Sometimes when im at a mall or store, there is this girl that catches my eye but...?

Question

I never ever have the guts to go up and talk to her, Like today I was at dimple records and I saw this girl that I found fairly attractive. I know me and her would of had a few things in common since she liked music and video games since she was browsing through those section. I kept looking at her, hoping she would notice my existence. When I looked at her, she looked at me a few times, but didn't seem very flattered about it or anything, also didn't smile about it. She also didn't tell her friend.

Sometimes when I stare at girls, I get a much better reaction of them, they would smile and laugh and also tell her friends that the handsome dude(which would be me) is looking at them

But I never ever have the guts to actually go up and talk to them, I get so nervous and when im nervous I stutter like crazy and don't pronounce my words right, making me hard to understand,

So anyway, back with the girl I saw at dimple today, I really wanted to go up and talk to her but had no idea how to approah her. I don't know if the signs she was giving me were good or bad. When I looked at her, sometimes she would glance back, not much of an expression, probably more like "huh? why is this guy looking at me?" or maybe she suspected that I fancy her but didn't care that much..

But now, its too late, she is gone out of my life forever. But I need to know how I can approah someone inside of dimple records or at the mall or anywhere in general.

Answer 1

If the subject is searching for a new video game to join her collection, you can open up with something as simple as "Ooh, you're going to have fun with THAT one". ("That one" being whatever game she happens to pick up.)

Answer 2

How old are you. You must make the step. It is not as hard as you seem to think or as humiliating as you might think it is. Once you make that big step of approaching someone that you have emerge from a teenager to a man who can be in a relationship and are not afraid.

If you dont than remember this you will always live a life of ......What if's........ you dont want that do you. Next time she look give her a wink and see if she smiles or look away suddenly. If she does well you ask her out for a soda. He he he and it goes so forth from here ........

By the way i am a girl and one of those that do not tell my friends what is really in my heart (vulnerable and things like that). I think this goes of many girls too. So how do you know by her talking to her friends. Are they really her close friends. See you cannot based your observations on that. You will only know the answer to your question from her alone Honest girls are not monsters if she says NO then you will just shed a tear drop (I mean it only a tear drop) and moves onto the next one He he he or onto the next one that will capture your heart again.

Have the courage your are the man k.

Answer 3

Don't worry too much about the stutter. Just take it slow. Girls, especially hot ones, are used to guys being hormonally overloaded around them. So she'll understand if you're a bit tongue tied.

Just say "Hi". If she doesn't answer, probably not much point in pursuing the matter. If she responds, go on from there. Strike up a conversation about something at hand.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Try putting yourself out there and move out of your comfort zone. By that, I mean, if you see something interesting that she is looking at, go and compliment and randomly say stuff and comment on whatever shes looking at. Then you got her attention, unless she is deaf or you weren't loud enough (and generally you don't need to be loud). So then, just smile. Shake hands if you must, introducing yourself. And then start a casual conversation. "I noticed you were looking at that and this and that. You into that kinda stuff?" and slowly but surely lead into getting her number. I know it can be EXTREMELY nerve-wrecking at times. But practice makes perfect. And well, sometimes the girl feels exactly like you do. But see, the nervousness can actually be attractive to some girls, thinking 'oh that's sweet' or something like that. So don't be discouraged. Just be yourself, and you'll work something out. Good luck!

Answer 5

All you need to do is prepare for situations like this. Think about at least 5 things you can say if you were in this situation again and mentally rehearse them, so next time you won't be nervous. Most guys don't do this, that's why they end up nervous and stutter. Preparation is key. Good luck.

Answer 6

Next time just give them ur most charming smile and maybe a wink or two. Then, u could just move over to their row and just start scanning stuff over there. If the girl's interested, she'll probably say Hi. ;)

Answer 7

You can ask her about a music and/or video games to start a conversation, like " Have you listened to this one " " Do you prefer this one or this one " ...
Good Luck

Answer 8

Boys are purely a distraction. once you get to college there'll be extra single adult adult males than you be attentive to what to do with. And particular, adult adult males are observing you once you acquire to the mall. adult adult males of each age, not purely your person. So once you gown suitable midsection age adult adult males would be looking too. undergo in techniques that.

Answer 9

walk up and start talking about what she might be looking at and offer ur opion u never know what might go from there

Answer 10

Dude.. face it. Ur aa closet homosexual. My little brother had the same problem. Now, he's faced it.