so every friend that is a girl that i have says im an awesome guy who knows how to treat a lady w/ respect yet does not wanna go out w/ me at all, they all just wanna be friends with me. so they choose to go out w/ guys that dont respect them or treat them badly (not all of them do this). i know that girls wanna go out w/ a bad boy and that im the type of guy that they would marry. but i would like to have some experience in my life before i get married.
dont get me wrong im still really outgoing and stuff like that it just doesnt come out when it involves girls and i dont let people walk all over me and use me.
so i was wondering why do some girls go out w/ a guy that doesnt respect her or a guy that treats her bad? why dont they pick the "nice guy"?
2007-06-18 10:28:11 · 13 answers · asked by jmon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its because that most Nice guys are very shy, or so afraid of being embarrassed when it comes to girls / females.
The "dudes" make there motto's in being smooth movers, so don't care as much because its just a big ego trip for most of them.
2007-06-18 10:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I answer this question a lot. I'm totally cool with it though. I was just making a statement. Anyway, not all girls want to be with jerks. The ones who do end up in relationships with ******* most likely grew up with an abusive male, whether it be a father, guardian or brother. To them, it's what they consider normal, so they'll date men like this because it's familiar to them. Just continue to be the good guy that you are and eventually a girl will come along who appreciates you for the morals and beliefs that you have.
2007-06-18 10:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kori spelled backwards is Irok 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're anything like me, there are plenty of girls out there who would date you but you don't like any of them. You just go for the ones who are already taken or are attracted to jerks. You can be the nice guy contrasted to the jerks they go out with. And it would be oh so wonderful if one day the magic would happen and they would come to their senses and start liking you. It's a narcissistic fantasy, used to deny that you're just as human as any other guy out there, and to preserve the hope of ideal love. You will have disagreements, arguments, thoughts of infidelity and breaking up, and all of the lovely things that accompany normal human relationships.
If this shoe seems to fit, try it on. Otherwise, please disregard it and proceeed to the next answer.
2007-06-18 10:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by LG 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason guys want slutty girls.
Nice guys are generally "nice" in bed. Jackasses will pin a girl to the wall and give her a night she won't forget.
Nice girls are generally too proper to even go to bed. Sluts will ride a guy all night long.
It comes down to sex. You either want no sex or you need to be more of an ******. Your decision.
2007-06-18 10:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of girls know that nice guys won't give them some unlike other bad boys will.
2007-06-18 10:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pick the nice guy but maybe the girl who pick the bad guy just think he's good looking. I think a lot of things matter not just the appearance, but that's just me not everyone.
2007-06-18 10:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I suppose one of the reasons is that most badass guys have more sex appeal than the nice guy. The badass is more daring and just so you know. But eventually the girl with fall for the nice guy... when they are mature enough.
2007-06-18 10:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by francesca C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. As you get older, women will be looking for a nice guy like yourself, and you will have to take care of the bad guys kids.
2007-06-18 10:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Nep 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the bad boy is a challenge and we arent afraid of that. i personally like the nice guys. i just make a mistake and choose the bad boy when i dont even relize it
2007-06-18 10:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by ~*PiRaTeQuEeN*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say dat was always tru but a happy medium is good. im into dis guy whose really kind "the type ud marry" but hes still hot and bit ruff round da edges. it dont mata wot lable u give ur self its just dat u aint met the right girl
2007-06-18 10:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋