If you find a email from another woman to your husband?

Question

The email sounds funny who would you approach we do not share the same computer or email, so im kinda going against, but I think he goes against when he emails a woman and she says stuff in it way personal how would you take it.

Answer 1

hey mama, i can totally agree with you. my hubby n i are a young couple. he used to go onto true.com and myspace especially,, i used to catch him all the time. tha thing was i was preggo with my first baby and he wouldnt care, in fact he still does this. i've read somethings in his phone stating he loved his ex and that she was the only person he wanted to be with. i asked him about it and he denied it. he's told this girl lots of times that he loves her. she knows he's married, but why does she keep talkin to him? i will never know... dont feel bad for him mama, he is gonna get his times 20worse. you keep doing you and you will be fine.. karma is a ***** and it bites hard. you can download a keylogger its basically spywear and bust him that way.. go to download.com and they have several kinds to bust a cheating spouse in the act... i hope i helped much love..

Answer 2

I would take it as infidelity. You better be checking his email, IM's and chat room activity. There's a lot of on line cheating going on all over the world, it is ruining marriages, believe it. Go on line to ' on line infidelity' and read all about it. Don't sit there like an idiot (I know you are not an idiot). and let this go on right under your nose. Get a key logger or key ghost or a web watcher. You have every right as his wife to find out exactly what he is saying and doing with other women in the flesh or on the Internet.

Just because it is on the Internet doesn't mean it isn't cheating. It can come to cyber sex or planned actual meetings in the flesh. Even if it is just flirting on the net it is still infidelity. Keep your eyes and ears open and demand a stop to it as soon as you get enough proof it is going on.

He will tell you to mind your business and that you have no right to step on his privacy, B** S**t.

Then he will try and blame it on you, that it is your fault he is doing some thing wrong. B** S**t again.

Don't put up with it. It is totally disrespecting you and your marriage.

Answer 3

You better be checking things out that is how my husband of 30 years started his affair is by emailing a tramp he used to work. I was trusting and didn't check things out if I had it to do over I would be alot smarter and keep an eye on exactly what he was up to and would check the computer very often. Better safe than sorry, we are in the process of a divorce, but the girlfriend is no longer in the picture, but trust of 30 years is gone.

Answer 4

Soccermom3, you have every right to be upset. After all he is your husband and you are his wife. Why is another woman e-mailing him? Why does she even have yall's e-mail address? Do you suspect he is cheating on you with this woman? In all actuality that is exactly what it sounds like to me and if it is then I would just seek a divorce.

Answer 5

we teach people how to treat us, by allowing certain things to go on, i would confront him, he may be cheating or planning to. he is your husband, so why would he be getting strange e mails from other women, i would be very upset, and i would be confronting him right now, as theres nothing worse than putting your heart and soul into a relationship only to find out they cheated on u, and deceived u.

Answer 6

id be a bit concerned. Hmhm no woman is gonna touch my man and get away with it. i say rip her hair out!! =O
he should only tell YOU STUFF.

Answer 7

i would confront him and her. my ex husband was BAD about cheating adn using the internet as a medium to keep in contact with them.

Answer 8

ask her to come over for dinner

Answer 9

I would be pissed off for sure.

Answer 10

be ok if its from another country,, local i be thinking twice about it