other. The problem is he has been dating this girl for about a year, and we're all close friends now. Today when I talked to him on the phone he didn't say one word about it, neither did it. Tomorrow we are all hanging out, and I don't know how to act around them. I will be VERY nervous and I feel bad about her not knowing. So, should I just forget it or what?

2007-06-22 15:04:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is how it goes..
-tomorrow we have to go to a family function.
-i said i am not going and my mother in law is going
-reason-at the party there are going to be two girls my mother in law chose for my hubby ( but obviously hubby said no and married me)......one is so rich that she has a bentley(she is 18!) other is a genius (med school)...........
MY MOTHER IN LAW KEEPS ON PUTTING ME DOWN.....she goes oh they have everything...the girl is so smart and rich bla bla bla........
i am sick of her putting me down..
she goes "look at kiera she is so brilliant she is in pre med school and look at u ....u r just going to a state college" ,"look at sara she has a bentley ..look what ur dad( he is justa doctor!) gave just a lexus."

to clarify my hubby is a doctor and she is just an insurance clerk....
what do i do to stop her??
i dnt want my hubby to be involved as he has his own stresses at work....

and those two girls i dnt know how to talk to them...she invited them at dinner on sunday.

2007-06-22 15:02:33 · 16 answers · asked by Just another gal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-22 15:02:29 · 10 answers · asked by ConcernedStepMom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Most teenage marriages don't work but I wanna know about the ones that did and still are.

2007-06-22 15:02:18 · 39 answers · asked by Diana Ngo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

with you?

2007-06-22 15:00:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I have been with my husband for 4 years, I met him when i was 10 years old, we have only been married a year though ... I do love him very much, he also knows I get on the net and chat! I am 21 and he is 24, so anyways I started talking to this guy that lives in New Zealand about 2 and a half years ago and we chat almost everyday, mind you I live in the US! So it isn't like we can see each other! Well we are really good friends and we don't cyber or anything like that, he is just a generally nice guy to chat with and makes me feel good about myself! Well lately I have been feeling like I am falling for him? Is this considered emotionally cheating or do you guys think i am going through a phase? LOL ... also I told my husband about 6 months ago i wanted a divorce, but he said he would try to work things out with me and what I wasn't happy on, but he changes for about a week then goes back to same ol same ol, but I told him this before I started getting feelings for the other guy!

2007-06-22 14:58:54 · 13 answers · asked by Heather M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i know im being stupid for asking... but i told my girl my size (she is out of town and wont be back later, but she told me she was ready and a virgin so til she returns) and she didnt have a problem with it (Im neutral on the average statistics). Could she be lying???

2007-06-22 14:54:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-22 14:53:30 · 28 answers · asked by bigmumu2003 1 in Singles & Dating

to that kat that has some interesting answers

2007-06-22 14:52:34 · 5 answers · asked by soccermom3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

thank you for answers.

2007-06-22 14:48:16 · 23 answers · asked by boathouse 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Almost a year ago, my dad got remarried to a new person, not my mom. Before they got married, she was really nice to me. Then, she got a little bossier, a little meaner, and a little more short-tempered. She is now obsessing with creating this image of a "perfect family". It is so annoying, and my brother, sister, and new stepsister do not approve of it. We go out and get this professional photographer to take "family pictures" of us. What's worse, is she told the photographer to photoshop out my brother's pimples on his face. I felt so angry for him. I mean, if I didn't have a mom, I could understand this whole thing. But I DO! I am with her so much more than them. I only see them once every two weeks. I usually don't even think about them most days, but when I am with them, it is horrible. She is mean to my sister and I a lot, since we are younger. She is only nice to my brother (age 15) and her own daughter (age 8). She obsesses over this family thing. How do I stop her?

2007-06-22 14:45:46 · 12 answers · asked by TaCaBu 2 in Family

2007-06-22 14:45:38 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2 years ago I had a baby with this guy that I dated for 6 months. After the baby came he decided that being at the bar or hanging out with his friends are more important. I have 2 other kids from a previous marriage. When the baby came he did not want anything to do or let me see my other 2 children(as I do not have custody of them) When the baby was about 3 months old he was telling everyone that he was sterile and could not have kids.(the baby looks just like him, and I know for a fact he is his) Well our problems just got worse and I could not take them anymore so I left around thanksgiving.
I started dating a guy I have not seen in 10 years. In the begining it was all great. then 4 weeks into it the problems started. He was afraid to get attached and decided to break up with me. I fought hard and got him to stay. About 2 months ago he lost his job and we started living with my parents. I have been the sole money maker and supporting my parents and us. I can't decide between the 2

2007-06-22 14:44:46 · 10 answers · asked by lilprinces7869 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i have picked my boys game read other question to know moere in my profile well anyway i asked her when i told her about the game i asked if it would be ok if i just made the reception and that's when she said why if i miss the most important part and she kept telling me that i should be there not at my boy tourement so do i go to the reception after his game i am very upset about some things and am not sure if she even wants me there if i am not there for the wedding so do i just forget it all or what i have offered to pay for my meals that would have been served but what else should be done

2007-06-22 14:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by LOLO 3 in Weddings

Ok,,so i moved from this town. I love this town and i was pretty upset when i moved. Now a friend came to visit me but i didnt know he was so annoying. Although i put my old town and friends ahead of everything i do have friends here but he continuasly bags on them. Then he proclaims himself the king of everything. Even when you beat him, he doesn't admit to it but is to chicken to play again. My mom is having surgery so my dad is out of the house a lot so i take care of the house mainly but he doesn't pick up the slack. He doesn't go home for another week, how do i a) make him act a little better or b) deal with him for a week?

2007-06-22 14:43:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend's lawyer told her that there is nothing that can be done to make sure the dad is the one who picks up the son on visitation day. They have joint custody and now after two yrs,he is wanting to modify the custody agreement to where he has sole custody. When they were married he rarely spent time with the child.

2007-06-22 14:41:01 · 9 answers · asked by d j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OMG, I have a very simular parent problem just like you do. My name is Ron and I just turned 23 in May. I can stand my mother and I hate her presence. I dont talk to her at all and to avoid her, I always stay in my room. My mother has the same type of crazy problems. She's in her 40's. She's too overbarring, overprotective, paranoid, and has a huge problem with always yelling to the top of her lungs when she gets mad. Its like she doesn't know how to control her herself! She loves me so much but she treats me like a child and doesn't respect me at all as a adult. I'm the first male in my family to graudate from high school and I have a job and been working for 5 to 6 years. I dont have any kids, I never had sex and I'm still a vergin (I cant believe that I am....). She always picks fights with my stepfather and loves to start drama for no reason at all. She hasn't worked in years and doesn't do anything now these days except sit in the living room and watch t.v. and knit blankets and eat sunflower seeds and candy. She's a Diabetic and has Authoritis and other problems that I cant even get into. I dont have a driver's liscence because I never applied for one. I know how to drive, I just cant pass the Written Test at the DMV. I failed it twice and I haven't went back since because I feel like I might fail again. So my parents takes me to work instead and picks me up. I never cause either of them any trouble and always pay for everything on my own wither it's gas, groceries, clothes or anything else. I buy my own things and never ask anyone for a dime. I dont believe in asking people or borrowing money from people cause its pathetic. But the main issue I really have is my mother. I just plain hate her. I dont talk to her and I'm sick of her always telling me that she loves me and that I'm all that she has when thatz not true. I have a half older sister that has 2 children of her own and lives on her own. I dont get along with my sister either. I dont like God at all and blame him for giving me such a mother and such a lonely and depressive life in the country. I wish so much that my mother's life would just end so that I wouldn't have to worry about her anymore. It wouldn't fully make me happy but it would be a start.....
If anyone thinks they have some advice for me then go right ahead, cause no one on here would want a crazy mother and life like mine.....

2007-06-22 14:40:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Thats what worries me the most lately, he loves his job brings the beef home, buys me great things does great with the step kids and the baby we just had, but hell with the emailing im just not so sure all that is great sounds really weird, and stuff.

2007-06-22 14:40:18 · 4 answers · asked by soccermom3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Worked all week, it's Friday night, and all I have to do is sit here at the computer, and read words on a screen.....lol, that's downright depressing when you think about it. I'm divorced, (which in my case , is a GOOD thing)....ahhhhh, this TOO shall pass! Anybody else kind of lonely, or sad?

2007-06-22 14:39:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

was actually your brother/sister or another relative? Having that knowledge, would you still be with them?

And yes, this is a serious question.

2007-06-22 14:39:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when ever something goes wrong its always my falt! I dont know if i can take it anymore. My story is i grew up in a foster home my whole life and he took me in we have a child together and one all the way. Hes just so hatefull twords me and i have no where to go, no family no money and only one friend but she cant help me she has problems of her own and i dont want to put strees on her. i just need some advice...should i try to work it out or should i go to an batterd womans shelter.

one more thing when ever he gets mad he always tells me to leave because its his house and his mone...and he doesnt even care if i dont have anywhere to go and he makes sure i take our son...i dont want to make him out to be the bad guy he does take care of us but is it worth it? please help...

2007-06-22 14:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Am devasted.Help me please.

2007-06-22 14:37:04 · 45 answers · asked by zidane z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The email sounds funny who would you approach we do not share the same computer or email, so im kinda going against, but I think he goes against when he emails a woman and she says stuff in it way personal how would you take it.

2007-06-22 14:28:18 · 11 answers · asked by soccermom3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

daughter is renewing wedding vows, ceremony is being held
at a baseball field.

2007-06-22 14:23:57 · 12 answers · asked by charlene 2 in Weddings

ok I gotta answer some ppl here who thought that its not right to hit a woman, but this is our RELIGION how can u disrespect our right to do it???? qu'ran sez women must be controlled or she danger of hellfire, this is fact b'cuz most ppl in hell are women it's a fact right in qu'ran. so plz understand and help us!

See is there any other way. i mean maybe if we trap her in the room for some time or even if my father won't hit her then maybe we can take away the food until she relents to be reasonable. i know u think this is harsh but anything is better than breaking the family. i am her son but i can hate her if she does this action! wud it be better to get her to move back to pakistan? at least there she cannot run away like this in US. even now v are not sure where she is living.

2007-06-22 14:17:41 · 10 answers · asked by Minerva 1 in Family

Many of you have read Volki's messages about how my dog and I have caused him aggrevations. He also complains about me all day to his friends. He whines that my dog is not trained whereas his stubborn Schnauzer is the answer to his prayers. The difference between his dog and mine is that my dog obeys me, whereas his dog has to find a motivation to do what is said. Also, he complains to his friends about my not slaving all day for him (as he puts it, not doing the basics). His living quarters are spotless, not to mention that I do have to go to work.
Why would he do this to me? Do you think this is fair?

2007-06-22 14:04:30 · 16 answers · asked by Dandie the Dirty Dog 2 in Marriage & Divorce