Am i in the wrong?

Question

I was on the phone to my girlfriend after work, when a girl i work with walked past me and said "bye". Instantly my girlfriend started being off with me and has since been saying things like "go talk to her she will listen to you" etc. I dont live with her and we usually talk on messenger at night if we arent together. Before i hung up i said "Do you want me to go so you can go back to sleep?" and she said "yes". (it was midnight). Then when i got in i didnt contact her to ask if she wanted to talk online and she sent me a message being off with me for it! I think shes in the wrong but am i wrong?

Answer 1

her jealousy will eat your soul
move on

Answer 2

It sounds like the green eyed monster was on the attack. I don't see where you were in the wrong.Not at all. She needs to grow up. She is evidently having a problem with her self esteem. Otherwise, the girl saying goodbye to you wouldn't have bothered her. Now if she had said, bye sweetie, love ya honey, see you tomorrow... There may have been some questions there... But BYE? Your friends mind is off track here. People say bye everyday... It's just outright jealousy. Jealousy really is a monster and can eat your spirit away.Whether you are the jealous party or you are involved with a jealous person. I had a problem with jealousy at a time in my life. I can only thank God, that it no longer exists. I am who I am... I am happy with who I am now.. It is normal to look at an attractive person, whether you are male or female. She needs to chill out. OR, Maybe you need to move on. Ask yourself this question.. "Do I want to be miserable?" You will be, if she doesn't change this, deals with the problem. God Bless you sweetie. UH OH, I called you sweetie, hope she doesn't see this! Just kidding..... Good luck kid.

Answer 3

Well, I guess you must understand some of the girl's underlying meaning.. When they say yes, listen to their tone, expression etc to see if she really means it.. Some women are abit more possessive and maybe teaseful.. So she may think she's the only woman around you or some sort.. Talk to her one day and find out what she thinks.. Usually if your colleague doesnt show up in her mind for a period of time, this issue would have died off but be mindful about other ladies talking to you while you're on the phone with your gf next time..

Good luck!

Answer 4

You're not in the wrong. Women can be possessive whether we like to admit it or not. She got a bit jealous because you were talking to another girl. This is common. Since she's had some time to think about it, she's probably cooled off. Just let her know that she's your baby and things should work themselves out. She may be feeling bad about her reaction too. Though if this is something that she does often, you may want to talk to her about it. Some women are too possessive and if she is one who is, you may be better off without her. Good luck. =)

Answer 5

You and her need to sit down and have a serious discussion about her actions. Why did she act that way? Based on the little information you give here, I can't see why she acted this way at all. Explain your position. Be nice. Be fair. Be accurate. Ask her why she acted that way. You'll know by her response whether or not you should even be in this relationship. Maybe she is just insecure. Maybe she has a reason. Maybe she was just tired. If so, then fine. If not, you might want to reconsider this relationship. Good luck!

Answer 6

she is one obsessive , jealous claw grabbing chick. she is very insecure and that insecurity may harm your relationship. she doesn't trust you with other woman , so basically the only person which she will allow you to talk to is your mother , which is very creepy... she is the kind of person who would put an axe in your scull if she found you cheating , so my honest opinion would be that you run b4 you are murdered. but you love her saw we will have to find a way to get your relationship back on track with your serial killer. you should ask her what she means by her statements and if she is trying to blow you off, you have to make her realize that if she continues doing that you will leave her thinking that she doesn't want you anymore.. when she says off stuff play along and don't defend yourself just act as if what she says is what you are going to do. trust that works . she will begin to feel that she is losing you and it will make her very anxious thereby bringing her to talk about it to you . hence giving you the opportunity to tell her how you feel. and just for the record , she is in the wrong not you ... good luck

Answer 7

You are always going to be wrong in these situations and you might as well get used to it. You could have said bye to the woman at work without saying anything. You could have waved or nodded then you wouldnt be in trouble. Get used to it

Answer 8

sounds like that you have one extreme jealous girlfriend . Asure her that she is the only one for you . If she keeps this up then you might want to consider going seperate ways . If she does not trust you ,then the relationship has no chance

Answer 9

No you are not wrong, by my side i think at that time she was angry and she thinks now you are inlove with another so show her how much you love her and talk to her about that you are not inlove the one was the one you work with. she dont trust you but nothing you can do except to talk to her

Answer 10

No, you're not wrong.

It's doubtful that your girlfriend will change, so you need to decide how much of her silliness that you can deal with.

Personally, I would end the relationship.

Answer 11

I don't think you're in the wrong because of her obvious insecurity but you do need to talk to her to find out why she feels so insecure about the relationship