iv been feeling quite low for quite a while now its like feeling unwanted no one will talk to me and I'm feeling unattractive and alone.
is there anything i can to to help myself?
i just want people to talk to really.
2007-06-22 23:58:26 · 12 answers · asked by Nevermind 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really liked your answer to my question (about boys intentionally hurting girls). it made me smile.
i feel bad that you feel bad and i'm sorry you feel bad.
you can talk to me if you want to. =)
btw, never feel unattractive!! everyone is beautiful!! do you ever get the feeling that you use exclamations marks way too much? i do. yikes!
so if you want to talk to me my msn is piglettightsox@yahoo.com
2007-06-23 00:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny V. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through stages like this. Something that always works is joining a group or a team in an area that you like. Now that summer is here you can join your library's reading club, go to a pool, or join team and do sports. When you're feeling lonely, you should reach out to other people. Is there a friend you haven't spoken to in a while? Invite your friend to your house to hang out or see a video or listen to your favorite music. Or go to the mall, window shop, stop off in the food center for a snack or lunch. In this age of videos, we've almost stopped going to the movies. Invite a friend to see one of the great summer movies. Call a couple of friends and chat on the phone (don't text). Sometimes just the sound of another person's voice can cheer you up. Good luck. Make an effort. It'll be worth it.
2007-06-23 07:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're home on the computer, shut it off, put on something nice, and go out for the day, do some shopping, not for the buying, but just to get out and amongst the people, grab a bit to eat, maybe stop by a place for a pint later, smile, look happy even if you don''t feel it, chat someone up. Take a chance.
You're not alone.
2007-06-23 07:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is human to have these low moods.
As you have mentioned it is just a feeling of being unwanted.Put on your positive cap and smile and go step by step and you will feel wanted again.Open the door and then you can get out. This door does not open automatically.A little change always helps .
2007-06-23 07:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by thumba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about going out with your friends shopping, or even having a girly night in with some chocolate and some dvds. You could even go to a salon and have your nails and hair done. Its common for people to look down on yourself, i do it all the time. Just you have to go out have fun and try and be a bit more posative.
Hope that helps
Lexi
2007-06-23 07:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by scarlet_blood_on_the_dancefloor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well find new places to go--new clubs to join so you can use your talents--find new talents--show what you can do to all new people. Felling low??? That is something you do to yourself--so change it--go to a museum or a bookstore--see if people at a coffee shop are interesting. ...no one will come looking for you--get moving. Low and depressed feelings come partially froma crummy diet--buy new clothes--redo your hair--act and present yourself in a confident manner--in time it will all change. Smile and say HI to everyone. Try walking farther from your normal spots--it is a big world.
2007-06-23 07:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out and find some better friends, the more lonely you feel the harder you need to network. This is a good place to start, but the local groups are better because you can get real contact.
2007-06-23 07:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, paul.
dont feel bad yea? Thanks for your answer to my question, you are really deep. feeling unattractive and being unattractive are two different things. so maybe it's just your mood these days. maybe the moon has shifted its position. maybe its interplanetary influence is having a bad effect on you. and, being alone is okay, being lonely is not. if you are lonely, talk to me!! u already have my msn.
Cheers!! :)
PS: sorry i couldnt offer you more help or be more... philosophical!
2007-06-23 09:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by nobodyknowsme™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean my friend. Been there many, many times...and lately too.
Just pull yourself up and MAKE yourself go out and do things. Talk to people....anyone. Turn it into something positive if you can, and I know...it's really hard to do, especially when you find yourself in those situations where all your friends are busy or away, etc.
Life can sure be tough can't it?
:)
2007-06-23 07:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you feel about yourself is directly proportional to how you project yourself. You are unconsciously projecting yourself to be a loner, because that's how you feel. In order to change what's happening to you on the outside, you have to change what's happening to you on the inside. I hope that makes sense to you, and good luck!!!
2007-06-23 07:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by Tbone64 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋