Family & Relationships - 18 June 2007

2007-06-18 11:02:36 · 9 answers · asked by shlgena g 1 in Singles & Dating

I am recently married and encounter pain when I am intimate with my husband. I am also pregnant. When I had ultra sounds I had intence pain. My husband is my first intimate experience. Every time when I try to be intimate with him I get pain. My husband said I should talk to my mother. But since I am a married grown adult I don't think I should discuss it with my mother. He said if he had any problems like that he would discuss it with his mother. He said his parents have many years of experience and they would give good advice. Is is nortmal for married person to discuss their intimate problems with their parents? I am affraid he might talk to his mom about my situation. He said he wouldn't talk about me but if he had any problems in his area he would talk to her. I don't want to discuss anything like this with my mother or his parents. Am I being paranoid?

2007-06-18 11:01:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife I have been married for 18yrs have to wonderful daughters. The wife works from home during the day and teaches school at nite. We recently been having some issues in our marriage (communiction type issues) and I am partly to blame for this. Then I stubble upon text messages on her phone that got me thinking. Messages that said meet at my house at a certian time. I miss you too can't wait till Monday ect. I conforted her about this and she swore there was nothing going on. So I thought I was just acting stupid . Then she told me she had to go into school early one day.Then on my way home for work that day I ran across her and asked her what she was doing she said she was shopping at this store but where i seen her she was no where around this store no where close. I don't know what to think I really help I'm just paranoid. What do you think

2007-06-18 10:59:33 · 28 answers · asked by trout17366 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi, i have separated myself from my mentally abusive husband but my son lives with him and sometimes when i talk to my son he asks questions..or wants to talk to me. I have been civil with him but since i have been away i feel soooo peaceful without his presence and i just dont want to communicate.. at all. should i or shouldn't i..? thanks

2007-06-18 10:57:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there's this guy that i've known for quite awhile. it seems as though all i am, ever was, or ever will be is a booty call to him. but if this is the case, why does he stare at me so much? when we were in high school, my friend told me that he was ALWAYS staring at me. I heard staring is one of the signs that a guy likes you. However, why does he use me for sex, but then stare at me all the time?

2007-06-18 10:57:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband wants to move to closer to his children, understandable right? Only this move will mean that I will be 2 1/2 hours away from my children. When we married he relocated to where I live and he has been the one with the 2 1/2 hour distance between he and his children. This was only six months ago and now he wants us to move. I am feeling sick to my stomach over the whole situation. I share custody with my ex-husband of my two children, but they would stay with him if I move due to the school situation. He has physical custody of my children, but I see them as much as possible. The distance would significantly alter my abilty to see my children as often as I do now. I am almost ready to tell him to move if he wants but I am staying put!!!!

2007-06-18 10:57:03 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just a little background....My ex-husband and I have been seperated and divorced since May of 2006. Two weeks ago my car broke down so, I have been driving the car he has...that I paid for. Last Friday the state finally started taking child support from him, and he is mad.

On the day of his sister's wedding, while I am getting my daughters hair fixed for the event he comes and takes the car from me and my four y.o. daughter is basically stranded until my mother comes home and I can use her car to pick her up. Well because he did that to my daughter I told him that she couldn't be in the wedding. His mom was pissed because they bough a dress and shoes...but I told her that since her son stranded my daughter, he didn't care enough about her so my daughter didn't need to go...to which she replies.."to hell with you and to hell with the children"

Was I wrong?

2007-06-18 10:56:58 · 6 answers · asked by Neea_Gastino 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Did it work out ok?

Would you do it again?

2007-06-18 10:56:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He wants me to make the appt. for tomorrow, even though I made it for after he gets off work today. I said that this just shows how we rate and he told me to make arrangements to egt him there and hung up on me. This is becoming the norm for his behavior as of late...we were always so happy and got along great, and anymore he is so selfish. Why would he do this and how do I handle it??

2007-06-18 10:55:56 · 15 answers · asked by Smilingcheek 4 in Marriage & Divorce

about what you have done with your girlfriend? If you do why? Is this a guy thing? Should the girl feel embarrassed if she finds out?

2007-06-18 10:55:48 · 11 answers · asked by Queen 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't really ask too much of my boyfriend of 5 years except go to work, take out the trash, and spend some quality time with me. But falling asleep in the movies does not qualify. He tells me it's because he's tired from work but how was he able to go out to the club with his boys the night before and stay out til 1am? I don't tell him to be in at a certain time, I don't expect him to do housework, I do his laundry, buy him video games, and I don't yell at him when he leaves the toilet seat up. So is it too much to ask that he stay up through a movie? And it's always action movies, never chick flicks. Am I over reacting?

2007-06-18 10:55:27 · 4 answers · asked by GirlsDeadMonster 7 in Singles & Dating

I know alot of girls that don't consider it "cheating" if they are sleeping around with other girls. And I know guys who think it ok to get a B J from another guy when their married.

I still think it is cheating.

2007-06-18 10:55:19 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told her to just be up front, cut ties, and go on with life. She says that its easier said than done... So, does anyone have any "good lines" out there, (lol, for a lack of better words???)

2007-06-18 10:53:44 · 11 answers · asked by sunflowergal 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the best way for me to support him? He was let go with no notice or pay.

2007-06-18 10:51:48 · 7 answers · asked by Susan R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not looking to get bashed, just opinions. Do you think women don't like nice guys because they'll have nobody to yell at if the guy is doing what he is supposed to? Women say they want a guy to do all of the manly things and remember all of the important dates, but continue to date the total opposite. It was just a thought of mine, and I could be wrong. Let me know your opinion.

2007-06-18 10:51:38 · 36 answers · asked by King of Biscuits 6 in Singles & Dating

My wedding is two weeks away and I've been sick for a week and a half already. My supervisor jokes that it's the wedding flu and it will be with me thought the wedding and completely gone the day after the wedding. Does anyone have any advise please?

2007-06-18 10:50:53 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

It's my parents 26th wedding anniversary on June 27. I have idea what to get them. I have 2 sisters and one is married so we usually all go in on something. We like to spend 30 - 50$ a piece. For fathers day we got him a gc to go golfing and my mom will go with him. We've gotten them gc to go out to eat and they never use them. What do you think? any ideas?

2007-06-18 10:48:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 25, he's 30. Been together one year, were friends for 3 years before that. We both live in California. He once said that if he couldn't make things work out here, he would contemplate moving back to Virginia, where he's from and that he would definatly want me to come with him. I talked the other day about my interest in maybe relocating for the sake of saving money, getting more for my dollar, etc...and his response was that he didn't think I'd be able to survive the cold and that he's lived in so many other climates but I haven't and I wouldn't make it. My question is, isn't he being a hypocrite here? If the decision to move was his, I would be expected to move but if it were mine, he doesn't seem as willing....Thoughts?

2007-06-18 10:48:08 · 12 answers · asked by Dr. Kat 5 in Marriage & Divorce

The married couple in our neighbourhood often fights. They usually yell at each other, smashing dishes and other noise is heard. There is probably some physical violence too. They also have three small children. I think they are from 1 to 4 years old boys.

Yesterday at night they had an especially hard fight. It woke me up. The children were crying and screaming and I was very upset by this. I was very sad for the kids that have to grow up in such an enviroment.

Anyway I dont know the couple by person, I only see them on the street from time to time. They also dont seem to have any contact with their neighbours.
I would like to do something, at least to help the kids.. Next time I decided to call the police if such incident occurs, this time nobody of their neighbours did that, I think. The police should then contact social department, but that probably will not help much.

Does anyone have an idea what could be done?

2007-06-18 10:46:52 · 16 answers · asked by GoldenRule 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-18 10:45:07 · 15 answers · asked by mo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Over the weekend, I was at my girlfriend's parents house(They already don't appreciate me).

I used their toilet and I basically did a number (2) but, what I didn't know was that their plumbing wasn't all that great. So, the toilet overfilled with all the extra ingredients but, that's not where it gets worse.

I basically used their towels to sort of clean up the mess and threw it out of the bathroom window. Hoping nobody would find out. Well, let's just say the dad was on the side of the house BBQing.

I was very apologetic but, I still feel stupid for the remainder of 5 hours that I was there.

Does anyone have an idea how I can recover from such emarrassing moment. Specially when the family doesn't like you to begin with?

2007-06-18 10:43:02 · 7 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When a couple gets serious and they want to further their lives together.

2007-06-18 10:40:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

share your story!
this is mine.
im 14 my dad was a severe acholic. he passed away in this passed late march. for the early ages of my life he was my best friend. we did talk for the last year of his life i saw him on his birth day but he threw me out of the house and on x-mas he was passed out the whole time. i saw him one more time in feb. he ran off the rode and almost hit a car head on. that was it. march 15th he was in the hospital he had been in and out of ICU for the past week but on thrisday we went to see him and they said that he was going to be ok and go home on monday so over the weekend i didnt see him tuesday my mom came and picked me up from school and then we went to go to get my brother from school she told us that dad wasnt doing well and we need o go and say bye. we arrived at the hospital and they said that no matter what happens he has no chance in living so we decided to go ahead and go. he died that night nd its been a struggle for me ever since

2007-06-18 10:37:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-husband has moved due to job reasons. He has sole physical and legal custody of our 15 year old daughter.

The home that they were living in has been sold. Now, our daughter has to move to where I live, stay in the same state with her grandmother or move to where her Dad lives.

I think that he does not want to take responsibility for her in the new town that he is living in.

Her grandmother lives in another city. So, either my daughter would have to change schools or her grandmother would have to drop and pick her up from school each day.

I am willing to have her come stay with me. Yet, my ex-husband does not want to send her to me.

I don't know how things will work out. I have repeatedly asked my ex-husband to send our child to me. He does not agree.

He wants us all to move to the new town where he is and live as a family.

I am hoping and praying that things work out for the best....I don't know what else to do.

2007-06-18 10:36:16 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Should you be happy for them? The marriage ended on good terms, and your bestfriend is like your sister. Is this against "friend code", or should you be ok with it? Help!!

2007-06-18 10:35:59 · 23 answers · asked by wicked 1 in Marriage & Divorce

His 2 teenage sons live with there mother 3 blocks away. Fathers day came and went without even a phone call from the kids. This after he bought both of them cars, gave them credit cards, pays for everything literally... no kidding.
He says he is good friends with their mother. I say he is being used by their mother and she is a manipulative hole looking out for herself and playing games with the kids. I would be ashamed not to see my dad on the holiday after all the money he spends on these kids.
Should I say anything at all or just keep quiet?

2007-06-18 10:35:58 · 11 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

im 15 yrs old male.. when it comes to girls i am a complete failure. any advice?

2007-06-18 10:32:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is 19 yrs old, but she lives here with me. I called her today and she told me she was staying at her dads for the fathers day weekend. I think she is a bold faced liar and has shacked up with another loser. She lies and I cannot handle her acting like a whore. The town where she does her dirt has a population of about 2400 people.
She is not on birth control and I am sure she is with some guy who is using her for a piece of ***. She has really big maturity issues. How should I respond to her shinannigans again?

2007-06-18 10:32:13 · 5 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

Hey everyone!!!

I am 4 months 4 days pregnant with my first baby, by an amazing man, we have been together for a year and half and love each other dearly. The pregnancy slipped up on us but i couldnt be more happier.

The thing is I am 18 and he is 19, He has a great career and very succesful and established already because he is form jamaica and in jamaica u graduate from high school at 16.

He has been hinting marriage, His mom has even been asking me how i felt about it, And i am excited, my family likes him, his moter LOVES me, and things are good, we have are little arguments but thats with any relationship.

Are we to young to consider marriage??

Would it be weird to get married when im like 20?

I love him and this is something we are really considering.

I have a feeling he is goin to propose SOON.

Im excited!

Thanks people

2007-06-18 10:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by babiilove101 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so he likes me and i dont understand why he wont just break up with his girl!!he told me that he doesnt like her!!!but everything is always about them!!!

2007-06-18 10:31:02 · 17 answers · asked by cutie-patooty 1 in Singles & Dating