Family & Relationships - 18 June 2007

He thinks I do not know about it, but because he is computer illiterate, he does not know that I can look up what sites have been visited.

2007-06-18 10:30:20 · 20 answers · asked by snowflake 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We were out with her friends and she was driving. Her friends suggested a kit aimed at males where they are strapped to the seat. Mouth strap optional or essential? lol...............they made me ask this one! lol

2007-06-18 10:30:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive got a mate whos proper ugly yet he pulls all the prettiest females
Hes skinny, hes got acne and he drinks loads lol
Yet when i was single (before i was engaged) women didnt approach me too often - yet i dont think im that bad looking

is it personality you go for, or outward self confidence that attracts you most too us men?

2007-06-18 10:29:34 · 24 answers · asked by villa_mad_lad 1 in Singles & Dating

so every friend that is a girl that i have says im an awesome guy who knows how to treat a lady w/ respect yet does not wanna go out w/ me at all, they all just wanna be friends with me. so they choose to go out w/ guys that dont respect them or treat them badly (not all of them do this). i know that girls wanna go out w/ a bad boy and that im the type of guy that they would marry. but i would like to have some experience in my life before i get married.

dont get me wrong im still really outgoing and stuff like that it just doesnt come out when it involves girls and i dont let people walk all over me and use me.

so i was wondering why do some girls go out w/ a guy that doesnt respect her or a guy that treats her bad? why dont they pick the "nice guy"?

2007-06-18 10:28:11 · 13 answers · asked by jmon 3 in Singles & Dating

I currently feel a deep void in my heart. I'm a young girl, whos never really had her heart broken and yet I feel as if I can't love someone I wish I could. I don't feel that warm feeling for my BF that I used to feel. I know I wouldn't die for him. Yet I know I want to spend the rest of my life with my BF. I know I would be with him still even if he accidently (not out of affair) contracted an STD, I know I want children with him. I know that maybe even he did cheat I'd still be with him. Yet, my heart feels empty. I told him yesterday I don't love him, and his reaction has torn me apart. I feel cruel and devoid of normal human emottions. Now he doesn't want to be with me, but claims to still love me, but doens't want to be a fool. I want to love him, but I think I'm just incapable of loving someone. I just don't think I'll ever feel that warm feeling in my heart like we had in the beginning ever again.....

2007-06-18 10:26:10 · 8 answers · asked by A 3 in Singles & Dating

I choose the single for life thing in my 20s. I might as well just end it.

2007-06-18 10:24:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My dad divorced her and did just leave her hanging with bills that he normally takes care of among other things and she expects me to hate him and only talk to him when she wants me to convince him to help her more. I don't want to be involved at all. She is playing the role of the victim and maybe my dad should help her more during this time, but she is always getting me to ask him to help more bc she thinks he will listen to me. I don't want to be involved at all. I love both of my parents regardless of anything and she can't seem to understand how I can even talk to him after he did this unless its to convince him to help her more. I can't get through to her and all she does is cry about how I he f***ed her over and how it hurts her that I stay in contact with him. I don't know what to do, I can't get through to her. I want my dad to help her more, but I don't want to be the middleman either.

2007-06-18 10:24:19 · 23 answers · asked by kristajade 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-18 10:23:23 · 2 answers · asked by Linda W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy a few nights ago and we hung out the other night. Hes a really nice and sweet guy, but very clingy already!! He always has to have contact with me in some way. Its a little uncomfortable and making me not that into him. Should I break it off before it gets worse?

2007-06-18 10:22:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had been spending the night watching basketball on tv and getting drunk,when i got thirsty for another beer and I went to the garage (freezer in the garage) catching my wife making out with the next door neighbor who is married himself,should I be jealous or keep drinking my beer.

2007-06-18 10:22:10 · 26 answers · asked by Thomas W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We just bought a new house together, we are not married yet and dont really have anything for the house. Do you think it is ok or just wrong to do a gift registry for our party? I need some feed back I Say No! But he says Yes! What do yall think?

2007-06-18 10:21:53 · 3 answers · asked by Tinker1705 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have organised a smaller payment plan with the mortgage company but she has sabotaged this and wants the full payment "so we can have a mortgage holiday in 9 months" !
mmmm...interesting,
she wont even discuss reducing the price of the house.
she works the same hours as me and earns the same,

what the hell can i do to get the house sold?

already sent a solicitors letter, uk question

2007-06-18 10:21:49 · 1 answers · asked by SIMON T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-18 10:20:20 · 8 answers · asked by Kelsey 5 in Singles & Dating

I feel that my family members gossip about my life. I am divorced and my child lives with her Dad in another state.

They discuss the details of my prior family life and also what is happening now with my daughter.

I don't do that to them and resent my brother, mom, dad and cousin for doing this.

The only thing I can do is change the subject to talk about neutral things.

I don't like the fact that my brother and cousin know so much about my personal life, but don't know what to do. They hear it from my ex-husband and daughter.

I will try to change the subject and ignore it as much as possible.

What else can I do?

I have decided not to talk to my cousin about my personal life because she just seems to talk too much about it to others, etc.

My brother is of no help and never has been. He just communicated with my ex thinking he would be able to meet my daughter and it backfired in his face. I have decided to ignore him also for some time.

2007-06-18 10:20:01 · 3 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

I have a friend who was married last summer is already going through a divorce. I'm getting married in Sept. and would like to include her in my wedding, even though I wasn't in hers. I'd like her to do a reading. Even though it isn't the role of a bridesmaid, is it tacky for me to ask her to be in my wedding while she's going through so much right now??? Any advice/opinions would be greatly appreciated!!

2007-06-18 10:19:55 · 17 answers · asked by gliterquen 1 in Weddings

wht if u had a boyfirned whom u really loved n well dint talk to him in a while... and its long distance relationship and u broke up with him cuz he was actiing really rude with you ...like when u said " im goin i wont ever come back if i go" he said " fine go "....does it mean he did love u..or mite he be hurt by u breakin up?

2007-06-18 10:18:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I recently found out that the guy i have been in love with for 4 years has felt the same way about me. His best friend is my ex boyfriend. My exboyfriend and I dated for around 6 years and for the past couple of years I have developed feelings for his best friend. My ex is rotten, he lied and cheated on me the entire time we dated. Well recently I was with this guy im in love with and we kissed and stuff and just talked about everything. He wants to spend the rest of his life with me but he doesnt want to lose my ex (his best friend) as a friend becasue they have been best friends forever. He told me that me and him cannot go anywhere from here. I know he wants to and I want to more than anything else in the entire world. You should be with the one you love right? So what is some good advice for me and him? Should we wait and see where it goes or should we confess to everyone and see where that goes?

2007-06-18 10:18:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my wife when she was 17 and I 24. I was married at the time but not happy at all. I left my then wife and we started dating. We had a child and eventually got married.This is what I thought we both wanted.Not just because we had a child but,because we loved each other very much as well. She was a good wife. I loved her very much but must admit that I didn't put an equal amount of effort as she did. I just never knew how this affected her cuz, she did not communicate with me. So instead of talking to me she started talking to another man behind my back. She says he shows her attention. They haven't done anything sexually, just talked.Please know that I would of done anything to save our marriage. But she never told me how serious it was.Some say she could just be putting all the blame on me so she doesn't feel guilty. I can still tell she cares but she seems to be done with us.I know I have rights as a father but have no money to get legal help at this time. What should I do?

2007-06-18 10:17:51 · 8 answers · asked by George J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is a total SLT! She thinks she looks hot. And she is always wearing extremely short skirts. Do I tell her something.



I sound Jealous, but I'm not it's just that she has gotten "cocky" and she thinks everybody likes her.

2007-06-18 10:15:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why dooo so many people want to have sex ALL THE TIME

2007-06-18 10:15:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sorry I asked twice I just need to reword this;

He goes out every other weekend with his buddies, doesn't come home till dawn. I never ask him what he does. I'm telling him everything up front. Its a girls weekend out no men are coming with us.(he knows some of my friends husbands)..he is free to go out whenever he wants. I plan to leave Friday night and come back Sunday morning. So its a quick trip. Could it be his own consience? I don't know .... What should I do..Why are men so insecure?

2007-06-18 10:15:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend asked me if I wanted to go over to his house for a sleepover. I said I would asked my mom. Well, I never did... I'm just afraid that she'll say no, your too young, or it's a school night, or some other excuse. There will be no one else at the sleepover just him and me. He also has awesome board games that I would like to play. How should I tell her this? I'm 12 so I'm guessing she'll say no, not with a boy.

2007-06-18 10:14:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I notice alot of fat computer guys who on their myspace profile put porn stars/strippers. They make banners for these girls and graphis and leave them messages telling them their hot, then these girls have them doing their web pages, these guys think they have a shot cause these girls converse with them, do they realize their laughing so loud at these jerks??

2007-06-18 10:12:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is this flirtting?

2007-06-18 10:11:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy likes me he goes to my church and thats how i know him he called me yesturday on my cellphone and he asked if i want to go to the movies with him. i said i will if my parents are ok , but i never really gave him a answer. i dont know wat to do. i mean i like him but i dont want to go to the movies with him and lead him on then when school starts back up flirt with another guy. because i do flirt with other guys and i dont want to hurt him. wat should i do about this?

2007-06-18 10:11:41 · 10 answers · asked by elaina 2 in Singles & Dating

I was married in 1978 in Virgina by a Justice of the Peace. The marriage was a secret. A year later I married the same man by a minister in Maryland (just as if we had never been married). In 1992 we got divorced by the Virginia court, although I was living in Maryland. The divorce papers show the marriage date as being the 1978 date. Now I am getting married again in Maryland. Will Maryland still consider me married? Will they do a record search if I don't say anything or will they take the divorce decree as good enough?

2007-06-18 10:11:34 · 2 answers · asked by JaguarWoman 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK....If you (MEN) cheated on your spouse, how would you try to convince your spouse she is the one you want to be with....Also, do you think you would ever cheat again....

2007-06-18 10:10:26 · 7 answers · asked by divaliscous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-18 10:10:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is 33, I am 32, He runs a bar, I sell houses for a living. He is recently separated and has three kids. I've never been married nor have any kids. We both have similar taste in music (which is apparently a very important issue for both of us), he is fun, smart, cute, and simple, he is opinionated but open minded as well. He listens to me, and said my smile fits me well.

The difficult part is that he just got separated (claims to be very happy about it), and he is quite focused on raising his three kids (which I applaud). I need to know how to proceed, I don't want to come onto him too strong or do nothing about it. I truly like him.

What would you do?

2007-06-18 10:07:40 · 1 answers · asked by Gabriela 3 in Singles & Dating

I`ve been in a relationship for 2 and a half years and I don`t know what to do. Virginity is something very important for me but now is 21-st century and noone cares about it.Please help me what should i do?

2007-06-18 10:05:25 · 10 answers · asked by Aleksandra K 1 in Singles & Dating