I'm different than the other girls at my school.
I'm smart and arty and athletically lacking. I dress nice looking but not always what's in style, I prefere to be comfy than stylish. I'm not goth or girly or anything, I'm just me. I only have 1 best friend. Never had a boyfriend.
The other girls are slutty, wear well, revealing clothes. Most of them are sporty. None of them enjoy art like I do. They have tons of friends. They always have a boyfriend and won't stop talking about "Oh so and so is dating so and so, and so and so looks so ugly".
I don't want to be like them but I want to know, can a girl like me be just as good or pretty or well liked as them? Or am I doomed to an unsocial life.
2007-06-18 12:46:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It isn't the way you look, or your love of art, or your choice of clothes, that is the problem. You just need to be a little more outgoing - put yourself out there. Be willing to talk with those who may not share your interests, and be willing to listen too. To get more friends, be more friendly. Say Hi.
You sound like a nice person so don't change into one of those judgmental girls who seems to think that running someone else down makes them feel better about themselves.
Stay true to who you are, just be willing to share that with others.
2007-06-18 12:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be like them, DON'T! There is never a reason that you should change yourself for other people. If you feel like dressing a certain way DO IT! There is no shame in being yourself. If you feel confident the way you are, and really learn how to show off your talents in art people will respect you for you. Having only one really good best friend is better than having 20 crappy ones that you can't trust or tell your inner most thoughts to. Even though you have never had a boyfriend there is nothing to worry about. One day there will be a guy that will like you for you, not because you "put out". Remember to be yourself, and if you are confident in yourself, than others will be confident in you!
2007-06-18 20:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not imitate others.. live the way you are comfortable and the more you try to do things you are not comfortable the more pain you will have to suffer..
2007-06-20 09:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by Capt. Nemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno whether your in highschool, middleschool or whatever, but dont worry about it. Its just how it seems to be at that age. You'll be better off being who you are, theres millions of people out there, youll find people you get along with.
2007-06-18 20:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by mto925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With one friend you're lucky.Why would you want to emulate,girls you don't respect.What real men want, are girls just like you
2007-06-18 19:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋