i am single, was with my ex last weekend. had sex. now shes been texting back and forward. looks as though shes interested again. then 1 day ago, got the impression its gone cold again. i've been sniffing with a female friend. known her for a few months now and really like her, but she has a boyfriend. she knows i like her, and a friend overheard her saying she wanted out her relationship. she is a top class girl and i would love a chance with her, but i'm also thinking about my ex who's back on the scene. who should i concentrate on?
2007-06-18 02:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by call_frank0800 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
None of them. One is your ex. Ask yourself why she is your ex. The other already has a boyfriend, although she wants out. I suggest you go out and find yourself a new love. One that is unattached.
2007-06-18 02:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, your female friend is in a relationship. Untill she ges out of that relationship, steer clear. You have no right to mess up what she may have- if she said she wants out, she will get ;out' soon enough. Untill she leaves him, she's his not yours. You and your ex had sex. Why did you break up? Who broke up with who? Sex may have created a false feeling of intimacy, which will fade , as you have mentioned in the her going 'cold.' The fact you are tor between two women suggests neither is totaly right for you; one is an ex and the other obviously an attractive friend. In the game of love, friends and ex's are usually no go. Find someone else to concentrate on. xxx
2007-06-18 02:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by Titania xxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all think about why your ex is your EX.
Why would you like to come together with her again?
Who is more attractive and interesting to you? If you cannot choose, then maybe you need to know more about your new friend to be able to compare her with your ex. No doubt, it's stupid comparing people, but if you do not have any preferences, how can you be sure you like any of the girls.
2007-06-18 02:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by veceras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well y is ur ex ur ex? if ur not that interested in ur ex, dont keep her wondering, coz by having sex with her u gave her the impression that ur still interested, but if ur not, u have to tell her!
if this other girl says she wants out of her current relationship, then wait and see, but first u should find out if it is actually you that she wants when she does end it!
2007-06-18 02:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on the new lady - hopefully this wil come off - If you are thinking about her then why get with your ex apart from the sex! -
2007-06-18 02:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on your new girlfriend cause if you go back to you ex girlfriend then you properly start fighting again so go to your new girlfriend it will be better for you good luck
2007-06-18 02:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with lisa. you broke up for a reason, right? just think about it. forget the ex.
2007-06-18 02:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be straight to the point leave them both alone, until you have made your mind up which one you want to be with, as some one will get very hurt.
2007-06-18 02:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by JANAIR H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is an ex for a reason - remember that!
2007-06-18 02:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a while and see how things develop
2007-06-18 02:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋