Family & Relationships - 18 June 2007

Who should walk me down the isle? I'm not very close to my mother either. Should I walk down alone? What about the father/daughter dance and all that? I want my fiancee to have a mother/son dance because they are close, but will it be really uncomfortable for me to not have the same kind of thing? Has anyone else had this situation?

2007-06-18 10:04:18 · 18 answers · asked by Tanya 1 in Weddings

2007-06-18 10:04:04 · 27 answers · asked by Marcus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i did Annette and i started talking online in the singles chat we talked for about 2 mnths everyday all day we found that we were for one another and then April 3rd i went on a 2400 mile trip to go get her and her clothes and moved her in with me and this was the best move i ever made im so much happier than i ever been and im 35 and was married in the past for 14 yrs and got 2 kids that are now teenagers so yes you can find true love and ur soul mate online go to singleschat.com and see what god may have for you and we are planning to be married next year

2007-06-18 09:59:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 09:58:12 · 34 answers · asked by claire n 1 in Weddings

We never had a wedding, we just went to the justic of peace, and now I want to have a wedding to renew our vows, but my husband thinks it is dumb, and it is to soon to be renewing our vows.

2007-06-18 09:54:10 · 12 answers · asked by RJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-18 09:52:18 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have not had sex for 6 weeks! He masturbates and everything but he does not seem to want sex! He always says that he is to tired. I was out of town all last week and he asked me to send him naked pictures of myself so I know that he still finds me attractive but why would he not want to have sex? Its usually not the woman wanting sex more than the man!!!
He is 33 and Im only 23!! I NEED SEX

2007-06-18 09:52:01 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffany C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was with my ex bf for 2 years.we were happy together but he loved more than i did.i wanted him as my best guy friend not my bf but he really liked me.i broke up because i didnt want to hurt him and didnt want him to think of me that much.i wasnt sure if i loved him or not so i decided to broke up and dont hurt him more.but he said you can always come back and im your friend forever.
after a year i met another guy,the one i was looking for.i really love my bf and he loves me too.unfortunatly he wants to go abroad with his family and maybe never come back.
i always think about my ex bf,and in this sever moments i really need to talk to someone i mean a good friend,do you think i can call him? does he still think about me?please tell me what to do?

2007-06-18 09:51:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People just DONT GET IT that I am perfectly content with my single life living alone in my new home with nobody to answer to except myself. These same people are usually the ones who are miserable STUCK inside a married with kids/ home/ cars they cant afford with no life savings to speak of with huge debt...... NO THANKS, I will stay single !

2007-06-18 09:51:32 · 17 answers · asked by NAMELESS ID 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Husband is having an affair with another married woman. I have been in a living hell. I want so much for him to be with me. He says he is confused. The other woman wants to leave her husband, to be with mine! She is waiting for him to leave me. We have 2 very small children, they love their father so much, I work nights, so he is there every night giving them dinner, bathing them, playing with them. They will be crushed if he is not home. I will be crushed, I love him and want this to work out, Is it possible for him to return his love to me, if he thinks he is in love with this other woman, will he realize the effects it will have on his children. He is still home with me, if he doesn't love me, why is he still here? is there any hope?

2007-06-18 09:48:32 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking to my male cousin about dating in general, and the topic of preferred weight came up. He said something that I found interesting... That he feels he HAS to date thinner girls to maintain his status with "the guys." Now, he is not in the popular crowd or jocks or anything, he just hangs out with normal guys in a normal-sized crowd. He said if he was less social or less concerned with what his group would think of him, he would LOVE to date a bigger girl (not HUGE, but just chubby). He claims that he find them: "more comfortable to bang" (his words, obviously), better cooks (and just appreciate a good meal more), and less vain.

I find this all really odd, because I've always just assumed that guys preferred thinner girls... but is there some kind of social stigma with being the guy "dating a fat girl" that makes guys feel they HAVE to date the thinner girl?

Let me know what you think... Or if my cousin is just crazy... :)

2007-06-18 09:47:58 · 44 answers · asked by megr_b 3 in Singles & Dating

I've separated from my husband ,and wee have 3 kids.He is 20 years older than me and I've decided to leave him due to the fact that I never was In love with him....( and also some issues that wee had )..
I've been trying my luck ...but all the guy's that I've dated turned out to only want one thing ( s*x)
My Ex it's been asking me to go back ...but I still don't love him ...I just feel sorry for him....What should I do in this situation ?

2007-06-18 09:44:31 · 27 answers · asked by Juliet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-18 09:39:49 · 24 answers · asked by Lizzy 1 in Friends

I never understood the sneaking around thing. And WOMEN, you do it just as much as men. Makes me sick...NO MORALS whatsoever!

2007-06-18 09:38:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think that people that never get married and have children never truly mature? All the time I hear people saying that this is true, but I disagree as I am mature and do not have children and I am not married, nor do I ever plan to be.

2007-06-18 09:37:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Comparing it to living together under the same conditions.

2007-06-18 09:37:25 · 22 answers · asked by KAZONE 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm single and i'm interested in a certain male friend of my sister's partner, but i've only spoken once to him and that was more than a year ago. I would like to meet him again but i don't know how, since my sister's partner doesn't have much contact with this man anymore. At the time i've spoken to him i wasn't interested in men whatsoever since my ex just broke up a week ago back then so i needed time to be alone, i wasn't interested in dating anybody back then. What would you do in this case?

2007-06-18 09:35:28 · 2 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I are on the verge of losing each other. We love each other dearly but, her family does not approve of me. We are both financially stable and ready for a child. We both feel trap but, she must(cultural differences) think of her family (WANTS AND NEEDS)first before herself. She's Chinese form Hong Kong and I am mixed asian and caucasian. But, not traditional as you can tell.

Will having a baby save our relationship? Will it help us get out of this cultural rut that we are in? We are both stuck between a rock and a hard place right now.

I know she doesn't mind having a baby with me, even if it's accidental. The reason why I'm asking is would it give us a good enough reason or excuse so her family would just give up.

They want her to marry this guy that's full blooded chinese and boring. It should say that its almost an arrange marriage and I am getting desperate here of losing her.

What should I do? have a baby with her or not?

How far shouldI go?

2007-06-18 09:34:32 · 28 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i know this may sound strange but, I would like to see if there is a difference in race on the way a man kisses a woman. Should I do it and if so where should I begin? Or should I just for get the idea that it makes no difference what so ever on the race.

2007-06-18 09:32:56 · 36 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 09:31:51 · 2 answers · asked by Nora Jones 1 in Singles & Dating

He will be 15 months when we get married.... too young to say his own vows or really understand. We want to include him when saying our vows to each other and I cant seem to come up with the right words to use.... Any suggestions would be great!!!

2007-06-18 09:30:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Just take a walk at your local shopping mall. Statistically, in 7 out of 10 couples, women usually have a beast attached to their arm. The other 3 out of 10, the guy is just "ok" looking, still uglier than the girl.
Girls claim "we see guys for who they are on the inside" blah blah blah. In most of these cases, the guys have worse personalities than their looks. Why do girls keep their standards so low? Guys would step it up a bit if you seriously expected more from them.

2007-06-18 09:30:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

right. another one of these...

the guy i like (i'm 15, nearly 16) i think he likes me. he texts me loads, and all that stuff...but he never really talks to me at school. there's eye contact and definite text flirting, but where do i stand? does he like me? is he shy or what??

2007-06-18 09:24:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Supposedly he's asked people at work if they've seen it but he hasn't looked hard enough for it. It's already been 3 weeks and no ring. I am very upset that he was careless about it and didn't even realize he didn't have his ring. I would totally frake out if I would loose mine. Do you think I've over reacting? He wouldn't like it if I were roaming the streets or at work with out my rings.

2007-06-18 09:24:44 · 35 answers · asked by Hot Mom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex bf texted me last night n told me that he wanted me back bc he was at a party with his bro n his girl n the ex saw them dancing together n he said he wanted 2 cry bc he missed me we broke up n he has broken up with me a lot in the last month we were together this last time we havent talked on the phone in a while i texted him but to tell him thanks for the great ref i got the job bc of that but he lives in CA n has broke my heart so many time i just cant take another one like this last 1 it not that i dont love him i love him to death but i also strated to talk to another guy n he is here with me n i like him we get along great n can talk for hrs but it is new what do i do stay with this new guy or tell my ex i will take him back he told me he loved me n knows he wants 2 spend the rest of his life with me n no 1else i was sure of that 2 but now i was just starting 2 move on bc we havent talked n he told me he didnt want 2 me now he say he need to hear my voice what do i do

2007-06-18 09:22:52 · 11 answers · asked by SHELL 2 in Singles & Dating

Since my son was born, I have been inviting my Aunt, Uncle and their family to come to my house for different family functions. He is now 6. I never get an RSVP and they never show up. Later I see them at the mall and they act like nothing is wrong and give me a lame excuse as to why they couldn't come. Last time it was their daughter was sick. She is a Senior in College.

I no longer want to even bother inviting them. I also want to take them off the X-mas card list since I have only gotten a handful from them. What do you think?

2007-06-18 09:21:40 · 12 answers · asked by apphelp1973 1 in Family

Rember text message!
nothing like 2 pages long!

2007-06-18 09:20:51 · 3 answers · asked by bob 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 19 but it's scary how i keep reading people that are married and having kids in their early 20s!! I just think thats when my party time is gonna begin!! Hope my friends wont do that!

2007-06-18 09:20:37 · 13 answers · asked by Mellissa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I was telling my friend about how awesome my summer is going, and her reply was "get a life". My life is more interesting than hers!!!! I think she is jealous......what is a good comeback for "get a life"?

2007-06-18 09:17:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Where is a good place to hide our home made movies?? Kids are getting older we have them locked up but we are worried.

2007-06-18 09:16:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce