Last school year I had these close friends and then my least favorite person started sitting with us and started takeing over my friends. I got frustrated and left. over that summer all i would hear about is them hanging out with her. I got left behind and only hung out with them a few times. when the next school year rolled around i hoped that i could patch things up and win them back, but they were all in the same classes with her and i had NO CLASSES what so evere with them at all. i had to make new friends which im not on good enough terms with to hang out. when i went to one of my old friends bday parties last week I felt out of place and like i didnt know any of them anymore. Molly the one i hate was also there. I feel like i have no friends to hang out with this summer. The friends ive made this year are in a differnt clique and i feel as if the old friends are childish now kinda. idk what to do i dont want a boring summer
2007-06-18 01:57:43 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well molly and i were really goo friends in 3rd grade and she treated me horrible. we would always end up calling home early to get picked up or fight. my mom even thinks she treated me badly. she talked about me behind my back to my good friend who told me what she said. and shes been rude to me and mean. we got in a big fight in 6th grade where there were tears and i think she threw a lamp but its pretty bad.
and when she came to our table it was because her table kicked her out and i thought she was using my friends as the rebound friends and i couldnt watch them get hurt by her like i was hurt
2007-06-18 02:21:16 · update #1
WOW!! This is so funny. I went through the same thing you are. Last year in sixth grade i was new. i made friends very quickly and we started to hangout with this girl that i liked been then she got evil and started saying bad things about me to my best friend and saying that i said bad things too. i didnt though she was queen of lying. i dont why she did it to me. i was told she didnt like my personality. i wasnt meen i was just always happy. so i was like what ever and stuck with my best friend and told her the truth about hings and i kow she would believe me over the evil girl. then this year in seventh grade i had no classes with them but i still sat with them at lunch and then evil girl started drama about me of course because all the other girls wanted to do was follow her around like robota and i didnt so i made new friends that i had classes with and hung out with them at lunch. i still talk to my best friend from last year. but the girls hung with at lunch i started not to like them at the end of the year so i just put up with it because they still liked me. but i had a new best friend that i dont have any classes with she was very popular and she is like my sister. this summer we have been hanging out a lot. so what i would do is hang out or call the person i was closest to at school and like have fun and dont be shy. it makes everything awquard. sorry if the answer is too long i cant help myself i love to tell stories.
2007-06-25 13:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your hatred of Molly has kept you separated and alone. What is it about her that you hate so much? How is it that your friends can get along with her and you can't? Are you hurting yourself by being so caught up in anger and hate?
If you want to have friends you have to make an effort. If there's some rift between you and Molly and you're the one who's holding out, maybe you can make an effort to become her friend. Is she that horrible?
This is a good lesson for you to learn how to forgive. Whatever it is about her, she is a human being. Judging from the fact that she's out there having fun with your friends and you're alone and feeling lonely, I'd say you need to really look at the situation and decide if whatever it is about her that you hate is so important that you are willing to continue being lonely. Don't spend the summer sitting around feeling sorry for yourself. Do something to either fix things with Molly and your friends or find a new set of friends that you can hang out with. From what you describe, the problem is inside you and only you can fix it.
2007-06-18 02:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I went through the same problem This girl named Rylee walked in my life stealing my best friend taylor. Which i was left out. And she talked about me around me back. So this what I did. I hanged with Taylor alot so she would attach to me. And if Rylee ever comes back. I got a backup friend to make Taylor jelly, And start to hang out with me. And I write about Rylee in my diary alot. But my loud mouth brother told her all the stuff. And made her cry and make every body hate me it was so RUDE!
2013-12-12 13:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Allytot_23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like your not liking molly for reasons that the others had nothing to do with, may be the reason they will not hang out with you.maybe they did not like your treatment of her around them and she was better acting towards you in your presence than you were of her.sounds like you need to let the past be in the past and grow up some
2007-06-25 06:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other friends and don't stay home during summer. Do something, go out,... and try to forget them
2007-06-23 16:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by answerseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋