Why doesnt HE want sex?

Question

My husband and I have not had sex for 6 weeks! He masturbates and everything but he does not seem to want sex! He always says that he is to tired. I was out of town all last week and he asked me to send him naked pictures of myself so I know that he still finds me attractive but why would he not want to have sex? Its usually not the woman wanting sex more than the man!!!
He is 33 and Im only 23!! I NEED SEX

Answer 1

AND SO SHOULD YOU GET IT! BUT, be patient. Make a date with him....in advance, so that he can get a day off or leave work early...OVERTIME WILL KILL A MAN'S SEX DRIVE GREATLY.

The reason he masturbates is because he DOES NOT WANT ANYONE BUT YOU, BUT, IT TAKES SO MUCH ENERGY THAT HE DOES NOT HAVE. Masturbation is a "quick-fix" for releasing the sexual tension~~THAT IS ALL MEN REALLY NEED~ Not all men are into the foreplay, as women need for lubrication and because we JUST LIKE IT.

Feel good that he is not looking at another woman and by all means, send him the PIC's that he has requested. EXPRESS TO HIM HOW MUCH YOU ''NEED HIM'', AND THAT YOU DON'T WANT 'ANYONE ELSE'! SAY IT UNARGUMENTLY, YET FIRMLY. ""I AM TOO YOUNG TO BE WITHOUT!!"" Something to that effect or even make a joke of it.....BUT RUN THE POINT HOME.

SUGGEST GIVING HIM BATHS, YOU MASTURBATE IN FRONT OF HIM WITH DESIRING EYES...PLAY WITH FOOD IN THE BEDROOM....STRAWBERRYS ARE STILL GOOD WITH CREAM. You have to stimulate his desires to coincide with yours, when he has rested. It may also require that you adjust your schedule to his 'getting up hours'.

You said you had to send him the Pic's.....so that means his work takes him away for periods of time.....MAKE THE COMING HOME A CELEBRATION...dress lucratively, just to make dinner....(if you have kids....get a babysitter the first day&night away from home.) You are on a roll......KEEP THINKING! THAT'S RIGHT, LET YOUR IMAGINATION FLOW.....AND SO WILL HIS!

GOOD LUCK & GOD BLESS!

Answer 2

Girl, Just ask him why he doesn't want to have sex with you!

let him know that you know he masturbates and it makes you unconfortable that he rather think of himself an do himself rather than having an intimate realtion with you. Yeah it might be that you want and need sex and we all do when we are neglected sexually by our partner but you need to communicate that to him. My husband used to not want sex and this was in the begining of our marriage, but not because he was cheating on me or because he was mastubating (which he doesn't like to, he rather have me do it to him, I don't know he likes it better, he says he likes to feel the connection there is between us) I like that he makes me feel important and that he cares about our intimacy. My husband didn't want sex in the begining because he came home tired from work and all he wanted to do was sleep. Afterwards I told him he was making me feel like crap when I would aproach him and he would decline and I told him that there are other men out there that are willing to have sex with me but that the only one I wanted it from was him. Please talk to your man and make let him see what he's doing let him be in your shoes.
Good Luck!

Answer 3

Men and Women have different sexual peaks with age. Maybe he's over his sexual peak and doesn't need it as often as he once did. I know a couple that went through the same thing and they went to a counselor to get it figured out. It's all about the communication you have with your husband. Talk to him and make sure it's not something else.

Answer 4

He may just be tired, or stressed out from work. When he masturbates, all he has to think of is his pleasure. If he actually has sex, he probably wants to satisfy you as well, which takes more effort.

Answer 5

So there's a club for girls too?

Better get used to it sweetheart, my wife has been "tired" for going on ten years now.

Answer 6

There are many possible reasons.

-Depression
-Stress
-Illness
-Emotional tension
-Infidelity

The best way to find out? ASK HIM!!

Answer 7

Maybe he is getting it elsewhere