There's a certain man i would like to meet but i don't know how?

Question

I'm single and i'm interested in a certain male friend of my sister's partner, but i've only spoken once to him and that was more than a year ago. I would like to meet him again but i don't know how, since my sister's partner doesn't have much contact with this man anymore. At the time i've spoken to him i wasn't interested in men whatsoever since my ex just broke up a week ago back then so i needed time to be alone, i wasn't interested in dating anybody back then. What would you do in this case?

Thank you Mark H, this is a great advice. Most of your answers are great. :) Thanks again.

Answer 1

Make an inventory of what you know about him: where does he live, where does he work, does he belong to a gym and exercise regularly there, is he taking classes at a university [and if so what classes and when], does he belong to any social organizations, does he regularly attend the opera.

If it seems like I am setting you up to "stalk" this gentleman, quite frankly, I am. I am trying to turn you into a huntress.

Once you find out where he is, it is a simple matter just to walk up to him and say, "Hi, aren't you Steve. I am Regin, you know, Amélie's sister. We met last year at Bob's apartment."

The idea is to do enough to get your foot in the door and not so much that you get the door slammed in your face.

Answer 2

Maybe find someone else and GET A LIFE? You may not even like this guy anymore.