A girl I used to like have broken me and I stop talking to her for about 8 months. Things been great without talking to her until one day she ask me this question and it was " Was everything you said in the past, was it true?" I answered back with a question "What do you mean? What part of everything do you mean?" She said "you know" I said "No, I don't know." She said "Never mind." Then after she said she left.
Days have past and I ask her "What do you mean by that question you ask?" She didn't respond to me and I got upset and left her. After that I haven't talked to her since.
Now I'm wondering if I should ask her again even though it have been months since she ask that question.
2007-06-22 21:25:30 · 12 answers · asked by Berties 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to add that I really don't want to go through with anymore drama with her. But this question have been bugging me for awhile.
2007-06-22 21:32:59 · update #1
nah. Let it go. She didnt tell you the first couple of times you ask. I don't think she will again unless you tie her down and interrogate her. Good luck trying to do that lol.
It's really hard to say. Do what you feel is best for you because now she left you thinking about her which is messed up on her part.
2007-06-22 21:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you could but rephrase the questions though, I'm guessing she may think that your trying to either A. avoid the answer or B. trying to not give all the information that she wants by working around the question...
I know us women are complex and can be confusing and with her not answering you back does seem like she is upset at you because she thinks thats you dont want to answer her question.. Maybe if you rephrase it a little like " i'm sorry I dont mean to rude or anything, I'm just a little lost on what you mean by "everything", do you mean everything that I said in the past to you" because trust me, thats what she wants to hear is a yes, everything you said to her was true...as long as you remember that you said good things to her if you said anything bad, then bring it up and change it around to a postive.... then she will let it go trust me... Good luck hun....
2007-06-22 21:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Karma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since she dumped you, I'm guessing she was asking if you meant all those nice things you said about her when you were dating. This is a very common problem between males and females. Girls tend to think that you know what they are asking, even if to you it's not clear. Guys tend to ask for clarification, when they're expected to intuitively know. If you want to try one more time, explain to her that the question caught you off guard and you just wanted to be sure you answered her right, could she please clarify the question.
Good luck.
2007-06-22 21:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is that you never really communicated. If you go back to your conversation(s), both of you are thinking that the other person knows what it is ALL ABOUT. Well, either you both know what you're talking about but so afraid so or you're both clueless as to what it is . I guess neither of you would want to say something that would make you vulnerable to the other person so you guard yourself with the" YOU KNOW ..." 's.
2007-06-22 21:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Wala Lang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she asked you something like that, it MIGHT mean she wanted to have an answer. Even now, she might be torned apart inside to know the truth.
2007-06-22 21:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by ejilarasie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably the sayings such as how much you loved her or what you would do for her.. i think it's stuff like that.. but no.. it's really odd and random to just go up to her and ask her after not talking to her for a while...
2007-06-22 21:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants to be chased. And she wants some attention. It may not be the best way to get it but your thinkin about her aren't you?
2007-06-22 21:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Meg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its never too late
just go & ask ......
sometimes u loss ur everything thinking about something to do
so just hurry
2007-06-22 21:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Priyanka M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trippin. She didn't specify what exactly she wants from you. **** her
2007-06-22 21:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it. maybe now she is ready to talk=)
2007-06-22 21:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋