accept a woman in your life that once prefered to be with a bad boy instead of you and now she came back and says she love you ?
2007-06-18 12:49:06 · 8 answers · asked by julvert h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
well im a very forgiving guy
2007-06-18 12:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you really mean by "nice guys"? Do you mean guys whose girlfriends leave them for other guys? Come on, man! "Nice" is great for a paternal friendship; not for sexual tension.
If she's a truly special person, she deserves a second chance. But just keep it cool. I'd let her back in, but with some conditions. If she broke your trust, you'll have to lay down some boundaries.
Maybe she went after the guy because you weren't enough of a challenge for her. She might like a little mystery.
She knows deep down that you're her kind of guy or she wouldn't have returned. Just make sure you put her in her place for leaving you the first time. You're not surprised she's back, are you? Let her know that you're in control and she'll respond like she didn't last time ... and she'll love you for it! And who knows? You might wind up loving her, as well!
2007-06-18 20:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think almost all women go thru a "bad boy" phase. It is exciting. Gets them worked up. Then it wears off after a while. They realize that "good guys" mean being dependable... picking them at time promised, coming to help with a flat tire, going to see your sick grandmother, and being there when she needs you. My wife went thru that and then "settled" for me 41 yrs ago. She was engaged to the bad boy when we started dating. She saw the truth in just a couple of months. She eventually proposed to me. I have never been sorry. My daughter did the same before "settling" for a really great guy that has never let her down in any way. Didn't you ever date the cute airhead with the big boobs then realize that cute and big boobs aren't really important.
2007-06-18 20:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be the temporary fill-in guy fool - until she she lines up the new jerk/cheater - then OK fine then
You are asking for big trouble
Keep in mind that once a guy is tagged a "nice guy" by a chick - it can never be undone - she will never be "in love" with you but only "in like" with you
So you are far better finding new chicks and be the bad guy/jerk/cheater they all love and crave
Chicks hardwiring DNA continually directs them toward seed spreaders -who had distinct evolutionary survival advantages
2007-06-18 20:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. If that happened to me, I would beieve that she was "settling". She has "had her fun" and now wants to settle down. Let me translate....you weren't good enough in the first place. She went out and realized how "bad boys" are really assholes. She "had her fun" which means she slept around and got crazy. She thinks it is out of her system, but will cheat on you down the road. Settling down, means that she realized she screwed up by dumping you in the first place and "wants you back". I wouldn't do it. But, I am generalizing here. Be careful.
2007-06-18 19:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by son_of_glen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes thats what it takes for a person to understand what they really want....bad boys paint a exciting picture bad in reality...its not cool to be getting into trouble all the time.
2007-06-18 19:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naa cus i live by the philosophy that there are so many amazing women in the world, and that i dont have to stick with one to soon.
2007-06-18 19:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess so
2007-06-18 19:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋