we're both 17.
in april i spent 1 month in germany. i met this guy there. he is so nice. we spent like everyday together and i suppose we starting going out, even if it wasn't for long. i really really like him. so it's been like 2 months and we still keep in touch. we'd call eachother everyday and talk forever and i still love it.
even though i still really really like him soooo much, is there any point in continuing this? even if we did come to see eachother it'd be like once a year. should i just stop and move on? because sometimes it really hurts and in the end, is it worth it?
his english is perfect, his dad is american. so, there's no problem there.
2007-06-22 23:30:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, forget, but not completely, you can still talk until you find someone else.
2007-06-22 23:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jenny--at 17 a long distance relationship makes no sense--you have family and school committments to take care of--a boy that far away will only be a memory for you--we all have met someone from a far away place--unforgettable and desireable---but the truth is as plain as the nose on your face---it won't amount to anything---in a year you will want even more in a relationship---and you won't find it with a guy you might see once a year. You want face to face contact--walks together--fun dates---a bit of physical contact---you can write but that is all ---you both should find local mates to bond with. Good luck
2007-06-22 23:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him and he obviously likes you then you shouldn't forget it. Why don't you remain very good friends, I'm sure you both realise its difficult and you are young and going to meet other people. If you remain in contact then you may have more opportunity to see each other when you are older, maybe just don't take it too seriously at the moment. Only time will tell if you have something really special.
2007-06-22 23:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by 1oui5e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldnt want to fall in love with a man you can never see. Honestly I think if there is no way you two can live close, one of you will eventually move on. If I were you I would end it before it gets to far and someone is really heartbroke. Good luck!
2007-06-22 23:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop talking to each other everday. Save the money you would be using on phone bills to actually see each other again.
I wouldn't forget about him, but I would keep dating other people who are closer to you and let him date too. Just remain friends with him and see what happens later on.
2007-06-22 23:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by torn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in love with each other then stick it through... you must realise how hard it is finding someone to fall in love with right? :D If so you'll know that there are harder things to get over than distance...
If you're not in love with each other then... well if you weren't you wouldn't be asking this question would ya? ;D
Good luck to both of you! I hope it works out for the best.
2007-06-22 23:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by phantom.ryder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jenny,
Many times in your life a man will break your heart. So why would you subject yourself to a self imposed broken heart? Your expectations for this relationship are unreasonable, and you know it.
2007-06-22 23:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your very young, just remember it was fun while it lasted, but it will fizzle out and you will meet someone else.
I dont think its worth it
2007-06-22 23:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him but you can't forget him completely when you love some one so much there's always a place for that person with in your heart no matter what no matter how far apart
2007-06-22 23:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by redrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still be friends with him. if you like him just continue with it.
2007-06-22 23:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋