She is 19 yrs old, but she lives here with me. I called her today and she told me she was staying at her dads for the fathers day weekend. I think she is a bold faced liar and has shacked up with another loser. She lies and I cannot handle her acting like a whore. The town where she does her dirt has a population of about 2400 people.
She is not on birth control and I am sure she is with some guy who is using her for a piece of ***. She has really big maturity issues. How should I respond to her shinannigans again?
2007-06-18 10:32:13 · 5 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I worked all weekend, so I could help her buy a car which she is driving around in. She really didnt live with me until about 3 yrs ago. She spent about 5 yrs living with her dad and needless to say his morals are not the same as mine. He picks his holes up out of the bars and when they move on, he finds another one. We are on about #4.
2007-06-18 10:38:53 · update #1
She is old enough to show some respect by letting you know she is safe and ok. Its just common courtesy for people who live in the same house. If she had been kidnapped shed be out of luck wouldnt she because you wouldnt know to call the police.
I would pack her stuff and tell her its time to move out. Theres no reason you should have to deal with this stress of not knowing where she is and if shes ok.
If shes old enough to do what shes doing then shes old enough to have a job and be responsible for herself in her own place.
You better be bold about this or it wont change.
2007-06-18 10:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was a young teen I would suggest boot camp, however she is now a legal adult regardless if she acts like one or not. Its time for a little tough love. You need to find her and ensure she is safe. When you do find she is safe let her know that she obviously has a place to go and now she can attempt to make it on her own, you will no longer support her and her bad habits. When she is ready to get her life together you will be more than willing to help her up off her face dust her off and begin a true life, until then she needs to be responsible for her own choices and actions.
In the mean time find her to ensure 1. she is safe 2. the place she is at isn't a place that will actually cause her harm (life/death) situation 3. Ensure she isn't caught up on drugs (ifs so get her in treatment)
2007-06-18 10:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your daughter cannot respect the rules of your household, then you should explain to her that since she has reached the age of maturity, then she needs to move out. Lock the doors and enforce this rule at all cost. She will miss you and the safety and comfort of home in no time. Welcome her to adulthood with tough love. I've done this with my son and he begged to come back home.
2007-06-18 10:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by havanablu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to move out. She's 19, it's time.
2007-06-18 10:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope she didn't take after her mother??? Throw her asse out.
2007-06-18 10:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Twinkle♥Toes 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋