Family & Relationships - 18 June 2007

okay my b/f has been getting lyk really... um.. personal, you know. like we were screwing around outside last week and i was wearing a a button down low cut shirt-and i am a 34C- then like we were wrestling and he pinned me down and and started umbuttoning my shirt, and i really didnt know what to do so i just let him so he like took my shirt-and i'd been wearing my bikini top- so he threw it then chased me around and untied the strings, i really like him and i am not prude or snobby but i really dont know how to take this, i mean i am only 14 and a half and he's 15. plz help ASAP next week were having a pool party! what if he does it again? do i give in or not-my gut tells me not to give but my heart tells me to give! what do i do?

2007-06-18 14:51:35 · 16 answers · asked by mia marie peretti 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend had something stolen from her by a guy in my class and he told her that the only way to get it back was to sleep with him and she did. in IL is this considered rape?

2007-06-18 14:51:02 · 27 answers · asked by Darth Nihilus 2 in Singles & Dating

it or I slap it hard until it belongs to me. Ladies y'all don't wanna get the big pimping slapping do you? mwhahahah so just do as I say and go out wit this fly brotha.

2007-06-18 14:49:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live in ct, she lives in mass. i know a lot about the girl and i think shes nice. i want to stay with her as long as i can.

2007-06-18 14:46:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 14:46:04 · 5 answers · asked by samuel r. 2 in Singles & Dating

Did it work? What did you talk about?
Tomorrow at 6pm my husband and I are attending our first session. I'm not really sure how to proceed......
How often should we go? What would you reccomend?
Thanks!

2007-06-18 14:45:39 · 13 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My new boyfriend and I are so different in so many ways: age (he is 12 years senior), upbringing (he is a very typical Southern boy and I and a European), religion ( he is a Protestant and I am an atheist), political views (he voted for Bush and I am a liberal), food (he is fine with fast food and I am quite a gourmet) and STILL we get along so great. We laugh and we enjoy each other and time together. Maybe because we both respect each other and do not try to change each other but I am concerned of what the future might hold. Will these differences start driving us apart? Or is it possible to still love and care for each other regardless of the differences as long as we respect each others' boundaries? Anyone had experience with it?

2007-06-18 14:45:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do girls actually think about guys that hook up with girls that they dont really know over vacations or camps. i know that it varies some dont care some do i just want to know what YOU think. thanks in advance

2007-06-18 14:42:57 · 12 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Singles & Dating

I was dating a guy for two years and were had plans to get married but last week he moved out and said he wasnt sure he was ready to get married. He's 24. He says he still loves me and wants to marry me but that he needs time to figure himself out before we get married. How long do you think it will take him to figure out what he wants?

2007-06-18 14:42:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been working hard at getting back together with my husband (we've been separated for almost 3 yrs). I made a date with him for Thursday to go out as a family and celebrate my son's graduation. Throughout our separation he has felt the loss of losing my family and truly misses everyone. So we set the date to go out and now i just got a call from my family saying "we made dinner reservations" because my 1 sister is in town visiting and it is on that same day as my family dinner. My family is pressuring me to change my plans, but i feel like i will be setting myself up for a big fight w/my husband because he will take it that i'm blowing him off to go out w/my family. In a perfect world he would say, go, have fun and we'll reschedule... but it's not that way and i feel he will feel very hurt over this.... actually I KNOW he we feel hurt and will react in not the best way... sooooo what would you do?

2007-06-18 14:41:57 · 17 answers · asked by pinebarrons1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So theres this guy in church i like.
usually we just say hi. Whenever i arrive to church hell look at me surprised and quickly look away.so i touched him in the shoulder and said hi.he says "Hi! how ur doin?" and leaves quickly,not getting me the chance to say how hes doing.but the real thing is, we havent had a conversation in person,cuz we are getting to know each other more. He talks alot more to me online then in person? why is that?
so i wrote to hi, saying how he was and told him what his hobbies where. and he responded so much like this
"yeah...lots of stuff i like to do....MUSICMUSICMUSIC....anything and everything about i cant help but love...surfing, skateboarding, soccer...pretty much any sport...writing, READING!!!!...finding new and crazy stuff to do that no one does...it gets a bit crazy sometimes...but yeah i would LOVE a drawing...i love art too though i cant draw very well, im pretty good at that "abstract" type stuff...i dunno..but yeah...you comin this friday!?!"

2007-06-18 14:40:17 · 19 answers · asked by Heart 2 in Singles & Dating

I really need some good, well, a really good hot night. Should I go for it with my neighbors, or would the guilt be to great??

2007-06-18 14:40:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Getting married next year, and would like to know if you can wear your Dress Blues, after being discharged. Any info on this is very much appreciated, thanks.

2007-06-18 14:33:35 · 8 answers · asked by hernandeza03 2 in Weddings

No courthouse. No Vegas. I wanted to have the ceremony at a church. Our guest list is around 100 people. We don't need anything spectacular, just a simple ceremony with the people we know.

2007-06-18 14:33:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Im 22 and i dont have my father in my life. He hasen't really been there for me throughout my life. I have anger towards him. I want to call him everything i think he is. He has two grandchildren that he doesn't even aknowledge. He has my phone number and my address. He just doesn't care. How do i zap him out of my head? How do i not care when it hurts?

2007-06-18 14:31:09 · 9 answers · asked by free2nvme18 1 in Family

Have you ever walked on the beach at night? Have you ever been so captivated by the beauty of it all that you layed there in the sand and just looked at the sky? Would there be anything more romantic than holding the one you love in your arms and dozing while watching the stars?
Just something nice to dream about. :-)

2007-06-18 14:28:52 · 20 answers · asked by Knight-of-God 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been trading emails with a guy on an online dating site all day. Now I've asked him to meet me and suddenly he stopped responding. Either he is not interested or he's afraid to meet me. What can I say to him? Should I have waited for him to ask me?

2007-06-18 14:19:06 · 8 answers · asked by Gypsy Girl 7 in Singles & Dating

Lol. I dont really know if this is a good advice center, but I rwally don't know. I like this guy, but don't know if i should ask him out, what do you think? And also, i dont know what my friends would think. I dont know what to do. :(

2007-06-18 14:11:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys: what makes you not want to call that girl back? what stops you from seeing them anymore?

Girls: i like this guy. the problem is i just met him. i kinda feel like i already know him because he's known all my friends for years (almost as long as ive known them) and we are alot alike. sometimes i feel like im talking to a male version of myself. I really like him and its hard not to come on too strong because i feel so comfortable with him. any advice?

2007-06-18 14:09:25 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda M 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 14:08:46 · 6 answers · asked by CuriousGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

can i get sole custody if the father dont see his son much like he should with in the 10 months he seen his son 8 times

2007-06-18 14:08:30 · 5 answers · asked by prettywoman2313021 1 in Family

guys, what would you do if you came home and found an incredibly hot girl taking a shower in ur bathroom, and she told you that she would do ANYTHING you wanted and you could do anything you wanted to her. would you like it better if she were a blonde or a brunette?
be creative!
the most detailed/creative answer wins 10 points.
this should be easy guys!
say whatever, l won't report anything!

email me if u don't wanna post ur answer (or if you like brunettes)or both!

have fun.
details and creativity win!

2007-06-18 14:07:18 · 31 answers · asked by damsel in distress 1 in Singles & Dating

Cheaper to buy engagement ring first and then buy the band or buy both at same time? ..and what is the cheapest place to buy a nice 1/2 carat diamond ring?..

2007-06-18 14:06:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-18 14:06:07 · 1 answers · asked by NBA Phan 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy and i, we dated for a little bit and i at the time decided that we would be better off as friends. would it be unthinkable that we would start dating again...? Do you think its a good or bad idea? not i havent been with anyone since him and i have a feeling it may be just because i miss being with someone. what do you think i should do?

2007-06-18 14:02:17 · 7 answers · asked by ugly truth 3 in Singles & Dating

My son told me that midgets scare him. The guy is nice enough, but concerned for my son.

2007-06-18 14:01:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know most people will think i am full of it. I love sex (yeah, baby!) but i HATE men relationship wise. But as far as becoming a lesbian i really cannot see myself doing that either from a sexual standpoint. I find it so hard to believe that men and women have been put on this planet to coexist. Yes i am married and yes he is a complete loser. All of my friends are married or getting divorced and all of their spouses are losers. Cheating, conniving, lying, bass tards. Many of them abusive either physically or mentally (verbally)or both. And yes i know "not all men are like that...blah, blah, blah" well then who? Show me a man that loves his wife and devotes himself to his family as a partner with his wife instead of a drain emotionally! I have a friend who told my daughter, "not all men are bad just look at my husband" Two years later they are now divorced because he is a cheating @@!!!@*&. Can anyone help me get my faith back in men?

2007-06-18 14:01:23 · 7 answers · asked by effie r 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2 days ago we talked and then he told me that he was a drugdealer and i told him along time ago that i dnt like drugdealers and hes just now telling me that hes a drugdealer. I asked him y he didnt tell me sooner and i wouldnt b as mad as i am. he told me he was scared to cause he dint want to ruin r realationship between us. I dnt want to break up wit him ai want to help him but i dnt know how i'm very lost and i dnt know what 2 do. If eny1 reads this can u help me cause i dnt know what ot do wit him and i been upset for a few days now and i dnt want to talk to him cause im afraid that he may b hiding sumthing els from me that i dnt know bout. HELP!!! PLZZZZ!!!!

2007-06-18 13:58:47 · 13 answers · asked by Sasso's Babygirl 2 in Friends

do you find guys with a dimple on their chin attractive ?

is it a plussss

or minus??


just curious cus damn some poeple i have a dimple on my chin and ive seen people with what i call but chins haha. idk

2007-06-18 13:57:56 · 22 answers · asked by dayumnzitsme 1 in Singles & Dating

i am one of the flatess girls in 8th grade. I feel so ackward. All the girls have had their period and i haven't yet

2007-06-18 13:56:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating