I really need some good, well, a really good hot night. Should I go for it with my neighbors, or would the guilt be to great??
2007-06-18 14:40:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not exactly sure why you are miserable so it wouldn't be fair to criticize your question, even though it doesn't say that much for you as a person. Be honest with your husband and explain why you are miserable or if your marriage is that bad then get out. Good luck.
2007-06-18 14:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Widgi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the kind of person you are. IN case you are very sensitive and emotional person then in that case you'll enjoy your night out but as the day rose you'll mhave a guilt crept in you that you've cheated. The very fact that you've asked this question is a sign that you're doubting your decission. For the moment it can be pleasurable but in the long run it could haunt you and make you feel more miserable about yourself. All I would suggest is just think with a calm mind, it is not possible to sit calmly if you are angry so the solution is tp take oput your sfustration and then reanalyse your decission. Similarly in this case you've built up sexual tension within you and that won't let you think clearly so first calm yourself down best way is to masturbate yourself once you've got the pace settled down then think on it with an open mind and the decission you'll then arrive to will not make you feel sorry or guilty about it later.
Try it out
Cheers
2007-06-18 21:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by alok_30j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... you should really need to take a step back and search through youyr soul why you feel that your marriage is miserable. What has changed since your marriage and be sure to be honest to yourself too. Chances are you may have changed too.. and you need to get back to the right perspective and expectation of marriage. Do NOT spoil your marriage just for one HOT NIGHT out.. You will live to regret your actions and by then it is too late to save your marriage.
Though you may feel right now that you do not want to save the marriage, you at least owe your husband an explaination and get the scores straighten out before doing anything rash. Do not be too concern of just one HOT NIGHT.. there will be alot more HOT NIGHTS...either with your husband if you manage to straighten things out OR if you are out of marriage.. there could be either many HOT NIGHTS or it can also be NONE...
take care... save your marriage find out whats wrong.. don't just stay miserable and complain...to your ownself..
2007-06-18 21:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get some marriage counseling instead of looking for a some escape with some other guy that is going to just create more problems rather than solve them. Instead why don't you organize a hot night out with your husband. Work it out or leave but don't cheat.
2007-06-18 21:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eeek, not with neighbors, you don't want them around for Acts 2 and 3 of the drama. Having been there and done that myself, I learned that even if you do it and don't get caught, it eats a hole in your heart. And if you do get caught, well, that's terrible. That said, send me an e-mail back if you'd like to explore the issues further. (I am NOT auditioning to be the Best Supporting Actor in this show ... but talking doesn't hurt). Good luck!
2007-06-18 21:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LET ME GET THIS STRAIGHT -
Instead of making it HOTTER with your HUSBAND you are planning on letting the neighbour DO you?!!!
Are you f*'in kidding me??????
Maybe your marriage is not that great because YOU see the grass greener next door!
I personally find the BIGGEST INSULT of all is CHEATING!
GROW UP and act like the woman your HUSBAND fell IN LOVE with and STOP THIS FOOLISHNESS!!!!!
BTW - IF for any reason you continue the MADNESS and choose to cheat on the MAN you MARRIED, YOUR HUSBAND, then BE SMART and know it should be with a NOBODY which doesn't know a thing about you - GET IT!
YOU'RE so going to HELL for this one!!!!!!
2007-06-18 22:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, go for it.......that way it would be an inside joke for the WHOLE neighborhood when your husband would come home from work.....Everyone but him would know! You can even have bbq's and invite the neighbors over. Send your husband to the store and have a wild quickie before he gets home. The options are limitless!
2007-06-18 21:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by eric54_20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to be your neighbor*. Just thinking about it gets me all hot and bothered*...
2007-06-18 22:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, that's a great way to build a friendly reputation in the neighborhood.
2007-06-18 21:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neighbors?? How many you plan on doing?
2007-06-18 21:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋