Here I am at 40ish, lonely with a ton of money, why?

Question

I choose the single for life thing in my 20s. I might as well just end it.

Answer 1

Well, do you want to get back into the dating system?

Try some of those things like eHarmony

Answer 2

hey, sorry to hear you are feeling lonely but like the general concencus says, get out there and meet people. you dont say anything about you, your personality, have you been single but getting it out there with women or do you mean celebate. Money really really is not of concern to most honest loving people, yes we need it to survive and if you like the luxuries of life then great.. keep the money thing quiet when meeting people and once you know you have met someone special then you can tellher you have a ton of money. If you date and the woman goes on about money then yep she will be after what she can get. Most of us women want security, that doesnt mean being rich necessarily, but we want love, trust and laughs too and yes finances come into it but most of us want the other stuff in bucketloads, there are too many of you guys who are complete b.....ds (one or two of your answers gives the prime example) get out there and show how nice, kind, caring, loving and FUN you can be.
Hope you meet someone special, relax, open up a bit and enjoy

Answer 3

It isn't too late for a beautiful, lasting relationship. If you are afraid that the person you meet may just be after your money, don't let them know that you have it. Even if you live in an expensive house and drive a fancy vehicle, they will just think that you make payments like the rest of us. You could always ask for an ironclad prenup. Remember that you can't take it with you.

Answer 4

You might as well end what? Sounds like you focused more on making money then finding a life partner! When you finally meet someone I would try to leave money our of conversation until you truly know someone. You can find a wife with money but it might be harder to find love. Good luck buddy...it's never too late!

Answer 5

Maybe because you spent all your time worshiping money and all it takes to acquire it... as opposed to taking time to grow as a person and nurturing personal relationships.

It is not too late you are only 40 and the average man lives to be 73 so you have time.......... get to living man you have a vehicle that many lack money. It cannot buy happiness but it can assist you in doing memorable, meaningful things. Why not start by helping someone?

Answer 6

why would you even say that you should end your life?...that's talking crazy because if you want someone then just try and go out and even if your 40 or in your 40z then older women will find you attractive they may be younger too. just try a chat line and if your not in to that then go out to a club/Bar and just try to let the girls come to you buy them a few drinks but don't tell a women about your money just tell them you have a good life stile and you want to settle down with the right women of course and then make sure they don't take advantage of your money cause theirs women out there like that and that kind of women isn't good for any one. just try it and you never know.

Answer 7

Well, you chose to be financial responsible and it is not wrong. It is really hard nowadays to balance personal and professional life, and something has to suffer.

You are young enough to find somebody, but be prepared because it requires work. It might take a long time to search for the one for you and a lot of boring dates.

Answer 8

Money is not everything. Once you realize that you might actually be able to have a un-shallow meaningful relationship. Good luck and get back out there in the game!

Answer 9

Whatever you sow, that's what you reap. You obviously chose to invest your time and energies into making money, instead of investing yourself in a partner and a family.

The good news is that 40-ish does not sound too old to accomplish that. Go out, find yourself a great girl, and settle down with her!

Answer 10

If everyone kept to the same principles from when they were in their 20's the world would be a much sadder place. Start dating! Leykis 101 isn't for everyone!

Answer 11

if you found a crush try and act on it, if not go to your local shopping centers maybe you could make some eye contact or conversation there. theres nothing wrong with being in your 40's, just dont flaunt you have money or you'll end up with a woman who likes your money more than you.