Family & Relationships - 18 June 2007

Me and my ex have been broken up for 6 months but he sais now he's regrettting it more then ever..yet he's with his gf they've been together 5 months..and he said she's being a ***** to him and blahh and now he's telling me all this stuff..but why wont he break up with her? Here is one of the messages he sent me "ILoveYOU....
I always will... That is never gonna change... I wish i could hold you like i used to, Kiss you like i used to, hold your hand like i used to, walk you to class like i used to. Amber I want you to know that i will do anything for you if i can do it. Just looking at your pics reminds me how you smiled when ever i would hold you and look into your amazingly beautiful eyes. I Wish You were mine again and everything could just start over....... I LOVE YOU!!!!" If he loves me so much why does it have to be like this??

2007-06-18 12:44:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband teases and scares our 5 yr old son...not sure why, maybe he was treated that way when he was young, who knows, but he gets mad at me for intervening on my son's behalf, saying i shouldn't make a "big deal" out of any of it, meanwhile, my son is experiencing irrational fears...he refuses to go alone into another room in the house to get a toy or to go potty...my husband calls him a sissy when he cries about the things he scares him with...I have considered leaving, but then he will have visitation alone, which will make the situation worse for our son, not better...I have also raised 2 girls from age 5 and 3 on my own, as a divorced mom for 15 yrs, it was pure hell sometimes, financially, emotionally, etc...they often told me they felt abandoned by their father, not having a chance to hate/love him...he was just not there at all...catch 22?

2007-06-18 12:44:01 · 23 answers · asked by EM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like meet them and go out with them. has anyone on here been out with smeone else from here and met and married?

2007-06-18 12:40:34 · 11 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 12:40:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to ask my guy friend out at the last day of school (tommorrow) but how?

i don't want to imbares myself or him i don't want to ask him when he's with his friends also (his friends don't like me and he will say no if there around but say yes in a phone call later) ? i think

2007-06-18 12:39:23 · 5 answers · asked by blah 3 in Singles & Dating

i feel like an assshole when i say i would call after a first date and dont do it. I'm trying to change that now, and after a first date when should i call her again, should i do the 3 day rule?

2007-06-18 12:36:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with the best fiancee in the world a year ago. Today I feel like she has changed, Im 20 and only working three days a week and she is 18 in the military. She wants me to try and work 40-50 hours a week so i can support her more and I agreed, but she is still upset. Its complicated, but it seems as if I am not good enough for her. She says things like I will never find better than her and etc. Then her and my mom got into it and ever since then I could not get a hold of here. All i know is my heart hurts right now and its sad. Is there any advice out there for troubling times. I'm usually great at advice such as these, but right now im am only speechless :'-(

God Bless everyone for their answers

-J

2007-06-18 12:33:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 25 year old mommy that lives in california, i found out that my spouse was cheating on me but i dont want to brack up my family because my children love there dad. please help me what should I do ????

2007-06-18 12:30:43 · 16 answers · asked by Cali~Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

LOVE ?

2007-06-18 12:28:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what if you can tell a girl is interested in you but maybe just doesnt feel comfortable going out alone with you. I asked this girl if she wanted to go out to lunch or something sometime, and she said she did and it looked like she actually meant it (big smile eyes wide open ect.) and she flirts with me all the time. she said she would call me but she never did. I do know she is very busy but i think she just wants me to make the first move. help!!!

2007-06-18 12:27:55 · 8 answers · asked by Eric S 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have never had good communication. He does not talk to me or even listen to me. I can tell him something important and the next day he says that I didn't tell him. He shows no feeling toward me except anger and is always finding everything wrong with everything I do. He is very anger about everything! When I try to talk to him about our marriage, he just tells me to shut up and he doesn't listen to anything I have to say. I can honestly say that I believe he doesn't love me. Why else would you treat someone the way he treats me. I am a hard working mother; I hold a full time job with 3 part time jobs on the side and I make sure that the inside of the house is kept up, as well as the outside and I make sure he has a good meal. Even that, he's still always complaining about everything and nothing is good enough.
I'm lonely, I just want a normal marriage with communication. He works long hours but has the weekend off and still won't communicate with me. Please help.

2007-06-18 12:26:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I thought I had found the woman I had waited on all my life, and come to find out.....so did several other guys. I admit she was good at her "craft", but she made the mistake of telling me about a couple of other guys she had been flirting with. As soon as I found out, I broke it off with her, but I'm still struggling with it. Any words of wisdom, or encouragement?

2007-06-18 12:25:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you take her/him seriously?

2007-06-18 12:21:28 · 17 answers · asked by Mia 1 in Singles & Dating

well i m 15 years old and i was wondering should i be worrying about moving out of my moms house. ok i m a mamas boy. and i have been dressed lately becuase i m gettin older and m worryed about moving out.

2007-06-18 12:21:17 · 3 answers · asked by hotness 1 in Family

I'm different than the other girls at my school.

I'm smart and arty and athletically lacking. I dress nice looking but not always what's in style, I prefere to be comfy than stylish. I'm not goth or girly or anything, I'm just me. I only have 1 best friend. Never had a boyfriend.

The other girls are slutty, wear well, revealing clothes. Most of them are sporty. None of them enjoy art like I do. They have tons of friends. They always have a boyfriend and won't stop talking about "Oh so and so is dating so and so, and so and so looks so ugly".

I don't want to be like them but I want to know, can a girl like me be just as good or pretty or well liked as them? Or am I doomed to an unsocial life.

2007-06-18 12:19:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I accidentally dropped my Wedding Ring in the toilet while it was flushing... We took the whole toilet apart and it is gone.. We didn't have it insured? Does anyone know what I can do? It was a very expensive ring and it meant alot to me, does anyone know if Home Owners Insurance will pay for it or help in any way... I am so stressed over this I broke out in Hives.. So I would appreciate everyones advice.. Thank You

2007-06-18 12:18:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-18 12:15:40 · 18 answers · asked by lilbro007 1 in Weddings

Throughout my sophmore year of high school, I've made 3 best friends and I've been invited to a few places, like Chili's and to the beach. I know my friends want me to go out w/ them and hang out (in fact, one of my friends asked me point blank if I wanted to go to the beach) and I said 'no'. I really want to hang out w/ them and they want me to hang out with them. Now it's summer vacation and I want to go and hang out; I have enough money to do things and I can call them for us to do something, but my 2 questions are:

Where exactly would we go to hang out?

What exactly do I say and do to actually hang out w/ my best friend?

(he's the one that invited me to the beach and the one I've gotten to know the most).

2007-06-18 12:15:17 · 4 answers · asked by Christopher P 1 in Friends

Would you be nice to an ex if you found out they has to go to hospital for an operation?
would you be supportive despite past arguments if they did not have anyone else

2007-06-18 12:14:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 12:13:51 · 13 answers · asked by daisypterrones 1 in Weddings

2007-06-18 12:12:51 · 17 answers · asked by Sage E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just curous how much did your Wedding cost Including Pictures Cake dress EVERYTHING!! I want to caompare it to the Amount my sister spent!

2007-06-18 12:10:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-18 12:10:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there's this hot guy that lives in the same building as me. I haven't really talked to him but I really want to go out with him. the problem is every time I get around to talking to him I get really nervous & walk the other way. I don't know what to do or how to get him to talk to me.

2007-06-18 12:08:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been separated from my wife for 2 months. just found out my girlfriend is pregnant. i swear it's mine but people keep saying "she was WITH her ex-husband up until 3 weeks ago" she say's she wasn't and that he's lying to everyone ... and she took a pregnancy test 3 weeks ago that was negative (said it would have been her ex-husbands if it had been positive), then told me the next day not too worry b/c she "started" .. then last week she took another and it was positive. how can i convince people that this baby is mine?!?!

2007-06-18 12:04:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i live with my girlfriend we have lived together for about 2 years the first year was wonderful due to she had some problems while we were dating because she was under age in we had problems with her parents causing her to leave as soon as she was 18 now that she has started to talk to them she wants to help em out in everyway possible there causing us some financial problems then i end up asking my mother for favors but when my mother asks me for favors in her parents can help she throws a fit in talks about when i was unemployed for 4 months in who she payed the bills but even before she moved in with me i already gave her money in during those 4 months i was unemployed my mother help us out in when this arguments start she always kicks me out of the house which i dont listen to due to im paying allt he bills i have decided that next time she says something im taking action who should leave? and em i doing the right thing?

2007-06-18 12:03:18 · 5 answers · asked by mrchevyclassic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you were in a relationship and it didnt work out and your really sad about it...should you forget and block all the times you had with that person or should you remeber the good times only??the thing is when you remeber the good times you get sadder becuase it didnt last but if u dont remebr it its like a wasted time of your life right?...

2007-06-18 12:00:39 · 17 answers · asked by im so so crazy 1 in Singles & Dating

We all had a "favorite part" of being married, or if you're NOW married, what is it? Some enjoy always having somebody to do things with, some like the intimacy, some like the "help" your partner gives.....what is your favorite part?

2007-06-18 11:59:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Without getting in trouble by a teacher or having people think your a jerek?

2007-06-18 11:57:18 · 6 answers · asked by alyssafredette 1 in Singles & Dating

I didn't go because my date stood me up!

2007-06-18 11:54:56 · 7 answers · asked by cats 7 in Singles & Dating