so ive been with this guy 4a yr but without the gf and bf title... we do everything a couple in a relationship does!! but he doesnt want to commit or a real relationship!1 he says he loves me, but that it better off the way we are cause he is the jealous type and he doesnt want 2 control me!1 so he doesnt want 2 loose me comletely?? i ve tried leaving him because i want somehing serious because i think it on fair, it makes me feel insecure! and another thing that bothers me, he wont even introduce me 2 his family! i mean sometimes i think he is confusing what we have as a friendship!!! and if that so i want 2 move on!!! but i really dont know what 2 do?? what if all he needs is time and he really loves me??
2007-06-22 15:14:17 · 4 answers · asked by meluvmot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He still needs time? You will drive yourself nuts worrying about this guy and you cannot continue like that. If he really loves you as he had said, you'll know it when you approach him and tell him as it is, "If you cannot commit to me, it's over. Long story short, I love you but I cannot wait forever, so choose."
2007-06-22 15:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds we wants to be friends with benifits who wants all the ya know benefits of the relationship
u need tell home boy u cant get the cow with out buying the milk meaning u either need to commit or im gonna go head and quit this relationship and the dude really loves u he'll want to commit and if he doesnt u go on to better and cuter things
2007-06-22 15:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie Rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i give him sometime to think about things but tell him how you feel and what you want from him and if he cant give you what you want then let him go.
2007-06-22 15:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by betty m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you, i htink youll know
move on
2007-06-22 15:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋