Family & Relationships - 18 June 2007

2007-06-18 13:30:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok..so there are these two guys i really have feelings for and they both like me but the problem is i dont know who to choose!! There is one guy (jake) and he is 17 and really sweet. He is a model so of course he is dead sexy. he has big muscles, too. I havent know him for very long but he wants to go on a date. the problem is that there is another guy that i like aswell (james). He is 16 and he isnt near as hot as jake, but he isnt ugly. He is really sweet and i feel like i can talk to him about everything. He always flirts with me and tells me that im beautiful..etc. I talk to him on the phone every night. the problem is that i havent seen him for about 5 months....but im ready to see him again. So do i go for the REALLY hot older guy or the sweet, younger one(that i have known for a long time)? Can you help me?

2007-06-18 13:30:58 · 9 answers · asked by ♥i'm her♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I really wanted my boyfriend to be at my graduation tomorrow night. I asked him to take off months ago he took off and everything and told me he'd come. Now, all of a sudden he told me that Tuesday & Thursday nights mind you...are basketball nights with the guys and he hasn't played basketball in a long time. It turns out that between 7-9 are when basketball time is and my graduation starts at 7.

I asked him today if he was coming and he said no. To avoid arguments and such I said that's fine and invited my other guy friend. Problem being my other guy friend likes me. I kind-of have a thing for him too though very small and suttle. But he has been there for me when my boyfriend hasn't.

I haven't told my current boyfriend how hurt it makes me feel that he's not going. I don't really feel like explaining it to him because I know deep down no matter what I say it won't matter.

Now, I'm just going to ignore him for awhile is this wrong? Do you think he'll get the message I'm hurting?

2007-06-18 13:30:40 · 4 answers · asked by AskRita!? 1 in Singles & Dating

Why would someone that was TOTALLY sweet, All-American, family-oriented, and devoted for half a year have a change of heart and obviously pride for herself by sneaking back to her addictive 13-time on again off again bf...but then just TOTALLY switch her personality towards her family, her friends, me, and pretty much the world. When we have to get something from the other one that we left at their place, we talk on email and stuff, but she's turned into a total, different person altogether and, even if I'm like, "hey sorry it didn't work out, but I hope youre happy", she gets SUPER bitchy and "Hey, I don't need your attitude, alright?" I didn't cheat on HER. Girls, what's the deal with turning into a craba$$ towards the one that treated you good..when YOU screwed up?!

2007-06-18 13:30:10 · 3 answers · asked by rlfesty 3 in Singles & Dating

I meet a guy online he is 26 and i'm 21. We talked online and on the phone i have meet him once in person and it was at a public place. I have noticed that i only talk to him when he is at work. I have never talked to him on the weekends and after he gets off work. At first i didn't think anything of it because we were both busy and didn't have time to talk online or on the phone but now i'm starting to second guess it. What does everyone think? Should i just ask him about it or should i stop talking to him? Thanks for you help.

One last thing i don't know his home or cell number i only have his work number. but i have never asked for them either.

2007-06-18 13:29:25 · 8 answers · asked by Julia M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 13:28:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my b/f of 7 yrs has a daughter 10 yr old from a previous fling. he has always had on/off contact with her and up until 4 weekends ago he had not seen her for nearly 4 yrs. I am going to be truthful with you all, i hate the fact that he has a child with someone else (we have 3 children together). Anyway the past 4 weekends she has stayed with us. This wkend my b/f told her he would not be able to have her every wkend as he has to go and work away. When she ahs been comin over she has been tryin to make trouble and come between us and being rude to me. I understand she is probably jealous that her dad has moved on from her mom but i wont put up with it from someone elses child. We had a discussion about it today and i told him i would never try and stop him from seeing his daughter but i dont want to and that he will have to do it without me being there. It ended in an argument and we have fell out. I dont understand why when i have not tried to get him to stop seeing her?

2007-06-18 13:28:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is it asking too much if you ask your boyfriend to not act immature for a little bit, and pay attention to me and have a mature conversation.

2007-06-18 13:28:22 · 10 answers · asked by miss congeniality 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal to feel depressed when you dont talk to a person you are starting a new relationship with. Some times i feel like we dont talk enough when we dont talk, but we really talk all the time

2007-06-18 13:28:14 · 3 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

I left on an errand, returned early, found my husband looking at nudies on the net, tried to hide it, hasn't said sorry, it's been 7 months since we've had sex, I feel he has to"look" to be interested in me and I don't want him thinking about one of the woman he must have spent hours with on the net, while we make love (that hasn't happened in a VERY long time.) I refuse to have sex. I feel betrayed. I'm 200 lbs. 5'2"(always have been). Very low esteem about my appearance, kids are grown & gone. My 1st marriage, his 3rd. How do we fix our marriage been married for 10 years. I don't know how to let this go, can anyone help me? His 1st wife commited adultery, so he understands how feelings of love die, I do not hate him, but I don't love him anymore I don't think. I care deeply, but we don't even talk, it's like we are only roommates, and sometimes I get so angry,I get feelings of hatred for toward him for making me feel so ugly, worthless, undesireable, not loved. what do I do now?

2007-06-18 13:26:09 · 24 answers · asked by newbie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It sounds like he is retarded or something... I was totally digging him, until I heard him speak, and now I know he likes me. It's so weird how somethign so simple can turn me off so much.... what should I do.... I wish I could help it but I honestly can't.

2007-06-18 13:24:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do they like it when his gurlfriend and him are making out and she puts her hand on one of his legs really close to his pe***>?

weird question but y ea i gotta know

2007-06-18 13:23:55 · 33 answers · asked by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i get his guy that i really really like, if he doesn't like me?

2007-06-18 13:19:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-18 13:17:13 · 18 answers · asked by 12252 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so my brother is 26, 27 in a month. He is a manager at a local grocery store but still has a bmw convertible. He has been having money problems and is moving in with a friend to help his situation and to save some money. He always talks highly of himself and he actually gave up looking in the mirror for lent. He goes to a local tavern EVERY day to get something to drink.

Would you go out with him? If not please give a reason why....my family and I are trying to help him change. thank you!

2007-06-18 13:16:09 · 10 answers · asked by Matthew G 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-18 13:15:33 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so my birthday is coming up! I just came out of a horrible breakup and I feel that my ex is dropping hints that he wants to get back together again even though HE was the one who broke up with ME!. Well, since my birthday is coming up, I wrote a letter to God asking for my ex to admit to his feelings for me again around the time of my birthday. I stored the letter in an envelope full of pictures and notes that my ex wrote to me and stashed the envelope in the same place my bible is. I am a good and firm Catholic who prays to God every night and has faith that this birthday wish of mine will come true. Does having faith in this one abstract birthday wish and writing that letter make me stupid?

2007-06-18 13:15:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for about a year now, but me and my husband have been together for 5 years. I love him, but I feel like I am very dependant in this relationship. I get upset when he is in a bad mood and I let it affect my mood when he is irritated. I always feel like its my fault when he is unhappy, although I know that I am a wonderful wife and mother to our 2 children.
He is often short with me when we are talking and some days I try so hard to strike up a conversation with him but its like talking to a brick wall.....However, some days are absolutely wonderful and I can see a glimse of the man that I fell in love with and I am filled with joy...We have dicussed his frequent mood changes and he says that he is happy, but some days he just doesn't feel like talking because he works hard all day....Another problem is that I started going to college 2 years ago and I am doing really well, he has NEVER told me he is proud of me and this upsets me. I want him to be happy for me....

2007-06-18 13:10:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, here is the deal. I live in a sort of apartment complex you could say, and there is this guy down the hall who I have a total crush on. Well he started texting me and I was like "OMG he actually likes me" and little do I find out, he's texting my best friend right next to me, trying to hook up with both of us! So now we want to get back, but we need help getting back at him. So please tell us ways to get back at him.

P.s. Nothing too serious, like slashing car tires or stuff...we just want to make him think about it before he tries this **** again.

2007-06-18 13:08:48 · 21 answers · asked by Avenger? 1 in Singles & Dating

say to you that wouldn't sound so horribly cheesy?

Guys, what could you recommend for a shy gal here? Obviously he is just as shy as me, but he is not ending his bit of staring at me. I want to talk to him, but don’t know how. One of my classmates said to ask him what he finds so interesting outside of the window, as I sit against the window in class (and the blinds are closed, mind you). If there were a girl that you fancied, and would wish she would come talk to you, what kind of things would be ok to hear her say without sounding cheesy? Would asking him "what do you find so interesting outside of that window?" sound bad? I don't know , i am that shy...

2007-06-18 13:05:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is not a question but more of a thank you. Thank you for staying beautiful and thank you for keeping me interested by playing hard to get. I just want to let all of you beautiful women that the best feeling is the thrill of the chase. I love that feeling when i finally get that girl that i've been working so hard to get. Remember all of you are gorgeous. So remember to holla at ya boy ;-)

2007-06-18 13:04:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys, what would you do, if you came home to find a hot girl sitting on ur couch wearing "pleasing" clothes, and you could do whatever you wanted? what would ur reaction be?

10 points to the most creative answer!
details!!
no reports, say whatever, l won't report you for saying what some ppl find "rude"

2007-06-18 12:59:24 · 22 answers · asked by damsel in distress 1 in Singles & Dating

I own and manage six rentals, my girl thinks I'm joking about when we get married that I want a prenuptial. But how do I convince her that it's okay to ask for one. I mean I've poured blood sweat and tears (and a lot of money) into these places. And I want to protect my assets. And if the rolls we reversed I would have no problems signing and if we were to buy a house together I would think it's fair to split all assets.

2007-06-18 12:58:36 · 7 answers · asked by lance v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-18 12:56:43 · 19 answers · asked by tj 1 in Singles & Dating

Some boys mention that they like emotional girls. What do they mean by that?

2007-06-18 12:54:54 · 4 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-fiance cheated and lied to me, while I stayed faithful to him. I discovered he was seeing other women. He is from England and bought a nice truck, which he put in my name. He spent around $10,000 on a vacation with this girl from another country on what he referred to as their 10 days of paradise. He lied and seen her again, and is off again, he has been gone a month, telling me how much he loves me. He broke my heart over and over and I am through with him. Everyone at work is glad. They all say to keep the truck, it is paid for and in my name. I gave him 24 hours to tell me what he wanted with his stuff, that was 4 days ago. I was going to sell the truck and send him the money. I told him after 24 hours I was getting rid of his stuff. Should I keep the truck? Now he is sending me satanic messages on my cell phone.

2007-06-18 12:54:22 · 20 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is sort of like a sequal 2 my last question. my crush are sort of friends but I can never talk to him without me doing something stupid thats why i barelytalk to him all the time but we r still freinds. at least thats what i think. wat should I do!!!!???

2007-06-18 12:49:30 · 8 answers · asked by Saki-Sexual 3 in Singles & Dating

accept a woman in your life that once prefered to be with a bad boy instead of you and now she came back and says she love you ?

2007-06-18 12:49:06 · 8 answers · asked by julvert h 1 in Singles & Dating

I've read another question & answer about how some women stop wearing their engagement ring after they have tided the knot. Their husband has shelled out a lot of money for that ring. What does she do with it? It seems like a waste to keep it stored away in a box.

2007-06-18 12:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by The Red Inkstone 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm different than the other girls at my school.

I'm smart and arty and athletically lacking. I dress nice looking but not always what's in style, I prefere to be comfy than stylish. I'm not goth or girly or anything, I'm just me. I only have 1 best friend. Never had a boyfriend.

The other girls are slutty, wear well, revealing clothes. Most of them are sporty. None of them enjoy art like I do. They have tons of friends. They always have a boyfriend and won't stop talking about "Oh so and so is dating so and so, and so and so looks so ugly".

I don't want to be like them but I want to know, can a girl like me be just as good or pretty or well liked as them? Or am I doomed to an unsocial life.

2007-06-18 12:46:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating