right. another one of these...
the guy i like (i'm 15, nearly 16) i think he likes me. he texts me loads, and all that stuff...but he never really talks to me at school. there's eye contact and definite text flirting, but where do i stand? does he like me? is he shy or what??
2007-06-18 09:24:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do u want to take it beyond where u r ? gow ith teh flow.. u have lots of time in world.. flirt around little and enjoy ur life.. its the age of hormones.. so carefull.. dont do anythgin u might regret llater
2007-06-18 09:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by virgogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sarah u wont know until you ask cause some may just flirt the best thing is ask him straight out you are a smart girl you want to know where you stand and your right in thinking that way you dont want him play with your feelings so dont a be shy because the longer you take to ask the more it will be on you....
2007-06-18 16:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation can be confusing- but only you can say where you really stand. You are getting these text messages from him but that isn't enough to conclude that this boy really likes you. We don't even know whether his attraction towards you is really genuine unless he comes up to you, and talks to you among other things.
We also don't even know whether this boy is just testing you as well. Is this guy a good one in school? Or do you hear rumors about him being a trickster of sort? Does he belong to a group of other boys who play around?....
I can say that you yourself are confused. If you find it really hard to know where you really stand, why not consider confronting this boy and ask him directly- does he really like you? Why can't he approach and talk to you in person instead?....
You are one teenager and I can associate myself with you when I was at your age. To get this cues from the opposite sex can be a wonderful feeling especially that somebody likes you. But this isn't enough for you to fall head over heels over this guy. If he's really determined, let him make his move and do the rest.
Overall, there isn't really anything for you to do. Either you let it pass and let the admiration die away or enjoy every bit of admiration and be surprised when this boy approaches you and makes his move.
2007-06-18 16:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Charlize101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no a couple guys exactly like this and this is what i did in this situation. and i think if he doesnt talk to you much you should be the one to start it and show him that he can be comortable round you in person. he is most likely shy and nervous around you, you should just joke around with him and start flirting so he will too and then when you do this he will know that you are comfortable around him, so he will be comfortable around you. if he still is weird around you after you try this, just simply ask him, "why are you weird around me in person?"
GOOD LUCK =] <3
2007-06-18 16:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's really shy. Try going up to him and say what's up. If nothing still then text him asking if he's shy and texting ain't gonna take u anywhere.
2007-06-18 16:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by killer P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. Make the first move. If you think he likes you, do somthing. I know it can be hard to read him, but come on we cant make the guys do ALL the work (just most of it,haha) no, but really just go up to him and say somthing cute or funny. He will appreaciate your talking to him, and it will get other guys attention because they notice confidence like that. good luck!!
Jenn
2007-06-18 16:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me sounds like he wants to hide the relationship. He dint want anyone knowing that you 2 go together. Those relationships people should stay out of not healthy at all!
2007-06-18 16:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people write better than they talk. I am one of them. I can write an entire book full of loving and kind things, but when I have to say them person to person.. the words go walkabout...so he doesnt even have to be shy... sometimes you just havent practised something.....
2007-06-18 16:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start showing someone else attention and watch your text-flirt squirm - it usually draws out even the shyest.
2007-06-18 16:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably getting an education. You should worry about your future, rather than what some punk *** 16 year old thinks about you.
2007-06-18 16:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by GODFATHER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋